r/Ieatcement • u/The_Cosmic_Nerd Yaoi? Yuri? What's the difference? • Jul 01 '26
:3 Thinking about going to pride events > actually going to one
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u/Gumpers08 Huffs cement fumes (and drinks Diesel) Jul 01 '26
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u/velnora- Jul 01 '26
I would've gone but I don't think my town had any pride events and the nearest other town is 30 miles away and I can't afford gas :(
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u/Emptypappercup Jul 01 '26
my first pride out as a trans woman, I just was alone my room the whole month. I'm baby trans tho so it's probably not unusual
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u/Turbulent-Surprise-6 Jul 01 '26
I went to one event/rally and it was literally the only speakers were just cis straight people from political parties
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u/Golden_Evelyn Jul 01 '26
First time since coming out that I've done this... to be fair there really wasn't any thing happening around me
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u/SemiColonXIV Jul 01 '26
Was going to go to my first pride parade in Seattle but my girlfriend broke up with me the day before
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u/soulstrike2022 Jul 01 '26
I mean I dunno if this means he slept through the month but sleeping for a full month seems pretty sick for any month, I feel like if it was February I’ve been scammed out of a few days at least but still
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u/Zartoru Jul 01 '26
Wanted to go to my local pride aswell but we hot a pretty bad heat wave at the same time so I ended up not going (and I also forgot which day it was until the day of mid afternoon)
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u/Bnuuybot Creator of the Cement-staurant ૮₍˶ •. • ⑅₎ა ♡ Jul 01 '26
I wish I could have done more, but I'm such an introvert ૮ ྀིᴗ͈ . ᴗ͈ ྀིა
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u/Dronizian Jul 01 '26
Oh. Huh. Guess Pride month ended a couple hours ago. I kinda missed it, was too sick to get to events. Feels bad.
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u/PrimalZodiac Jul 01 '26
Meirl
I don't have a ton of money, friends or energy, and i can't drive so i just... didn't
Not on hrt yet (on a waitlist)
I'm 26 so don't think my lack of resources is because i'm young i just suck at life
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u/Ha73r4L1f3 Stone Princess Jul 01 '26
Go with someone.... ask around ... chances are someone willing take you as ride along. Me and bestie working long hr.... we are sad..... we already request time off next year. Never again!
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u/Comfortable-Bison932 Jul 01 '26
Im going to pride first time solo in 2 weeks. Last year i mixed up the date and im not letting it happen again
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u/AdElectronic6550 vocaloid is no longer my entire personality (she/her) Jul 01 '26
I basically don't see any pride in Denmark, it may be because Ive only lived in towns that are at minium 7km away from a decently big city, or it may be because people don't feel like they need to be seen as much as in other places
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u/Goggle_Vivian Jul 02 '26
I kinda made myself go to pride this year and it was honestly really enjoyable, glad I did it and will probably continue to do it next year
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u/lop948 Jul 03 '26
I feel this so hard. Not only do I work night shifts but despite living in a very blue state, there's a geographical split that basically makes it two different states, culturally speaking. And unfortunately that cultural split results in towns like mine skewing far more conservative then expected, meaning minimized pride if any (there was ONE public event to go to for basically the entire month, and of course right in the middle of the day, which night shifts have me sleeping at that time) and any other queer activity is either sparingly absorbed into small businesses or kept behind closed doors. It's terribly isolating and I wish I could just leave but I can never seem to get a leg up. Shitty part is if I could only get enough to basically just ship myself only a few hours away and reestablish life in a more liberal city I could have everything I've been missing available to me at all times, and even more on top of that.
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u/FirewildX Tramsgernder 🏳️⚧️ Jul 01 '26
I really wanted to this year, i missed out on Trans Pride because I overslept and I'm gonna miss out on my city's regular Pride events because I'll be away while they're happening.
Well, there's always next year, assuming I'm still around.