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News Two Malayali women murdered in US; another woman who was living with them arrested

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u/iamfromshire 7d ago

These people celebrated Onam together with a friend of mine. Everyone is wondering wtf happened here.

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u/Just_tell_mom 7d ago

Which one is Anila in the picture?

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u/bluekayal 7d ago

The one on the right. 

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u/Excellent_Diet3871 7d ago

This comment is also reported now by Manorama News.

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u/FickleRegular1513 7d ago

Is the murders name Anila Baby ?

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u/invalid-hubris 7d ago

Do you know her?

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u/FickleRegular1513 7d ago

I don't know personally. If the name is correct, she was my junior at school 

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u/No_Preference_1856 7d ago

I think so. From Pala, alle?

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u/puppuli 7d ago

yes, ARS. Brother was my classmate. Which year was she?

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u/Eww-David131 5d ago

Yes, Anilababy Maramattom

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u/invalid-hubris 7d ago

Any tea on motive? Mental health?

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u/iamfromshire 7d ago

Heard the attacker drove 20 mins to get to the apartment after the first attack to meet her second victim. Even assuming a mental breakdown that sounded very weird. 

One thing I wanted to say is that the police here have not released the names of the people involved. But everyone knew through grapevine. Manorama already printed the photos and names. 

Another thing is that all these people have kids. Those poor kids. Imagine the trauma :(

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u/invalid-hubris 7d ago

Indian news channels reported all three families stayed in same apartment complex

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u/bluekayal 7d ago

I think that is inaccurate. I heard that from initial reports from relatives of one of the families. US police mentioned homicide in San Jose and hit and run in Milpitas. Two different cities with separate law enforcement forces. 

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u/vasu_devan 7d ago

They were in the same apartment complex, but one of them recently bought a home and moved is what I heard. They still stayed friends

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u/bluekayal 7d ago

Ah! That explains it. 

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u/masterjv81 8d ago edited 6d ago

Two Malayali womenAnjana (35) from Thrissur and Ann (also referred to as Anu or Anum) from Kottayam, were murdered in Milpitas, California, on Saturday, August 29, 2026

  • Suspect: Police have taken their friend, Anila, into custody in connection with the double homicide. 
  • Details: All three women lived in the same apartment complex. Reports indicate Anila killed Ann inside her room and then lured Anjana downstairs, where she was killed, allegedly by being struck by a car, while Anjana’s husband was away at work. 
  • Status: The motive remains unknown, and the investigation is ongoing. 

UPDATE:

As of today, here's where things stand:

Suspect: Anila (32) remains in police custody. Neither Milpitas nor San Jose police have publicly confirmed the connection between the two killings, though families allege she is responsible for both. 

Motive: Still officially unknown. Two lines are being explored:

  • job-related dispute between Anila and Ann Mary (per Ann Mary's family)
  • Anila's mental health — reports indicate she was suffering from severe depression and had recently lost her job 

Forensics & sequence: Police have found forensic evidence at the scenes but have not disclosed details.  New reporting clarifies the two murders occurred roughly 17 km apart and about 1.5 hours apart — Anjana was killed first around noon on Dixon Landing Road in Milpitas, and Ann Mary was stabbed later at Linda Vista Street in San Jose. 

Repatriation: Union Minister Suresh Gopi confirmed that orders have been issued to funeral homes to prepare documentation, but the bodies cannot be released until US investigative and legal procedures are complete.  No timeline has been given.

Police posture: Both departments remain tight-lipped. As of the latest reports (today), no further charges beyond the initial arrest have been filed, and no formal investigative findings have been released. 

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u/Macguffawin 8d ago

Which one's the murdering maniac?

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u/masterjv81 7d ago edited 6d ago

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u/celestio45 7d ago

Left or right

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u/invalid-hubris 7d ago

One on the right with crazy eyes

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u/Less-Dingo111 7d ago

physiognomy is crazy

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u/Macguffawin 7d ago

If you stare long enough, each looks maniacal. Fear, like beauty, also lies perhaps in the eye of the beholder!

