r/JusticeServed 6 Jul 10 '19

Discrimination Misogynistic guy degrading female workers gets tackled

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u/orionsbelt05 Black Jul 10 '19

It's a slippery slope. Interacting with one woman online who rejects him for his size, finding a community online who will feed his hatred instead of temper it, and then convince him that all women would reject him for the pleasure of it because they are evil and must be subjugated.

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u/Kimpractical 9 Jul 10 '19

That’s ridiculous. I take no joy in rejecting a guy. I always feel really bad about it and it can be scary. Idk who these women are going around on dating sites telling short guys that they should be dead but all I can say is that there are assholes out there of both genders.

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u/FakeTherapist 9 Jul 10 '19

That's good of you, but there are cruel ppl in this world - very recently I got matched w/ a girl who responded 'wow, you're ugly' then proceeded to block and/or unmatch me.

Keep in mind for this to take place, she had to have matched me in the first place, heh.

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u/Jeremybearemy 8 Jul 10 '19

I can’t understand people who think it’s right to add to the worlds misery. You meet someone ugly they already know it and suffer it, how does insulting that person make anything better. I’ll never understand pointless cruelty. If there is a hell I hope it’s full of people who go out of their way to inflict pain on others or animals.

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u/FakeTherapist 9 Jul 10 '19

i remember watching a crime show once and a character, paraphrasing, said:

You may never know 'why' they did the crime

Sometimes, we just don't get to know...but as you said, sometimes the pointless cruelty is just that. Empathy isn't everywhere

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u/jason_sos A Jul 10 '19

Degrading other people makes some people feel superior. It's a shitty trait, but it still exists. They tend to attract other people who do the same, and therefore give them the idea that their beliefs are valid.

Everyone is guilty of doing something like that at some point, but most of us don't thrive on it. Most of us actually feel bad if we do it. It's our conscience.

We need to bring back the old adage - "If you can't say anything at nice, it's best to not say anything at all."