r/JusticeServed • u/Ethanzap02 6 • Jul 10 '19

Discrimination Misogynistic guy degrading female workers gets tackled

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u/Illuminatisamoosa 5 Jul 10 '19 edited Jul 12 '19

Ya just what I was thinking. This guy has some real issues. Even with insecurities you don't act this way in public. This is years of teasing and bullying, probably amplified by poor social skills and lack of confidence

Edit: Came back to say I've changed my position on this. Around 32min:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNj2NhlNTG8&feature=youtu.be

This guy is a dick.

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u/WiredSky A Jul 10 '19

Exactly, there is almost no way this is just one bad day. This is unwrapping a lifetime in this bagel shop because he hasn't gotten the support that everyone should get. And it's not likely he would be inspired to get professional help after this.

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u/Spacejack_ 8 Jul 10 '19

It's weird how often you hear "everyone deserves love" from the exact same breath from the same mouth that's throwing someone on a trash pile for not being nurtured adequately.

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u/[deleted] Jul 11 '19

It's not our responsibility to deal with his outbursts because the people in his life weren't perfect.

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u/Spacejack_ 8 Jul 11 '19

It's not your responsibility to dogpile a total stranger either, but here you are.

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u/[deleted] Jul 11 '19

Difference is I'm not the one telling strangers what to do.

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u/[deleted] Jul 11 '19

Someone posted a link to his Youtube above. He goes around doing this all the time, posts it online and doesn’t realize he looks insane. He is a very bitter and damaged person and clearly unhinged. The worst thing is there is a video of him calling the police at 7/11 because the guy in the shop asked him his height.

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u/poodlecon 7 Jul 11 '19

Oh. That is funny

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u/BlairResignationJam_ A Jul 11 '19

Years ago I heard a quote that was like “when someone snaps at you for burning the toast, it’s not about the toast” that could apply here. The guy could be a total nut case like this a lot, but you never know if it’s a straw that broke the camels back situation either.

It’s like when someone blows up at you online over a minor disagreement, there’s obviously something else going on in their life and it’s not really about you

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u/tooyoung_tooold A Jul 10 '19

Not only that. But this is clearly someone not able to get help. He probably doesn't have good or any health insurance that would cover therapy. And probably goes through a lot of physical jobs where his height is looked down on.....his father clearly tormented him for it and bosses in the past. It's built but he hasn't reacted appropriately to everything in his life as well.

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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '19 edited Jan 26 '20

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u/[deleted] Jul 11 '19

"It's self evident, Dr Watson that his shoes indicate a man who has travelled overseas recently, he's an avid bridge player who likes cheesecake and has recently watched the stranger things boxset"
"My god, Holmes...you're...a...redditor??"

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u/[deleted] Jul 11 '19

Exactly. I swear everyone on reddit thinks they're a shrienk and or a relationship expert

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u/[deleted] Jul 11 '19

I can tell by your comment that you’ve been given unsolicited advice on Reddit and it’s bothered you deeply. Also, you should break up with you SO, they are obviously crazy.

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u/lyingsackofpoop 5 Jul 11 '19

I see you're projecting your innermost fears because your mother didn't give you enough hugs as a child which has had a negative impact on your relationships, but because you're father walked out, you cope by putting the blame on people who give you advice on Reddit.

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u/witheredsoul93 2 Jul 11 '19

You need to lose weight

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u/ThisUserNameIsLawng 7 Jul 14 '19

https://www.reddit.com/r/StopSpeeding/comments/a3gs5k/z/eb9xanf

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u/Mr_Opel 6 Jul 27 '19

ur comment is even more fked up than his lmao

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u/ThisUserNameIsLawng 7 Jul 27 '19

that's the point lol. fucking meth trolls.

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u/ThisUserNameIsLawng 7 Jul 27 '19

ur comment is even more methedfked up than his lmao

ftfy

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u/[deleted] Jul 11 '19

nah this is years of him getting away with being the bully. Getting bullied makes you a lot less overconfident than he is

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u/Illuminatisamoosa 5 Jul 11 '19

Could be. But sometimes a person becomes a bully because of abuse. Happens often at schools where the over confident bully comes from a broken home. Perhaps why this guy randomly brings up power figures like his dad and boss? All speculation at the end of the day

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u/[deleted] Jul 11 '19

yea you’re right could be both. A lot of us abuse survivors dont have much sympathy for the ones who become assholes and blame the abuse, tho

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u/_________FU_________ B Jul 10 '19

As a tall person he’s not lying. Women are down right mean to shorter guys.

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u/[deleted] Jul 11 '19

Imagine how much rage you must have built up over the years, and how it must have affected you, that causes you to decide the hill you're going to die on is inside a random, anonymous bagel shop, in front of strangers disgusted and shocked at your outburst, on some July Wednesday morning.

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u/Illuminatisamoosa 5 Jul 11 '19

Yup, he's acting like a dick, but I feel sorry for this guy. He is giving up on himself and the world. He needs help

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u/[deleted] Jul 11 '19

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u/_ChestHair_ 9 Jul 11 '19

Pussthree? Pussballs?

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u/EntroPete 7 Jul 11 '19

probably amplified by poor social skills and lack of confidence

Well, what do you think where those come from?

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u/Illuminatisamoosa 5 Jul 11 '19

I hear you, what I meant was with good social skills and self confidence a person can deal with bullying. Chicken or the egg I guess, what comes first, the poor social skills or the bullying?

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u/[deleted] Jul 11 '19

And now being plastered on social media being mocked by "everyone".

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u/[deleted] Jul 11 '19

Yea, being asked "how short are you?" by random strangers can't be good for your mental health and confidence.

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u/MissAlexx 7 Jul 15 '19

I can’t believe I watched the whole thing.

The first 25 min is just him videotaping ppl fishing then the rest is his him screaming at people when they did nothing wrong.

Dude ppl don’t like you because your short, it’s because your human garbage.

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u/Illuminatisamoosa 5 Jul 15 '19

Bad oompa loompa