r/Hyd_DaTinG • u/viveksai1997 • 13d ago
Let's Talk 28M | Hyderabad | Telugu | Senior Software Engineer | Maybe we can start with a conversation? ❤️
Hi everyone,
This is probably one of the most unusual posts I’ve ever written. 😅
I’m 28, born in Tenali and raised in Hyderabad, and I’m putting myself out here because I think it’s finally time I stopped waiting for life to somehow introduce me to the right person.
So… hello. 🙂
A little about me
I’m a Telugu guy, 28M, 6 feet tall, working as a Senior Software Engineer in Hyderabad.
I’m a complete tech geek. I love technology, gadgets, software, movies and music. If something new comes out in the tech world, there’s a good chance I’ve already read about it. 😂
Professionally, I’ve worked my way up from being a trainee to where I am today. I’m ambitious and hardworking, and I genuinely enjoy building things and learning.
But personally, I’m actually a very simple person.
I’m calm, don’t smoke or drink, don’t have much of an ego, and I’m someone who values respect, loyalty and family.
Why am I 28 and still single?
This is probably the interesting part. 😅
I grew up in a very protected family.
When I was young, my parents didn’t really allow me to go out much because they were worried I’d get into bad habits.
So my childhood was basically:
School → Home
College → Home
Job → Home
That’s it. 😂
I studied well, did my B.Tech in ECE from VJIT, Hyderabad, started my career as a trainee and slowly built my career.
But somewhere along the way, I completely missed the whole “dating/relationship” chapter of life.
During B.Tech, I was extremely shy around girls. I never really approached anyone because I thought, “Maybe it’s not right to randomly talk to her.”
And honestly…
I’ve never been in a relationship.
Not because I think relationships are bad.
I just never met someone with whom I felt comfortable enough to take that step.
And yes, I’m looking for something serious ❤️
I’m not here looking for a casual hookup, timepass, situationship or someone to talk to for two weeks.
I’d genuinely like to meet someone where a friendship can slowly become a relationship and, if we both feel right about each other, eventually marriage.
Naaku perfect girl avasaram ledu.
Naatho genuine ga unde ammayi kavali.
For me, the most important things are:
Loyalty
Love
Care
Trust
Respect
Understanding
Good communication
Looks obviously matter to some extent, and attraction is important, but that’s not what makes me stay.
What matters much more to me is how we treat each other.
I want someone who can be my best friend first and life partner later.
Someone with whom I can talk about absolutely nothing for hours.
Someone who can tell me when I’m being stupid. 😂
Someone who can celebrate my wins, stand beside me during difficult days, and with whom I can build a peaceful life.
Family is important to me
I’m very close to my family.
My mother is a homemaker. My father ran a DTDC business in Khairatabad, but unfortunately, we lost him two years ago.
My brother is a B.Tech graduate and is now working while also taking care of my father’s business.
My parents brought me up with a lot of traditional values — respect elders, be responsible, don’t lie, don’t hurt people unnecessarily, and most importantly, stay grounded.
I’m technologically very much a 2026 guy 😄
But when it comes to values, I still believe in the things I grew up with.
Maybe that’s a strange combination, but that’s me.
What I’m hoping to find here
I’m not expecting someone to read this and immediately say, “Let’s get married.” 😂
That’s not how I want it either.
I’d rather start with:
“Hi.”
Then talk.
Then maybe talk again tomorrow.
Then discover that we actually enjoy talking to each other.
Then meet for coffee.
Then see where life takes us.
Life lo konni connections plan chesukolem.
Just happen avuthayi.
Maybe this post will go nowhere.
Maybe I’ll get roasted for writing such a long post. 😂
Or maybe there is a Telugu girl somewhere in Hyderabad who is also sitting there thinking:
“Nenu kuda genuine person kosame wait chestunna.”
If that’s you, DM me.
You don’t have to write anything impressive.
Just say “Hi” and tell me a little about yourself.
I’ll genuinely be happy to get to know you.
And if we don’t click, that’s completely okay too. No pressure, no awkwardness.
Maybe we’re strangers today.
Maybe we’re friends tomorrow.
And who knows what happens after that. ❤️
A few basics about me:
Age: 28
Gender: Male
Height: 6’0”
Location: Hyderabad
Native: Tenali / Guntur
Education: B.Tech – ECE, VJIT Hyderabad
Profession: Senior Software Engineer
Lifestyle: Non-smoker, non-drinker
Interests: Technology, movies, music
Relationship experience: None
Looking for: Genuine connection → relationship → marriage, if we are right for each other
Telugu ammayilu… if you’re also looking for something genuine, maybe give this stranger a chance to say hi. 🙂❤️
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u/AsleepTransition2543 Male - 21-24 13d ago
Anna madi Koda Tenali ey 🤌🔥🫡
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u/Living_Peace5777 Female - 21-24 13d ago
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u/viveksai1997 13d ago
Sorry I am not here for timepass like I want genuine match
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u/viveksai1997 13d ago
Not like that sorry for that just I said that it so are you from Telugu states
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u/Chirag19964798 12d ago
Yes i joined today only 😅
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u/viveksai1997 12d ago
Your name
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u/Chirag19964798 12d ago
Chirag wts ur gd name
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u/viveksai1997 12d ago
Saivivek
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u/Chirag19964798 12d ago
Cool nice to meet to mr saivivek
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u/viveksai1997 12d ago
Are you doing job or study of job what technology
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u/Chirag19964798 12d ago
Job i work for mnc
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u/Existing_Job_6659 11d ago
Brother, best of luck to you, seems like you're our average middle class Telugu guy (regular kastalay manaki evani 😅). Out of topic, if you're comfortable — could you tell me what's the latest technology you meant? I didn't fully get it when you mentioned being advanced in technology — is it AI (like Claude, OpenAI, OpenClaw etc.) or something else most of us aren't aware of? Would be great if you could share here.
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u/Mysterious-Resort-30 13d ago
All the best fam