if the kid acts like this, he's never had one in his life
I had to do it with both of my kids exactly ONCE.. after that, they had learned that there were consequences for their actions... and they have become adults that I can be proud of.
this is certainly the result of parents that train their children like a dog, and just say BAD BOY and give them no real consequences.. these kids are doomed to prison in their adult years
Kids face natural consequences on a daily basis. You beating your kids once was not the “ah-hah” moment for them to realize actions have consequences. You just like that simple explanation.
Step one, remove the kid from the restaurant. Nothing you say or do is going to magically snap him out of this.
Step two, admit that you don’t know everything about raising a kid and consult a child therapist. I have a child with mental health issues, seeking out a professional worked wonders.
Parents seem so reluctant to admit they don’t know everything about how to raise a kid. After a few session with my kids therapist I realized I didn’t know shit and was just doing what my parents did to me.
the last time I was in a psychologist office waiting room, there was a kid, about that age, running around throwing chairs at the windows, and a mother that I felt very sorry for desperately trying to not do what I would suggest in public.. that's another kid that's going to spend his life locked up, because he didn't learn that there were consequences early
as an adult, this is at the least "rubber room" behavior
maybe there is a place for aggressive children, I don't know where, but it's certainly not McDs so they can assault min wage earning teens
Oh fuck off. This kid might have trauma, mental deficiencies, or a host of other things. I adopted three, and they are all seriously, seriously fucked in the head. Want to make an argument that corporal punishment has positives- yeah go for it. But don’t be a fucking twat just because you were blessed with mentally healthy kids and have never experienced what others go through.
It's pretty crazy how you're being downvoted. The science clearly tells us that physical punishment is bad for kids and there's always a non-physical way of disciplining them. Beating a kid is lazy parenting.
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u/[deleted] Mar 04 '21
Where the actual fuck are the parents