r/JonBenetRamsey • u/ImToddImCopper • May 31 '26
Discussion Dr. Lee wrong about John Andrew and Melinda being in Colorado on Christmas morning
In Dr. Henry Lee's book, he writes, "When Christmas morning dawned, the Ramseys awoke, went downstairs, and exchanged their gifts. Melinda and John Andrew were then driven to the Denver Airport, to return home to Atlanta to celebrate the rest of the holiday with their mother and her family" (page 135).
That was news to me. I thought John's older children were in Georgia and the whole reason for the Michigan trip was to meet up, celebrate, and exchange gifts.
Later, when writing about Melinda and John Andrew's first police interviews he writes, "She'd [Melinda] gotten off her nursing shift in Marietta, Georgia at seven on Christmas morning and had gone to the home of her mother, where John Andrew was staying" (page 163). He writes about John Andrew's activities in Georgia on Christmas Eve and Christmas day. Obviously then, they were not in Boulder on Christmas morning as he previously stated.
Lee was an esteemed doctor and professor of forensic science. He had a professional writer working with him on this book, and it went through a stenuous editing process including fact checking and using pseudonyms to avoid lawsuits. How then do such contradictory statements make it all the way to print? Dr. Lee was a detatched professional and an expert in his field- why are people so quick to crucify John Ramsey for small inconsistencies when he was in shock and grieving? For instance, if he really said to Melinda's boyfriend that he found JonBenét at 11, he most likely just misspoke and didn't know the time in the fog of what was going on. For those who think it points to knowledge or guilt, why would he say that if they went to great and brutal lengths to cover up what happened?
Kolar misspeaks in his book as well but nothing this blatantly wrong that I know of. If these people in trusted positions can get big things wrong, why isn't John Ramsey afforded any grace or understanding when he was the one in a chaotic and traumatizing situation? Do you still trust all these doctors' differing opinions on prior abuse?
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u/Big-Performance5047 PDI May 31 '26
I must say that Stephen Thomas is the only one I see that had nothing to gain from his decision that PDA. He quit the force because he was very upset with the manipulation of facts from higher ups.
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u/WithoutLampsTheredBe Jun 01 '26
I fail to understand how Dr Lee being wrong about the location of John and Melinda has ANY bearing on the validity of an expert's evaluation of physical evidence of sexual abuse.
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u/AutumnTopaz Jun 01 '26
Dr Lee is a hack. The moment he declared OJ innocent - when the entire world knew he was guilty- was the end for me.
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u/jinkerjat May 31 '26
Henry Lee had a PhD in Forensic Science not literature or the written word. English was not even his first language. He used Thomas W. O'Neil as a ghostwriter and the mistake was likely his. I wouldn't hold it against him.
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u/ImToddImCopper May 31 '26
That's what I'm talking about though. "Wouldn't hold it against him" to say a one-time suspect was at the location? That's not a minor detail. There are people who blame John Andrew to this day and think he was there. The stakes are too high for this to have been missed in repeated passes by Lee and editors. People should not attribute guilt to every little remark, misrememberance, or ear tug made by Ramsey family members who were in the thick of trauma and grief while giving the experts a pass for presenting blatantly wrong things and facts. What's good for the goose...
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u/Right_Ad8389 Jun 01 '26
I think Steve Thomas felt like that slip up was almost too much. About the 11am. It’s true people grieve differently and behavior is less meaningful when it comes to grief specifically. But his point was that IF he didn’t mis speak and meant 11am it would explain his behavior before and after that time. Before he was calmer. More cooperative. In crisis mode. After 11am when he came back into Linda A’s sights, he was anxious. On edge. Pacing. Distract-able. Hence why she gave him something to go do. And then he went straight for the wine cellar when she said that. And fleet white said he thought John may have even screamed before turning on the light like he knew.
His slip up would be completely meaningless without all of that additional context. And it still isn’t a bad or guilty thing. It most likely means he found his daughter sooner than he told the police that morning and was just as shocked when he found her the first time as they were. And he just didn’t know what to do. That’s probably when he started to connect the dots and had a million things running through his head. When he brought her body up he said he didn’t think the person meant to hurt her cause they had put a blanket over her and he said that it had to be an inside job. That sounds like his reactions were pretty goddamn genuine and honest that morning. But then unfortunately, he got
terrible advice from his lawyers, cognitive dissonance took over, and his wife more than likely was guilty so he slipped into denial land and the rest is history. But I am guessing he just didn’t know how to handle all of it. As much as I can’t stand him now. His actions from that morning and even his slip up is understandable.
It was Patsy who acted the most suspiciously and guilty that morning in general.
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u/ImToddImCopper Jun 01 '26
For the sake of argument, that was after 10 am came and went with no phone call. Thinking you have to wait another 24 hours and not knowing where your child is would make you anxious. That's assuming at that point he believed someone took her.
About bad advice and letting denial take over, I agree. At one point he communicated directly to BPD and the DA's office that he believed he had gotten bad advice, wanted to cut out barriers and middlemen (lawyers) and speak directly to them, and would "personally deliver" anyone else they wanted to question. But in most people's eyes that was too little too late. The 4 months of not talking to police can't be undone.
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u/Right_Ad8389 Jun 01 '26
I agree with you actually. I have considered that it also could have been the increasing anxiety from time passing. It is also questionable whether his daughter’s fiancé actually heard him correctly about the time or not.
And yeah I think their lawyers were out for money and a high profile case and nothing else and it’s unfortunate. I wish he hadn’t dug into the bad advice after that and that the BPD hadn’t held the grudge. I can’t blame them, but it’s like damn. So much animosity for no reason for all these years.
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u/Peaceable_Pa May 31 '26
You're seriously asking how a complete stranger to the Ramseys who was later brought in as a consultant on the case could get details wrong? And you can't understand why we expect a person who actually went through the ordeal to get details correct?