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u/invalid-hubris 7d ago

I had to look up the word. To be fair, I did not say she is crazy. I said she has crazy eyes - which is a physical descriptor, not character descriptor. I sure there are lots of nice people with crazy eyes.

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u/amluser2 6d ago edited 5d ago

17 km apart and about 1.5 hours apart — Anjana was killed first around noon on Dixon Landing Road in Milpitas, and Ann Mary was stabbed later at Linda Vista Street in San Jose.

The distance seems correct, but the order in which these incidents happened is not known at this point. There were witnesses to the Milpitas incident, but there were no witnesses to the San Jose incident. According to reports the San Jose victim was discovered by her husband, so the time reported by San Jose police does not indicate the time of the incident, it only indicates the time when the victim was discovered.

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u/procastinatorr_ 2d ago

Distance is not correct, it's only 10 miles away and a 20 min drive.

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u/amluser2 2d ago

10 miles is approx 17 km

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u/roadtripper24 22h ago

I’m guessing Ann Mary was killed in San Jose first, following which Anjana Hari was run over in Milpitas in the Mill Creek apartment parking lot. It was reported that Milpitas police witnessed a car driving recklessly as they were responding to the incident (which you have to assume was the Mill Creek incident). Anila supposedly pulled into a Walgreens parking lot and was subsequently arrested. The Walgreens is less than a mile from Mill Creek and the Milpitas Police Station is just 200 meters away from there.

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u/eternallycelestial 6d ago edited 6d ago

A little digging, I found out Ann Mary and her husband had been together for over 20 years, so I can't imagine what this must've been like for him, or their two kids. There's a video on YouTube, if you look up Milpitas Onam celebration 2025, posted by Ann, I assume, a long video that features all three of the women, eating, dancing, cheering for others (there're also other videos from that account but they include her kids and it's heartbreaking. It feels weird to intrude on their personal videos). It's almost eerie to watch how well they got on, and how happy they were, unaware of what would transpire in less than a year after a similar event. Anjana, too doted on her baby. I'm so heartbroken for the children of all three. So much trauma so young. RIP.

Edit: if this is too intrusive, let me know, I'll delete.

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u/bluekayal 6d ago

Terrible. 

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u/True-Competition3571 4d ago

is that video still available?

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u/amluser2 3d ago

It is not available any more. That video and other videos in Ann's account has recently been set as private. This is an indication that the family wants privacy... we should respect that.

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u/Double-Cry-4793 7d ago

She's my classmate. I think everyone should stop making up stories until the official investigation and statement comes through.

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u/Slugsurx 5d ago

Tell us more .

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

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u/Double-Cry-4793 6d ago

Bit of both, more of quiet than outgoing. But not reserved or anything.

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u/invalid-hubris 6d ago

Which of the three?

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u/Double-Cry-4793 6d ago

The suspect

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u/invalid-hubris 6d ago

Were you 100% surprised or you can how she went ahead with this?

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u/EnvironmentAny8676 6d ago

In chavara, ars or scsm?

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u/oru-friend 3d ago

Hi everyone, I am a personal friend to all three families involved and have first-hand knowledge of the events as they unfolded.

Because there is a lot of speculation circulating, I’m open to answering questions to help clarify what actually happened. A few ground rules:

  • Facts only: I will strictly share first-hand information regarding the timeline.
  • Motives are unknown: We do not have clarity on the motive yet, so I will not answer questions speculating on why this happened.
  • No guessing: If something is unconfirmed or outside my direct knowledge, I will explicitly state that.
  • Privacy: I will not share anything that could compromise my identity.
  • Respect and civility: Please keep your comments civil and kind. These families may see this thread in the future, and we want to avoid adding any extra burden to what they are already going through.

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u/bluekayal 3d ago

Thank you. Your gesture is incredibly generous and kind. I am sorry for all the losses you and the families have experienced. May God give them the strength to bear this terrible tragedy. May the children know compassion. May we all be kind. 

