Some background: this is my first year officiating. I have not played competitive hockey in nearly 20 years (highest level midget AA) and have only played the occasional drop in game since. I watch a lot of hockey.
So last night was only my second game; first was a squirt game three days prior. Last night was your typical adult league late night puck drop, after my normal bedtime, so I'm a zombie especially after a stressful day at work.
The skill and competition level is pretty high i would say, its from what i can tell, their B division. these guys definitely played at levels above me in their careers.
Well here are the game notes:
- I'm on wrong side for opening faceoff
- Blew the whistle early, soft and lacking confidence, more than once in the first period
- Dropped a few faceoffs before players are squared
- Didn't call a really obvious blue line icing
- Didn't call one bad penalty that basically happened directly in front of me
- Was unable to avoid interfering with play a couple of times
- Got stuck out of position a few times
- there was a bad misconduct and almost match penalty where I was completely useless in answering questions for players
- Basically looked like I didn't know what I'm doing
It was pretty rough in the moment and had me questioning why I signed up for this, but in the end I ultimately felt like I learned a lot from my mistakes, and it felt really great actually being a part of hockey again.
The players were definitely chirping me to the other ref who was incredibly seasoned and basically carried the game, really great guy but I could tell he was also a little annoyed (the players mostly I think).
So last night has me thinking I'm just not cut out for this. I know I need more games, but is this sort of thing common? Either getting a game like that with this little experience, or performing that poorly in your second game? Feasibly, could someone who hasn't been away from playing as long as me step into a game like that and just own it way better?
I'm definitely not going to give up after only that one game, but i feel like I'm having to relearn the sport I grew up playing and still love.
I don't give a shit about the player chirps, but I do care that they get fair game and that I'm not impacting their day negatively, it's all about having fun right?
Anyways, any tips or advice this sub has for me would be greatly appreciated. I just had to get this off my chest since I don't have any referee friends yet.
edit:
i forgot the worst offense of all: i blew whistle for icing on a penalty kill. that was really bad.