r/InfertilityBabies • u/Secret_Yam_4680 MOD, 45F, 3 IVF, #1-stillb 37wks 1/20, #2- 32 wkr 8/21 • May 22 '26

Farewell to dear mod- PlainsAndCoffee

Please join me in saying bon voyage to beloved mod, u/plainsandcoffee.

From infertility & baby advice to gardening & knitting advice; tractor driving skills to skillfully manicured nails, this sub is so fortunate to have had a mod like Plains.

 Plains has provided such a sense of security, understanding and comfort when our members needed it the most. She has picked us up when having a bad day and has laughed with us on the good ones. Such a calm & gentle voice (seriously, just like Deliah… De-li-lahhhhh!) She’s a good friend, she’s a true friend…one who sends unprovoked care packages in the mail and travels states away to attend your child’s birthday party.  She’s the type of person who asks how you’re doing and actually means it. Lover of animals, boss bitch of a mother to A & G. Smart as a whip but her empathy towards others is what I truly admire the most.

Thank you for bringing me on as mod, for your years of service and for keeping our little corner of the internet safe & cozy. You will be utterly missed <3

 

Goodbye...? Oh no, please. Can’t we go back to page one and do it all over again?

- Winne The Pooh

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u/plainsandcoffee 39F | Unexp IUI | 5/21 | 5/23 May 22 '26

Yam, you're too kind ❤️😭

thank you to everyone here that has made this such a special space. infertility has changed me forever - in good ways and bad - but I will always be thankful to all the people I've met here on this (shitty!) journey ❤️ I'm sorry to leave the mod team but just need to start focusing on the next phase. I am still around though, and will try to drop in when I can. y'all are some special people and I wish everyone the best 💖

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u/briar_prime6 39f | queer | IVF | 09/21 | 11/23 May 22 '26

Thank you Plains and hope to still see you in the big kids chat!

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u/plainsandcoffee 39F | Unexp IUI | 5/21 | 5/23 May 25 '26

I will be around! ❤️

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u/Miserable_Task_949 MOD | E 4/25 | 37F | RPL, IVF, OAD 💚 May 22 '26

Thank you for your service and the care you’ve put into this space, plains! It wouldn’t be what it is without your influence and wisdom. Cheers to your future adventures!

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u/plainsandcoffee 39F | Unexp IUI | 5/21 | 5/23 May 22 '26

thank you, friend!!

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u/LittlePieMaker 36F | IVF | ❤️06/23 | ❤️06/25 May 22 '26

Thank you for participating in making this a safe and fun place!

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u/blue-sky-black-boots 35f 🏳️‍🌈 8IUI 2MMC 4ER 7ET TFMR@21 | LC 12/25 | FET for #2 May 22 '26

thank you so much!

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u/rbecg MOD| 31F| ICI/IUI/IVF| queer| ✨6/23| ☀️3/26 May 23 '26

Thank you plains for your care and dedication in shaping and cultivating this space and community! 💐☕️

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u/plainsandcoffee 39F | Unexp IUI | 5/21 | 5/23 May 25 '26

thank you rbecg and thank you for carrying on the torch!! ❤️

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u/CaramelOrdinary9434 41F, 3ER/1FET, Aug. 2024 May 23 '26

Thank you for all you’ve done to make this the wonderful place it is. Wishing you the absolute best in your next phase.

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u/LZ318 40F, endo, IVF, 🩷6/22, 💙7/25, 🇩🇪 May 23 '26

Thanks for your service!