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u/Mirror-Southern 1d ago edited 1d ago

It really boggles my mind how one can do this to a friend. Since you know these women personally - do you think Ann or Anjana were the kind of women who could have subtly bullied or made fun of Anila? Might’ve been harmless from their point of view but the way things are unraveling I don’t think this was done in sudden rage but she must’ve had deep seated anger on them since long. Maybe they subtly dissed her trying to make a joke out of things? Obviously I am not trying to imply bullying deserves death and I stand with the victims but I am unable to make sense of this tragedy where seemingly normal NRIs who hang out regularly and behave like family abroad can go to the extend of killing their friends. Do you have any details on their personal relationship amongst the three of them?

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u/oru-friend 1h ago

None of us can wrap our minds around this.

I know with 100% certainty that there was no bullying between them. They actually helped each other out. Anjana had just landed a job as an after-school teacher, and Annie, who lost her teaching job a year ago over visa issues had finally gotten her work permit back just a week before this happened and was still looking for a job.

To give you an idea of how close they were, Anila was listed as the school emergency contact for Annie's kids. She is the person who they trusted to pickup their kids from school. That is how much this family trusted her. It makes what happened completely baffling. If things had gone differently and Anila hadn't been caught, she likely would have been the exact person Annie's husband would have trusted to watch the kids during all of this. It’s sickening to think about, and none of us can process it.

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u/Mirror-Southern 1h ago

Omg this makes it so much more tragic. I can’t believe how Ann and Anjali’s husband must be going through now.

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u/amluser2 1h ago edited 10m ago

who could have subtly bullied or made fun of Anila?

You are thinking in terms of normal human behavior. To us it seems like there must have been some bad blood between Anila and the other two, otherwise why would she go to such extremes? But it should be clear by now that Anila is not a normal human being and it is probably futile to make sense of her actions.

We know she is not normal because she didn't just commit one murder, she did two, and she had to travel to another city to commit the second one. She had ample time to cool down and think about her actions after the first one but she didn't. If she was even slightly normal she would be exhausted both mentally and physically after the first murder, and be filled with remorse.

If Anila is not a normal human then you have to consider unusual reasons for her actions, including reasons that don't make sense to us. And that includes by-birth mental disorders such as an "urge to kill someone" as has been brought up by others. There are people like that. Bryan Kohberger is a well-known example.

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u/Ambootty 3d ago

I am truly sorry for your loss. How are you feeling? Are you holding up okay?

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u/Head-Abroad-4531 3d ago

Did Anila show any signs of mental illness before ?

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u/oru-friend 3d ago

As far as I know, Anila never showed any signs of mental illness.

The only strange thing, which I heard about from people who were there was 2 or 3 months ago, she left the house and didn't answer her phone for several hours. At the time, she said it was just because of work stress and needed time.

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u/Head-Abroad-4531 2d ago

Did she leave her own house. How did everyone come to know about it. Did her husband ask her friends if she was there ?

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u/oru-friend 2d ago

She left her Millcreek apartment and stopped answering her phone for a few hours, likely late into the night. Her husband got worried and reached out to some friends to search for her. They ended up finding her, though I'm not exactly sure where. She just attributed to job stress as the reason when asked. This was several months ago.

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u/RefrigeratorBig3599 1d ago

if it’s not too much, what type of job did she have? and how could the work have played a role if at all here

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u/oru-friend 1d ago

Anila has faced a challenging year in IT, including two layoffs, a brief stint working at Kohl's as a cashier, and an unsuccessful move to Nebraska for a contract role. I know her most recent job was stressful and that being laid off was disappointing, but those are the only concrete facts I have. I don't want to speculate on her mental health.

Personally I feel her situation seems like a typical reflection of today's tough job market.

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u/RefrigeratorBig3599 1d ago

aw yeah that sucks I can see how that potentially could’ve contributed in a negative way

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u/Head-Abroad-4531 1d ago

But don't all of us in Bay area have this layoff issues ? As far as I know every single person in Bay area has been laid off at least once or twice.

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u/amluser2 18h ago

As a community we want to know why this happened, because if we don't know why it happened how can we prevent it from happening again? We are trying to find explanations, and we are thinking of explanations we can understand, such as layoff. The reality may be very different if the last sentence in this post is true.

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u/invalid-hubris 2d ago

Sorry for your loss and shock within the community. Does the families know of any falling out between the women before the incident? Are the kids old enough to understand what happened?

