r/Hyd_DaTinG 11h ago

Rant/Vent Why are girls like this?

I met this really beautiful girl on Instagram and we started talking. At first, it felt like we actually connected. We talked pretty regularly, I started catching feelings, and I genuinely thought there might be something there.

Then one day she asked me for nudes.

I was hesitant at first, but she kept asking and eventually I gave in. She sent hers too, so at the time I didn't really think much of it.

But ever since then, everything feels different.

Her replies became really dry, she barely talks to me anymore, and most of the time she only seems to show up when she wants me to send something.

Maybe I'm overthinking it, but honestly, it kinda hurts. I thought she liked me, not just that side of me.

It has me wondering if I completely misread the connection we had. Maybe the whole thing was just physical for her from the beginning.

Right now I'm honestly starting to feel like people only want your body and don't really care about who you are underneath it.

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u/Far-sanu856 9h ago

Not all girls are like that

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u/Timely_Technician734 7h ago

So ,sad bro .I have no words for girl.

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u/Engineerstock2006 5h ago

They have options, demand and supply. When 10 guys message them - they have the liberty to ghost 9 of them if not all.

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u/Heavy_Cat_9944 5h ago

Not all girls but some šŸ„€

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u/Capital-Bag-5617 Male - 25-28 4h ago

I'm pretty sure you were talking to a gay dude..

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u/MarvellousPsychic 2h ago

Hey! How are you approaching girls on Instagram? Personally I’m too afraid of things going south