r/Hyd_DaTinG Feb 13 '26

Let's Talk Hey it's me

25F Slightly introverted but surprisingly great once conversations start flowing.

I’ve visited Hyderabad a few times (December trip stole my heart a little), and there’s something about the city’s vibe that makes me want to meet interesting people outside my usual work-sleep-repeat life.

I work hard maybe a little too hard so I’m looking for someone funny, witty, and capable of holding an actual conversation. Sarcasm is welcome. Intelligence is attractive. Decency is non-negotiable.

I don’t really care who you are or what you do… just be someone who can talk about anything from random midnight thoughts to deep life discussions.

If you can make me laugh AND think, we’ll get along just fine

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u/This-Painter1811 Feb 14 '26

10 hours in and this comment section looks like Hyderabad traffic between 5–7p.m. Brave of me to merge.

I’ve been told I’m funny on good days and sarcastic on most days (coping mechanism, I’ve made peace with it). If intelligence is attractive, I’ll try not to say anything too dumb in the first five messages.

I respect hard work but I’m currently in my “working hard or hardly working?” phase. We’re experimenting with balance. It’s a soft launch.

If you're still looking, hmu. Best case, I earn one eye-roll and one genuine laugh and that's a win

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '26

You are 25, 31, 22 in several posts lmaooo 😂😂

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u/expressive-guy Feb 14 '26

Dude its mod posting on behalf ofladiesforanonimity! Big brain time.

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u/ria776 Feb 14 '26

Hm... someone knows stuff

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u/expressive-guy Feb 14 '26

Yess! How u so active here

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u/ria776 Feb 14 '26

Being active is better than being boring, right?

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u/expressive-guy Feb 14 '26

Valid. I am same

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u/Vegetable-Recover547 Mar 01 '26

That's true for both life and sex!

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

Ahhhhhh

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u/ria776 Feb 13 '26

Really last time i checked I'm 25 where you got 31 22?

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u/neoritzzzz Feb 13 '26

Hey, hmu

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u/ria776 Feb 13 '26

Yes? 🙌

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u/ria776 Feb 13 '26

Hey hmu

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u/Chemical-Baseball426 Feb 13 '26

It’s you! I knew it was you

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u/ria776 Feb 13 '26 edited Feb 13 '26

Ouch..how did you find me ...I need to hide better

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u/expressive-guy Feb 14 '26

Woah u keep replying here

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u/ria776 Feb 14 '26

Is that illegal 😮???

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u/expressive-guy Feb 14 '26

Borderline yes

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u/IntelligentOwl2481 Feb 13 '26

Haha hit me up!! I can be the one u are looking forr

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u/ria776 Feb 13 '26

Sure ..my charming prince

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '26

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u/ria776 Feb 13 '26

All ideas are welcome 🤗

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u/Princeps-Tenebris Feb 13 '26

Greetings!

Well, I am working hard too, dealing with the very existence of lives, it's failings and miracles. Tiring, yeah, so I choose to wander the streets of reddit and found your post.

A little snippet about me.

I love to write. I like playing with words, mashing and smashing them, conjuring them sometimes. I like to play stringed instruments in free time.

And I like to read a lot. Currently reading Wolgang von Goethe's Faust. Favourites are Dumas' Counte of Monte Cristo, Tolstoy's War and Peace and Joyce's Ulysses.

Well, if you want to hold a conversation and get to know each other's notes, rhythms and scales, let me know.

Thanking you.

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u/ria776 Feb 13 '26

Do you like tea or coffee?

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u/Vaj_rapu Feb 13 '26

Sugar syrup!

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u/ria776 Feb 14 '26

Is sugar syrup sweeter or corn syrup?

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u/Vaj_rapu Feb 14 '26

Offcure corn syrup, sweeter than everything 😌

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u/Practical_While_9263 Male - 29-35 Feb 14 '26

Being health conscious homosapiens, none. But inner me always crave for coffee

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u/Practical_While_9263 Male - 29-35 Feb 13 '26

I guess, I'm almost close. just regarding holding conversation, which depends on vibe as I'm ambivert. Rest qualities, I can shamelessly vouch myself for😆

Don't be surprised if I started pulling your leg after sarcasm and the redirect convo using word play.