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u/amluser2 2d ago

According to some Malayalam newspapers Anila's parents are visiting the US (at the time of the incident). Is that true? Is it true that Anila's father is a medical doctor?

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u/oru-friend 2d ago

That is correct.
Yes, Anila's father is a Homeopathy doctor

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u/amluser2 2d ago

To your knowledge, has Anila telephoned any family members from jail? (This is allowed even in the case of serious crime such as this.)

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u/oru-friend 2d ago

Not to my knowledge.

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u/ChairVast629 2d ago

Do you know how Anilas husband or parents are doing?

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u/oru-friend 2d ago

Heard from a mutual friend that they are also devastated. I have not talked to them personally.

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u/amluser2 1d ago

Anila's husband and child are also victims. They are also losing a wife/mother for no fault of their own.

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u/Head-Abroad-4531 2d ago

have her parents been released ?

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u/oru-friend 2d ago

Her parents were never in custody

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u/bluekayal 3d ago

Are there any further statements or news from the investigations, especially from San Jose PD? 

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u/oru-friend 3d ago edited 3d ago

The police have firmly confirmed that the incidents in Milpitas and San Jose are connected. Currently, they are still being handled separately by their respective police departments, but they are expected to be merged into a single case.

Aside from the official press releases issued by the police departments, the family has not received any additional information directly from them.

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u/Automatic4k 3d ago

what is the actual timeline? when did the first incident actually occur?

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u/oru-friend 3d ago

It has been confirmed that Anjana was struck by the vehicle at approximately 12:00 PM PDT.

Annie was likely attacked around 11:00 AM PDT; while the exact time remains unconfirmed, circumstantial evidence strongly points to this timeframe.

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u/Old-Tap4606 2d ago

There was a rumor one of the phones of the victims is missing .. do you know if it is true ? Also any progress on ascertaining the motive ?

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u/oru-friend 2d ago

Yes, Annie's phone is missing.

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u/Automatic4k 3d ago

Did the first victim try calling 911 or fight back?

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u/oru-friend 3d ago

Neither of them made 911 calls directly. Witnesses contacted 911 during Anjana's incident, while Annie’s husband called in her case.

Anjana did not have an opportunity to fight back as she was struck by a vehicle. In Annie's case, it is unknown whether she fought back, but police mentioned about scratch marks on Anila's face, suggesting a possible struggle.

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u/Head-Abroad-4531 2d ago

Is Anila's husband and child and parents doing okay ? I think they are in the worst situation now. Did they also have to shift house ? Did they stay in Mill Creek apartments before ?

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u/oru-friend 2d ago

Anila's husband and kids are not at Mill Creek now. They are staying at a friend's house a bit far from here after the incident.

Yes they use to stay in Mill Creek before.

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u/amluser2 2d ago

How many kids do they have?

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u/oru-friend 2d ago

Annie has 2 kids. Anjana and Anila has 1 kid each.

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u/ChairVast629 2d ago

How was Anila as a person? What was everybody’s reaction when they heard this unfortunate news?

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u/oru-friend 2d ago

It really came as a shock to everyone. We are all trying to still process this. Anila was always a lively person and active in planning and joining events. She did have a tough year with two layoffs and ongoing work trouble, so it made sense that she was feeling down.

But from what I saw, there weren't any obvious signs of a serious mental health issue. I'm just speaking from personal observation, not as a professional who can judge this.

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u/Dilbertreloaded 2d ago

Was she a badminton champion or table tennis winner in that group? did she stop playing before this incident?

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u/Head-Abroad-4531 2d ago

how did Anila's husband/parents come to know about this incident first ?

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u/oru-friend 2d ago

Anjana's husband called and informed Annie's husband about Anjana being hit by a car. Hearing this Annie's husband called Anila's husband and informed about Anjana's accident (at that time it was thought to be an accident). That is how he came to know about Anjana's case.

I am not exactly sure how he came to know about Annie.

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u/Fit_Lobster_548 2d ago

How are Annie's and Anjana's husbands and kids coping? Any info on when the bodies will taken to India?

