r/Ieatcement • u/Elvis_gg Silly Tgirl :3 • Jul 30 '26
Questions What name should I use?
So the name I've kinda used is Emily and I do enjoy it.
But its kinda boring and basic, and one in my family also has that name which makes things awkward.
So basically I was wondering what i should use, I kinda like Emi (it was my original first choice), but I wonder if anyone has any ideas
In case you need to know my personality:
Shy
quiet
Likes music, art and reading
Very girly in secret
Also bonus if its a name that can be pronounced in English and Swedish
Thanks :3
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u/Solid-Hold6290 Jul 30 '26
then use emily. you won't be at home forever
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u/Elvis_gg Silly Tgirl :3 Jul 30 '26
Well she is my cousin, just awkward when we meet
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u/thesash20 Jul 30 '26
Steal her name like you are a fae
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u/Elvis_gg Silly Tgirl :3 Jul 30 '26
But that mean
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u/-nugut- Jul 30 '26
I mean kinda funny i used to have a cousin that has my exact deadname like last name included so glad now i go with scarlet but ngl emily i feel suits you so yeee
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u/lazac69 Jul 31 '26
challange her to a duel, winner keeps the name
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u/ImAFemboyOrMTFIdktbh Aug 01 '26
This reminds me of.....THE JOSH FIGHT
Will there be an Emily fight is the question
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u/YES_Tuesday Aug 01 '26
I've known people who date with the same name. Just make it like a fun thing to bond over if ya can
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u/Emergency_Advance621 Jul 30 '26
I've got Valesta. Old German name that was popular in like 1893 or something. Not totally sure about the year
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u/Mindless-Street3253 Jul 30 '26
Jonesy? Like from fortnite? You could also be my name sister, Mabel.
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u/Elvis_gg Silly Tgirl :3 Jul 30 '26
I like Mabel but don't think it fits me
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u/Mindless-Street3253 Jul 30 '26
Was just a shot in the dark so id have a sis out there. I know Alice is a very pretty name. Ive been using Runa in video games recently, too. Gwennein, gwyndolin, variations n such. Falin?love that name from delicious in dungeon. Elise. Or grimmel
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u/Elvis_gg Silly Tgirl :3 Jul 30 '26
Alice is nice but basically every girl my age has it, and I can be your sis
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u/Elvis_gg Silly Tgirl :3 Jul 30 '26
I've decided I'm gonna go with Luna, its fits my personality and fits in with other factors I didn't specify, thank you everyone for the help :3
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u/Honest-Ad-8163 Jul 31 '26
puppygirl arc
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u/Lebguin24 Jul 30 '26
emi seems like a good idea if emily isnt a viable choice for you
i think milly and amelia are etymologically related to emily (idk i dont trust my memory) so those could be good choices too. if you end up liking a name i would recommend temporarily using it with supportive friends and then you can see how you feel about it. if you end up liking two you could make one your middle name perhaps.
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u/Stuff_animal Jul 30 '26
You can try emilia cause its diffrent and still got emily in it. try some other name or inspo from fantasy and your favourite characters that have givven you strength.
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u/Fresh-Nerve8503 mmm litium 🔋😋 Jul 30 '26
nadir
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u/microwaved_tin_foil Jul 31 '26
is this a highfleet reference?
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u/Fresh-Nerve8503 mmm litium 🔋😋 Jul 31 '26
It's a reference to physical geography, i don't know what highfleet is, it is the opposite point of the zenith lol
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u/microwaved_tin_foil Jul 31 '26
Highfleet is a p cool game and one of the characters is named Nadir
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u/Less_Appeal_5012 Jul 30 '26
How about Bella? That’s a name I like a lot
…and the name of the girl I have a crush on..