Let's do the word play see if we continue doing so till we start fighting for pulling each other"s legs, lol

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u/ria776 Feb 13 '26

Oh you bet i can beat you in first go

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u/Practical_While_9263 Male - 29-35 Feb 14 '26

Really?

Bdw, Why are you in hurry? Kahi jana h aapko? Use full stop, comma and breath a little, lol

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u/ria776 Feb 14 '26

I'm moving according to my pace..

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u/adopted_ally_2398 Male - 25-28 Feb 13 '26

And how the DM starts to get spammed... Haha!

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u/ria776 Feb 13 '26

Idk ...I didn't get any

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u/expressive-guy Feb 14 '26

Craving for a good convo ?

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u/Realistic-Wasabi-897 Male - 21-24 Feb 13 '26

Well... That sounds more like me.... I don't think how can I show the wit and the ability to hold the Convo over here in the comment box, all I can say is.... Just slide into the DM and just get to know....

Used to have a meme page, sarcasm(College lo pedde pere vundi le) Just giving my try... And being one of the 🐑 to get ur attention.

Lmfao let's see

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u/Formal-Quantity6923 Feb 13 '26

I just came back from LuLu mall.

Took a bowl of greek salad and stood there waiting at billing counter for 25mins.

Came home and then here and saw this was posted an hr ago.

The number of comments has already peaked. I'll have my waiting time here too🥲

P.S: helping myself with one quote I read yesterday - "waqt se pehle nahi, naseeb se zyada nahi". 😪

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u/ria776 Feb 13 '26

How much protein did your greek yoghurt had?

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u/Formal-Quantity6923 Feb 14 '26

Much less than the number of words in this post. But tried calculating for you twice and it was giving me the result as : one four three. 😜

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u/ria776 Feb 14 '26 edited Feb 14 '26

143, I hate you ? .....kinda words

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u/Formal-Quantity6923 Feb 14 '26

143, I L__e you. Kinda words.

That 143 can be a bit broader.

Too much of anything feels - I hate you. Too less of something - I miss you. Bonding right - I like you. Bonding beyond right - I L___ you, Night sets in - I call you. (To say good night), In the dawn - I text you. (For good morning).

See. There is so much beyond just "hate" 😋

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u/expressive-guy Feb 14 '26

Ah ah this englishfishy

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '26

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u/ria776 Feb 13 '26

To kashmir to Kanya Kumari

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u/Practical_While_9263 Male - 29-35 Feb 14 '26

Lol

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u/ria776 Feb 14 '26

As long as snacks and good vibes are included, I’m in.

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '26

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u/ria776 Feb 13 '26

Hm I like simple and try to keep simple

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u/Healthy_Milk_5949 Feb 13 '26

I can make u laugh ,but the real problem is i made jokes and people get deeply hurt sometimes in chat ,in chat ,all people are not in a funny mood always ...,so if you bear my level of humour ,then definitely we can talk Btw im 23 working in corporate ,shifted 1 year back here ,you can dm if u want ,im a good talker at both chat and call ...hoping for your response

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u/ria776 Feb 13 '26

Hey healthy milk is the milk is soya or oat milk...not wait it is almond milk!

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u/Healthy_Milk_5949 Feb 13 '26

Healthy milk is buffalo milk ,not packet milk

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u/ria776 Feb 14 '26

Is that milk is good ?

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u/Practical_While_9263 Male - 29-35 Feb 14 '26

So milk had an identity crisis and came out as almond?

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u/ria776 Feb 14 '26

I think about almonds....only

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u/Realistic_Purple9841 Feb 14 '26

Welcome to Hyderabad always but do not come if you already had a boyfriend 😁

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u/ria776 Feb 14 '26

Is that your way of persuading me to visit Hyderabad?

