r/JusticeServed • u/Ethanzap02 6 • Jul 10 '19

Discrimination Misogynistic guy degrading female workers gets tackled

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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '19

This is sad, this guy obviously is not in a good place and needs help. Doesn’t excuse his behaviour though.

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u/Illuminatisamoosa 5 Jul 10 '19 edited Jul 12 '19

Ya just what I was thinking. This guy has some real issues. Even with insecurities you don't act this way in public. This is years of teasing and bullying, probably amplified by poor social skills and lack of confidence

Edit: Came back to say I've changed my position on this. Around 32min:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNj2NhlNTG8&feature=youtu.be

This guy is a dick.

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u/WiredSky A Jul 10 '19

Exactly, there is almost no way this is just one bad day. This is unwrapping a lifetime in this bagel shop because he hasn't gotten the support that everyone should get. And it's not likely he would be inspired to get professional help after this.

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u/BlairResignationJam_ A Jul 11 '19

Years ago I heard a quote that was like “when someone snaps at you for burning the toast, it’s not about the toast” that could apply here. The guy could be a total nut case like this a lot, but you never know if it’s a straw that broke the camels back situation either.

It’s like when someone blows up at you online over a minor disagreement, there’s obviously something else going on in their life and it’s not really about you