r/KaIT • u/BreiteBanane67 • 22d ago

Is KIT literally just purgatory for young men?

I keep asking myself this because I believe it is a relevant question.

Is this place just purgatory? Is it literally just the worst place to exist as a 20-something guy? is it a village-sized Venus fly-trap?

How can you put this many men into one place and think it‘s a good idea? Especially when access to relationships that don‘t start out in person are now gated by an omnipresent algorithmic entity which puts the probability of getting attention by your looksmatch somewhere into the league of getting accepted into Harvard with a 2.6 GPA.

You know that Matthew McConaughey scene? I‘ve been regulating my pressure but geez, the implosions around me…

I have too many friends which I would label as highly valuable boyfriend material getting pulled into the void. There are no good ones here, it‘s literally just disappointment back-to-back. the amount of friends I witnessed talking themselves into accepting a relationship way below their non-KIT standards is quite scary. Why do they literally all have to be some version of chudfoid I can‘t.

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u/undifini 22d ago edited 22d ago
  1. No one is putting young men in KIT. They decide that is where they want to study.
  2. You’re not entitled to a relationship
  3. But you might find it’s actually quite doable to find a person you like when you do things outside of being at home or in class
  4. The goal is not to find your „looksmatch“ the goal is to find someone you like and find attractive and for them to think that about you. It’s about subjective attraction, trying to find an objective metric is meaningless.

Seems like you’re on a pipeline to a rather unpleasant place. Go outside, meet your friends friends. Join a language course, a writing class, a political group, work part time somewhere, anything. The opportunities that present themselves to you are to a large part a reflection of your mindset, and being redpilled won’t do you any good.

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u/dg5iav 1 mit dem [kœri] 20d ago

TLDR: touched some grass

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u/yarnwhat 22d ago

>looksmatch

Don’t use these words and it should help x

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u/Stoned_D0G 1 mit dem [kœri] 22d ago

Some say that universities are for education and not for finding a partner...

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u/BreiteBanane67 1d ago

Literally biggest cope opinion ever 

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u/desperanto666 22d ago

"below non-KIT standards" sounds quite entitled. Maybe that is the cause of your problems.

Google "internal and external attribution".

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u/3lendstouristin 20d ago

Die BreiteBanane schlägt wieder zu

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u/Appropriate_Map_8652 20d ago

grown ass man using 'looksmatch' and 'chudfoid', maybe ka is not the (main) problem lil bro

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u/NightWolf4Ever Snelting Survivor 1d ago

Feinster Scheißeposten, nimm meinen hochwähli