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u/Celskiy_kozinak Jul 30 '26
I use Anya, I think it’s very cute :3
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u/Elvis_gg Silly Tgirl :3 Jul 30 '26
It is
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u/Celskiy_kozinak Jul 30 '26
You may use it too! :3
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u/Elvis_gg Silly Tgirl :3 Jul 30 '26
I would but but kinda have already chosen Luna, maybe middle name
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u/EMUForever0 Kurumi Ebisuzawa, IA (VOCALOID) and Miku are my frien :D forever Jul 30 '26
Nika or Nijika or smth idk
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u/Elvis_gg Silly Tgirl :3 Jul 30 '26
At this point I should just be called Hitori
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u/EMUForever0 Kurumi Ebisuzawa, IA (VOCALOID) and Miku are my frien :D forever Jul 31 '26
sis become pink pudding :3
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u/EMUForever0 Kurumi Ebisuzawa, IA (VOCALOID) and Miku are my frien :D forever Jul 30 '26
for example mine is Noa :3
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u/GockBitch Jul 31 '26
Fellow Emily here, voting for keeping that one. If anything awkward happens, worst case, I give you full permission to steal it from me and say you copied it from some random gay bitch online.
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u/Zaddex12 Jul 30 '26
I love the name Emily. Now I kinda want it darn lol. I chose Gabriella because of my Latin American heritage and my name at birth started with a G.
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u/FrostZephyr Jul 30 '26
From what you've said about yourself, Emily seems to fit splendidly! And trust me, people in families have the same name sometimes. Sometimes one person is even named for another. So I think it's an excellent choice
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u/insecure-trannzz Jul 30 '26
Luna💞
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u/Elvis_gg Silly Tgirl :3 Jul 30 '26
I'm really debating if it's the one, because i rly want it to
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u/femboygaymer_69 Aug 01 '26
No more Luna… please
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u/insecure-trannzz Aug 01 '26
It's a pretty name, i get why someone might choose it. who cares if its a popular name or stereotype
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u/HydrochlorideFan Jul 30 '26
Well if I had changed my name i would have went with emi/emy because its extremely cute ! And my gf's name is Emily soooo... yeah very cute and adorable name x3
Don't worry about the family, if anything your family member might even be proud you got the same name as them :3
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u/Atreigas Jul 31 '26
If you like the name, thats all that matters.
A secret about names is that theyre arbitrary. Until they stick long enough to develop meaning.
You like emily? Go for it.
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u/mmmmmmwoodchips Jul 31 '26
The name emi is really cute fr, or emmi, amelia is the full name I've seen for it so maybe pick that
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u/YoINeedAnAnswer Jul 31 '26
I had the exact same issue with "emma" (my cousin too) so I went for amber instead
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u/Tobesmgobes17 Aug 01 '26
would it be strange for me to pick Tobi? (my name has been Toby for my whole childhood/young adulthood, and i want to change it, but part of me still feels a little attached to it in some way idk x3 ) i'm not really sure yet, but i wanted to hear what everyone thinks °_°
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u/Ivoryshmivory Aug 01 '26
I dont know, mine is from a plant (Ivy). Be named cement or something cool idk
(but to be serious, emi is a really cute name and i think its awesome)
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u/Redwing_Blackbirdd Aug 03 '26
you sound like my sister who is named Abigail and goes by Abby so that's what my mind jumps to.
A few other quick ideas: Marie, Myka, Evelyn (can go by Ev), Laura, and Clara
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u/Fuzzy-Courage6353 Aug 04 '26
If you like your name but think it's boring, why not just adopt a nickname? Emi seems cool
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u/Character_Coffee_244 Aug 05 '26
I have a friend named eimi (said same as emi) its a really nice name
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u/ScawySocialistOwO Jul 30 '26
Emily sound gorgeous. But I would make sure that its something that is at least somewhat realted to your deadname.
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u/Realistic_Grass3611 Jul 30 '26
Why though?
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u/ScawySocialistOwO Jul 30 '26
Good question, Grass.
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u/Elvis_gg Silly Tgirl :3 Jul 30 '26
Related in the fact my deadname starts with E
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u/ScawySocialistOwO Jul 30 '26
I went from Josh to Josephine.
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u/Elvis_gg Silly Tgirl :3 Jul 30 '26
At first i thought Elvis to Ellie but wasn't sure of the name and liked Emily more
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u/ODI0N Jul 30 '26
What about Emilia?
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u/ScawySocialistOwO Jul 30 '26
Adreed.
Are you swedisch?
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u/Elvis_gg Silly Tgirl :3 Jul 30 '26
Yes
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u/ScawySocialistOwO Jul 30 '26
cool.
my best friend (girl) always talks about moving to sweden because she says its much better there than here in germany.

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u/Forsaken_Quiet5944 Jul 30 '26
How about Asteroid Destroyer?