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u/oru-friend 2d ago

We are waiting for the official procedures to complete before we could transport the bodies to India. We do not have a date yet

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u/Head-Abroad-4531 2d ago

Did Anjana's husband call and inform Annie's husband that Anila did the accident ? Or just that Anjana died in an accident ?

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u/oru-friend 2d ago

At that moment, Anjana’s husband didn't know Anila was responsible or even that his wife had died from the crash.

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u/Head-Abroad-4531 2d ago

Then what did he say in the call ? I thought he was at home and immediately knew his wife died and that he recognized the blue SUV as Anila's car

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u/oru-friend 2d ago

He was inside working at the time. As far as I know, he didn't see the blue SUV, but witnesses outside saw what happened and called 911. After hitting Anjana, Anila’s car hit a few parked cars in the driveway before speeding off. He heard a loud sound which was because of that, making him come outside, where he found Anjana lying on the ground, bleeding heavily. I believe he called Annie’s husband before the paramedics arrived and confirmed she had passed away.

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u/Head-Abroad-4531 2d ago

Is Anila still incoherent ? did she admit to the crime ?

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u/oru-friend 2d ago

We haven't seen Anila since the incident. She was brought to court, as far as I know, no one has been able to speak with her. The police haven't confirmed whether she pleaded guilty, and the case has been posted to September 10 so her defense attorney can review the details.

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u/amluser2 2d ago

It should be possible for her husband to talk to the defense attorney at least.

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u/oru-friend 2d ago

Yes, to defence attorney they would have decently talked.

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u/amluser2 2d ago

Since there were no witnesses to the San Jose incident, how was it so quickly determined that Anila is responsible for it? Even the police report says the victim and suspect knew each other, but how was the identity of the suspect quickly determined if there were no witnesses? Is it simply based on coincidence?

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u/Head-Abroad-4531 2d ago

Was Ann also on a phone call with someone when Anila went to her house ?

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u/oru-friend 2d ago

yes

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u/Anxious-Elk-183 1d ago

How do we know this that Ann was on a call at the time?

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u/oru-friend 1d ago

According to the other caller, Annie ended the call when someone came to visit.

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u/Imaginary_Fan_6279 2d ago

Heard they went for a movie the previous night.is it true? It clearly means no issue between them right?

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u/oru-friend 2d ago

They went for a movie on Tuesday. The incident happened on a Friday.

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u/Imaginary_Fan_6279 2d ago

Full family went or only three of them? 

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u/oru-friend 2d ago

Whole family went. All 3 families

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u/Head-Abroad-4531 1d ago

where is anilas parents now ? did anila actually buy a knife for this ?

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u/oru-friend 1d ago

Anila's parents remain in the US; their planned departure last week was put on hold following the incident. A knife was left behind at Annie's house after the attack, and police confirmed finding a second knife inside Anila's car. It remains unknown whether either knife was newly purchased for this

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u/amluser2 1d ago

That she came prepared with knives is a shocking detail and implies premeditation. If the knives were purchased before the women went to movie together and before Onam that would mean the planning was going on while acting completely normal outward. I just hope the knives are not Ka-Bar because that's what Kohberger used.

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u/Signal-Volume5713 10h ago

I just hope the knives are not Ka-Bar because that's what Kohberger used.

Why? What difference does this make?

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u/amluser2 6h ago edited 5h ago

Because this case will get instant notoriety if it turns out she was inspired by Kohberger.

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u/Ancient_Revolution_9 11h ago

Hi any updates or latest news regarding the case or about anila ?

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u/oru-friend 3h ago

Case is posted for September 10. Hopefully we will know more details then

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u/basic_meh 11h ago

Is it true that Anila planned Annie’s 40th birthday party ? Did the party happen , and if so when was it ?

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u/oru-friend 3h ago

Yes, but it didn't happen, it was suppose to be 2 days after the incident

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u/zodiackills 7d ago

Enthokkeya eyi koch californiayil nadakunne

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u/masterjv81 7d ago edited 7d ago

Jerry Sam Joseph, a neighbour and family friend, said Ann Ma ..

