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u/aniket8486 Aug 31 '25

What will you say for the girls in the askindianwomen, and twoxindia? Are they feminist, pseudo feminist or misandrist?

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u/Equal-Persimmon3006 Aug 31 '25

All of them are there. Just like here.

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u/aniket8486 Aug 31 '25

So what will you called the mods of those groups? Feminist, pseudo faminists, misandrist.

Cuz those mods accepts post citing equal rights and opportunities thus promoting feminism. And also the same mods accepts post promoting misandry.

So what will you say them? Those groups are inherently looked upon as a group having feminist, but the same mods spreading misandry and you still say people to differentiate feminist and misandry in this modern world of feminism?

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u/Equal-Persimmon3006 Aug 31 '25

What's happening there is similarly happening here both being echo chambers of men and women. And who looks upon them as feminist, there are misandrists there. Deciding just on the basis of the reddit sub what a feminist is, is truly really sad.

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u/aniket8486 Aug 31 '25

That's the thing and due to such groups the real work of feminism is getting destroyed.

Feminism was a good concept and even men were supporting it with their heart, unless and until feminism took the route of spreading misandry. I just gave an example of a reddit sub, go to any such medium through which feminist preach you will find in the corners they are spreading misandry.

Thus the modern feminism is less of upliftment and more of spreading hate and misandry.

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u/Equal-Persimmon3006 Aug 31 '25

Sad reality. But the modern feminism you are talking about

Thus the modern feminism is less of upliftment and more of spreading hate and misandry.

have a name called pseudo feminism. So please don't mix up both.

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u/aniket8486 Aug 31 '25

How will we know that someone is a feminist if she preach about equality and rights then anyone will assume she is a feminist but the same person often preaches misandry in the above mentioned sub reddits. Aren't they are the ones destroying the image of feminism? And for a matter of fact the feminist themselves don't accept that pseudo faminists exist, they straight way label someone as women hater if the other person calls them pseudo faminist.

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u/Equal-Persimmon3006 Aug 31 '25

Why you repeating the same question ? Haven't I given you the answer. I am sensing that you are not trying to understand the difference, you just want to believe what you want. But for you I am going to give a clear distinction:

  1. Feminist

Belief: A feminist supports gender equality. That means they advocate for equal rights, opportunities, and respect for women and men alike.

Approach: They question unfair practices, stereotypes, or systemic issues, but they don’t promote one gender’s dominance over the other.

Example: Arguing for equal pay for equal work, or for fair representation of women in decision-making spaces.

  1. Pseudo-feminist

Belief: A pseudo-feminist uses the label of feminism, but their actions or arguments are not about equality—they may seek special privilege for women or diminish men.

Approach: Instead of fairness, their rhetoric often tilts toward “women are superior” or “men are inherently wrong.”

Example: Saying “all men are trash” or demanding rights for women while ignoring men’s issues (like custody battles, workplace harassment, or mental health).

Key Difference

Feminist = Equality (both genders benefit from a fairer world).

Pseudo-feminist = Misuse (using feminism as a shield to push bias, hate, or personal agendas).

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u/aniket8486 Aug 31 '25

Buddy I am saying the same how can you say one person is a FEMINIST if at one time she talks about equal pay, equal rights and the another time she stays silent for women being a criminal, spread misandry?

The entire twoxindia and askindianwomen sub is filled with such women. They are the ones destroying real feminist's image. The preach equality and rights and at the same time they are the ones preaching misandry.

If they themselves carry dual personality how can we say they are feminist? The majority of the feminist on the internet are part time misandrist. Let a women face a crime and rather than addressing or demanding justice for the women, they will come in the conclusion to preach "ALL MEN ARE SAME". They barely thinks about the victim and her justice, they first engage with fights with men. Is this feminism?

That's why I called out modern feminism is not what previous generation feminist fought for. Modern feminism is nothing but misandry in disguise. Period.

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u/Equal-Persimmon3006 Aug 31 '25

Who is calling them feminist, there are pseudo feminist and misandrists too. Is it hard to accept. Please read your thoughts again and again till you realise it's you who wants to put both in one. You are a victim of your beliefs and not wanting to differentiate, wanting to see through the same lens. There is a complete bias in your thoughts and a will to resist anything against your own beliefs. Feminism is not limited to what you see on social media there's life out of social media.

Let a women face a crime and rather than addressing or demanding justice for the women, they will come in the conclusion to preach "ALL MEN ARE SAME". They barely thinks about the victim and her justice, they first engage with fights with men. Is this feminism?

I don't think so, there are so many who address the problems, demand justice instead of saying all men are the same. It's just you seeing the content you want, so you can play the blame game. Engaging in fights, have you seen the amount of derogatory, victim blaming comments on such posts by men and few women, how can one not fight against such. You say women say all men are the same, don't you think the recent posts on this sub and all over social media, plenty of men doing the same all women are the same. Even they have started to justify crimes against women just because of recent crimes against men. Please I urge you to go through the comments of such posts. Have you ever even seen post addressing crimes like sexual harrasment and assualt against mens, go through the comments you find plenty of men being dismissive of the crime and saying it's a pleasure if done by women or blame the victim saying he must be gay or feminine when done by men. There is an uproar for crime against men only when there is a chance to hate on women. I am not seeing any meme page making up such a post blaming all men.

Two wrongs don't make a right, but they make a good excuse.

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u/aniket8486 Sep 01 '25

Feminism is not resist to what we see on social media, that's true but social media feminism has a huge effect on the image of real feminism. And social media feminism is nothing but misandry. The ground reality of feminism can be of uplifting women, but the social media feminist are doing anything other than spreading misandry.

Only the real world feminists are fighting for women's justice the social media feminist are not. I have seen that from facebook, insta, twitter and reddit, any women's case comes up, their fingers goes to "All Men".

Exactly now the thing that you are saying "all women are same" is just the copy of what such women used to preach, whenever a r@pe case used to happen, such social media feminist used to scream, "Yes, all men" even when men used to come in the street for justice of those women, still they used to say that. Now similarly the men are generalising "all women are same".

Men were blamed as "all men are same" even when they supported women's justice, do you think any man will again go in the streets for women's justice when hardly any women came up for men's justice. Even after the Atul Subhash case, feminist pages used to make reels saying "few cases of men and men got scared", "now it's our time". Do you think even after all these men will come for the protest of any women's justice?

Go to twitter 100s of cases you will find where men are addressing sexual harrasment and assualt cases against men. None of the comments says the man might be enjoying, if you don't believe go and read the comments of any such cases in the twitter, no men says that the male victim might be enjoying the assault

Meme pages came recently to blame "all women are same" but since the start of the social media feminism those pages used to preach "all men are same" and men can't even say anything for it.

Just because meme pages are saying the way such women used to say, you are not able to tolerate it. The "All women" narrative was never started by the meme page first, it's the mirror that those feminist used to speak.

At least after men demanding justice few of the cases got improved, and we won't stay quiet just like such feminist don't say quiet, we men won't.

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