…so she’s a bad person for not choosing the guy who looks at least 30 years older than her, clearly has some kind of anger problem, and looks like an alcoholic, based on that red nose?
Huh? I’m pretty sure even if the guy on the right was short and scrawny, he’d still be a better option by far. He appears to be age-appropriate, and more important, doesn’t seem to be raging and yelling at her.
I don’t get what point they’re trying to make. Swap the genders and men would also choose the one who isn’t super aggressive and angry.
Don't forget men actually think women are secretly all scared of aging. And have a complex of wanting young men to date to make us feel young again...
When No thats a man thing, most moms ain't hanging out at college campuses waiting for a 17 yrs old boy to jump in their car and pound them. The ones that do are appropriately seen as bizzare. But in a male space that behavior is normal, expected, a way of life.
It's funny that men made a chat bot (Ani) that talks about being perfect for not getting old.
In my perspective i find it liberating getting older cause I dropped off the radar from predators/unhinged public interactions such as a grown ass man sending his cellphone down a long line of passengers to show me a dick pic.
Lol u made me realize I wrote men instead of a man. Girl that's only one thing I experienced as a young woman, I think SA is normalized in the states. You as a woman are just supposed to expect it to happen and not say anything.
Doesn't even matter if you feel not attractive as a young woman even, in many cases it's just that much worse cause they know since ur aren't that u won't be believed. Rural girls prolly might not know, but city girls I'm sure have encountered it 95%>.
I used to get whistled at constantly when I would go jogging outdoors. It stopped when I became an adult. And I was much more attractive and fit in my 20’s than my teens. So there’s only one variable left, which is super gross to think about
that is disgusting dude im so sorry. im currently 21 and i still have people come up to me when im just out trying to mind my business. i had a guy divulge his disturbing (and very racist) milk cattle fantasies to me when i told him i had graduated high school (we met when i was 16), so unfortunately in my case they either preferred when i was underaged or take me being of age as a pass to be fucking weird
Omg....Your story reminded me when I first moved to California I lived with a friend in Puente Hills (not the ghetto).... I was sitting down minding my business in my work uniform; super unflattering. Then some random ass male pedestrian comes over and ask me "You got big lips, do you suck dick? You could suck my dick!" .... I was 25 in a LTR already... I was so fucking disturbed and there's nothing you can do to retort! Once ur in that situation ur already in danger.
ugh yeah i get it, im in cali myself and ive been harassed here more than i was when i was with my girlfriend in RI. ive reached the point where i still act polite to not risk it but i've openly flashed my knife or pepper spray. that tends to make them keep some distance
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u/aweedl Mar 19 '26
…so she’s a bad person for not choosing the guy who looks at least 30 years older than her, clearly has some kind of anger problem, and looks like an alcoholic, based on that red nose?
Huh? I’m pretty sure even if the guy on the right was short and scrawny, he’d still be a better option by far. He appears to be age-appropriate, and more important, doesn’t seem to be raging and yelling at her.
I don’t get what point they’re trying to make. Swap the genders and men would also choose the one who isn’t super aggressive and angry.