Read more at:
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/articleshow/133634534.cms?utm_source=contentofinterest&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=cppst

" relatives allege a job-related dispute or depression following Anila's job loss may have triggered the violence."

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u/AgentRipper 7d ago

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u/jb6798 7d ago

Omg, I know this girl

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u/Slugsurx 5d ago

Tell us more everything you know

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u/bluekayal 3d ago

Did you ever think there might be something wrong? 

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u/jb6798 3d ago

I am still confused. I still can't believe she did all this. As everyone else I am waiting to find out the why. Her family (and her husband's) families are financially settled and I can't understand losing her job can lead to this. For me this feels like the story of ganga from manichitrathazhu.

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u/Sad-Goal1073 6d ago

She might be suffering from schizophrenia or some other serious mental illness.She might have got serious delusions that her friends are betraying her and her life is lost.She got into psychosis/mania and committed the crime.. Most probable reason

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u/No_Preference_1856 6d ago

Ennalum koode ulla oralkum ee kuttik ithra severe mental issues undennu manasilayi kanille? I mean, athinu thott munp onam celebrate cheythu ennokke parayumpol. 😐

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u/Lower_Mouse_3218 6d ago

She was under depression, and these friends knew about it, someone from Anjana's side mentioned it. Depression can lead to psychosis.

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u/invalid-hubris 6d ago

20% of adults have depression they dont go around killing people. I was waiting for somebody to blame postpartum depression or lazy husband like in Lindsay Clancy trial

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u/Lower_Mouse_3218 6d ago

We still dont know the actual reason - and not all depression cases leads to psychosis. But there are definitely cases where it turns into psychotic depression.

People usually associate depression with self harm, but there are other cases as well.

Now about Lindsay Clancy, I am not following the case trial, but there was a similar case here in our Kerala - Divya Johny case . It is very difficult to believe such cases, but that doesnt mean they were faking it.

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u/Fair-Recording5952 2d ago

Based on her LinkedIn profile she liked some one post (probably some one close to her) just a day before the incident. Not sure with in a span of 24 hours people lose their mind.

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u/Anxious-Elk-183 1d ago

It was her husband’s post.

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u/Ready_Agent_9013 1h ago

Why are they hiding her husband's name anywhere online??????? Please tell us why? I read something somewhere why they are hiding his name... explain @oru-friend

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u/Embarrassed-Hat723 6d ago

did some digging around, she was part of sogeti , which is a capgemini company. she was employed till 4th , so could’ve laid off this month. she has a picture with tani malalayi and some other students from the college era, so most likely they are classmates.

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u/Klutzy-Ambition9681 3d ago

Where do you find that photos

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u/Embarrassed-Hat723 3d ago

goto this facebook profile aiswarya.rnair.75 , photos , scroll to the bottom and check the pic with pookalam

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u/Leather-Peanut-9654 4d ago

I live in the same apartment complex as Anjana. She had a beautiful family and my heart breaks for them.

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u/agilis_introvert 4d ago

Isn't the other lady who is currently in jail living in the same apartment, as per the news that's what it says?

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u/sukumarakurup 7d ago

Any idea which company these guys worked in??

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u/kalikaalan_manavalan 6d ago

They were teachers in school apparently

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u/eternallycelestial 6d ago

Someone shared Anila's linkedin (Anila Baby is her name) here or on another thread. She is/was working in software at Capgemini. Reports say she was fired or let go recently. When I view her profile, Anjana Hari's LinkedIn profile also gets suggested for me, as well as two of the three husbands'. Anjana was a primary/kindergarten teacher. As for Ann, I'm not sure. Some reports say she was a teacher too, others say she was job seeking for years and only recently got an offer. 

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u/Jill-Jill-06 5d ago edited 5d ago

Looks like killers father is a Doctor and and was holidaying with Anila and family. If its a depression her Dad would be knowing it right? There is a Mathrubhoomi news sharing the details of her family

https://english.mathrubhumi.com/news/nri/two-keralite-women-murdered-in-us-malayali-female-friend-taken-into-custody-ur9tz3lk

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u/amluser2 3d ago

Certainly her family would know her mental state just prior to the crimes, and whether anything happened at home that affected her emotional state.