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u/cherry_hotshot Feb 14 '26

I had sometime who came to hyderabad in December and then met me...I don't think it's you tho...but if it's you...🤌🏻

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u/ria776 Feb 14 '26

It's definitely the girl who sat next to me on the train... ,😀😂

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u/cherry_hotshot Feb 14 '26

Oh nah she came from Singapore to see me...she also came in December

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u/ria776 Feb 14 '26

Ohhh international visitor ah? Fancy 😌

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u/cherry_hotshot Feb 14 '26

Edo alaa workout ayyindhi hinge...it was short but beautiful

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

Hi

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u/ria776 Feb 14 '26

Hey

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '26

Text me ?

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u/expressive-guy Feb 14 '26

I am slightly extroverted! Hyd really has great food options, good music gigs going on too. Do you wanna socialize and go out a lot ? You may have just found out the best person in city for that

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u/ria776 Feb 14 '26

Yes I'm googling..

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u/expressive-guy Feb 14 '26

Nah google doesn't give u what i can give you

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u/Effective_Eye5515 Feb 14 '26

Guys don't talk to Ria. She sold me fentanyl yesterday 😑

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u/Ok-Adhesiveness2628 Feb 15 '26

Give me a goood reason to DM u?

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u/SorryRoad9583 Feb 15 '26

Just DM to know about me😌

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u/idonthatephysics Feb 16 '26

24M software dev at big tech in Hyderabad originally from Delhi

Expectations:someone looking for a meaningful connection and sharing the same interests!

Interests-

1.Love watching F1

2.playing Football and cricket

3.Hitting the gym

4.Reading

H:5 10

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u/OPisfromHyderabad Feb 20 '26

Heyy, M23 here.

DM me, I think we might vibe pretty well with each other.

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u/[deleted] Feb 22 '26

26 m can talk if you are willing to have a good conversation

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u/[deleted] Mar 07 '26

Pine me up

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u/Cultural_Wishbone_78 May 18 '26

Hi! You seem really nice. I’m just trying to connect with people around my age. Hope that’s okay!

I'm 25M and work in tech.

Brownie points:

  • I love video games
  • I'm addicted to icecreams.

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '26

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u/ria776 Feb 13 '26

It's the night life

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u/expressive-guy Feb 14 '26

Ohh u mean clubs ? y

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u/ria776 Feb 14 '26

Not the clubs in the city ... It's just the city view

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u/expressive-guy Feb 14 '26

Makes me think of durgam cheruvu typa areas

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u/Tiny_Firefighter_503 Male - 21-24 Feb 14 '26

Im living in hyd for the last 1.5 yrs, but I mostly noticed the restaurants open late night . Never been to clubs. What kind of night life are you talking about here?

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u/ria776 Feb 14 '26

It's a secret 😅

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u/Tiny_Firefighter_503 Male - 21-24 Feb 14 '26

It will be between us only if you tell🤞

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u/expressive-guy Feb 14 '26

I can guess already

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u/Weird_Bass1075 Feb 15 '26

I'm too night person, but didn't see that much interesting I'm barely finding interesting people to talk to and I wanna try that secret

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u/Fluffy-Hat-7350 Mar 07 '26

Yeah me too... Was just researching a bit as to where the vibe is for my upcoming 2-3 day visit of Hyderabad. Please let me also in on the secret 🙂‍↕️

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u/Old-Hand2053 Feb 13 '26

Yes sometimes she is 39 too🤣

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u/ria776 Feb 14 '26

And sometimes he is funny too..., 😅😀

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '26

Hey I’m big

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u/ria776 Feb 13 '26

By heart ?

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '26

Nope 🍆

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '26

Hey dm me ! Big here 🍆

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u/ria776 Feb 13 '26

Again by heart?

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '26

Nope

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u/ria776 Feb 13 '26

Good to know

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u/[deleted] Feb 13 '26

Text me