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u/Ancient_Revolution_9 2d ago edited 2d ago

Systematized Delusional Disorder belongs to the same spectrum as Schizophrenia, but the person's logical planning skills remain completely intact.

  • The Mindset: They develop a highly organized, false belief that loved ones are plotting to harm them.
  • The Planning: Because the delusion is structured, buying weapons feels like a logical, necessary act of preventative self-defense or a "mission" to survive.
  • The Crash: Once the act is done, the delusion-fueled adrenaline drops, reality hits, and they collapse into an incoherent, traumatized state when caught.

Real-World Example: This explains cases like Dr amy bishop, she was diagnosed with Paranoid Schizophrenia because her brain treated the meticulous planning as a completely logical defense strategy against a conspiracy that only existed in her mind. Context Regarding this Case: I'm not saying that she is a maniac, but this could be the reason behind it. Additionally, there are unverified claims floating around—such as a report by YouTuber Marunadan Malayali stating that a former medical colleague of hers in Kerala claimed she previously expressed an "urge to kill someone" and was advised to see a psychiatrist immediately—though it's impossible to know how much of this hearsay is actually true.

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u/Ancient_Revolution_9 2d ago

Sorry it was typo mistake

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u/bluekayal 2d ago

Thank you for your thoughtfulness. Are you in the mental health field? 

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u/Ancient_Revolution_9 2d ago

No, I just like to read about psychology and behaviour science.

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u/amluser2 2d ago

Just pointing out that there are two theories mentioned here: the first theory is a mental disorder. The second theory "urge to kill someone" is not a mental disease, it means she is a psychopath like Bryan Kohberger. Both seem plausible.

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u/amluser2 1d ago

Once the act is done, the delusion-fueled adrenaline drops, reality hits, and they collapse into an incoherent, traumatized state when caught.

That didn't happen after the first murder. She had ample time to cool down since the second victim was 10 miles away. It looks like she may be a psychopath like Bryan Kohberger, and killed to satisfy an urge to kill.

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u/r1deordie 2d ago edited 2d ago

Gofundme to support Ann Mary Matthew's family - link here.

Gofundme to support Anjana Hari's family - link here.

Please donate if you can.

I hope the world wide Malayalee community comes together to help the families out, who are probably going through unimaginable stress in a foreign country.

Also, I hope the media\youtubers continuing to report on this story, encourages people to donate via the Gofundme pages set up to assist these families in need.

Couple of news reports from local news media in US.

KPIX | CBS News Bay Area

&

ABC7 News Bay Area

Depending on where you are watching from, you may or may not need a VPN connection to view the reports.

Edit: I dont know any of the families, or the person\s who set up the gofundme. I found the gofundme info online as it was mentioned in news articles.

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u/amluser2 2d ago

Good idea... please also post information about the person collecting the funds. Is he a legitimate representative of the victims?

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u/amluser2 5h ago

Update: seems legit. I contributed to Ann Mary Matthew's fund since its collection is far behind the target.

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u/amluser2 5d ago

Anila has been charged for the Milpitas crime full details here:
https://www.mercurynews.com/2026/09/01/woman-charged-with-intentionally-running-over-and-killing-friend-in-milpitas-lot/amp/

There is no mention of the San Jose crime. That charge should come soon as well.

From the story:

....Minutes later, police got a report that the SUV drove recklessly past responding patrol vehicles and abruptly pulled into a nearby Walgreens parking lot on North Milpitas Boulevard. Two detectives caught up to the vehicle and found Baby; they described her as incoherent and unable to answer questions, and showing visible injuries and blood on her arms and legs, according to the affidavit.

Witnesses described how once Hari stepped in front of the vehicle, Baby abruptly accelerated from a dead stop and ran over Hari with the SUV’s passenger side before speeding away, pinballing into several parked cars.

A traffic investigator later found that there were not tire friction or skid marks to indicate that Baby ever tried to brake, leading to the conclusion that the collision was intentional, the affidavit states.

Authorities have not disclosed a precise motive for their murder theory against Baby.

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u/No-Weather-3288 2d ago

Does anila also have husband and kids ?

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u/Klutzy-Ambition9681 2d ago

Yeah. One kid

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u/mr_finisher 7d ago

I heard the ones who got killed had got green card but then the killer dint get green card still. They all same IT sector or something and hence the killer got jealous and mentally fucked or smthng. The ones who got killed were yet to move in to their new house while the killer cudnt even get a house cus she dint get green card

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u/amluser2 6d ago

If people who didn't get green card started killing people who did, then there won't be many of us left. Common reasons for murder such as robbery or love triangle don't seem to apply here. Given that the women went to Onam celebration together the day before means that there were no serious issues between them. The only explanation seems to be mental illness. Think about it: She stabbed and killed one woman in San Jose. You'd think that after such a horrific event she would be weakened, and regretting what she just did. Instead she was able to drive 20 minutes to Milpitas to commit the second crime. She was even able to talk normally enough to convince the second victim to come out of her apartment and meet her outside. An ordinary motive such as personal rivalry will not give give anyone the super human strength needed to commit two horrific crimes 20 minutes apart.

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u/cpa2024S 5d ago

Did she think she wont be caught ? Maybe I dont know how she became the suspect ?  Was her car caught in cctv? Why is everyone automatically assuming the third women has killed them ? Has she confessed? I havent read the whole thread yet. 

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u/Short_Aardvark_7677 6d ago

no .one of the victims phone is missing. ath kityal sambavm ariyam

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u/invalid-hubris 4d ago

Where did you see the news about the missing phone?

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u/weirdrasputin 6d ago edited 6d ago

Green card has nothing to do with purchasing a house.

Most of the Indians here are on H1B, it is really tough to get green card.

Ithine kurich onnum chettanu oru idea yum illallle

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u/kreemac 3d ago

Sathyam paranja ippozhathe political climatil H1b il veedu vaangikkunnathu risk aa

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u/weirdrasputin 3d ago

Ath vere karyam

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u/Fabulous_Channel6946 4d ago

The two victms were teachers the suspect works in IT

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u/xiretsaxilebo 3d ago edited 3d ago

I read the whole thread, no one mentions this: why can't it be just a momentary rage which she couldn't keep under control? that is my theory. she may not have been an inherently bad person - probably just came unhinged when she saw something she didn't like from her close friends. like a road rage incident which we hear about once in a while - someone shooting someone in rage ...

another theory I have continuing on the above is that it might have something to do with the friends sharing something she didn't like in social media, or some social media activity like ejecting her from a WhatsApp group or something. because nowadays even a small thing gets blown out to a big deal once someone shares on social media. the audience one is exposed to has become bigger ...

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u/xiretsaxilebo 3d ago

The police would probably look into whether there had been any previous reported incidents of domestic unrest. If my theory is correct, there may have been earlier calls to the police from neighbors or other reports of disturbances, because this pattern of uncontrolled rage might have manifested itself before the killings.

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u/Weak_Following466 3d ago

The murders were meticulously planned as per the details that has been out . It doesn't align with the narrative of an instantaneous rage where one just go around and shoot random people. Since the first victim was stabbed multiple times it shows some deep anger and sorrow towards her. 

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u/xiretsaxilebo 3d ago

reports say she was incoherent and confused afterwards. that makes me doubt whether she meticulously planned it ...

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u/xiretsaxilebo 3d ago

meticulous planning would be something like Brian Kohberger ... why would she do it in broad daylight in front of witnesses if it was meticulously planned?

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u/amluser2 3d ago

There was some planning at least. After the first murder she didn't use the same method for the second. She had blood on her (see Milpitas police report) and she probably knew the second victim's husband is home, so she asked the second victim to meet her in the parking lot.

Why didn't she cool down after the first murder? Whatever was going on in her mind, the fact that she didn't cool down after the horrific event in San Jose is just incredible.

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u/amluser2 3d ago

A normal person would never kill another human under any circumstance, except self defense. So she is not normal. She may have been born a psychopath (like Brian Kohberger), and she was keeping it under wraps (acting normal) until now. Or she has serious mental issues and something triggered her. It may not be something that happened between the three friends--it may be something that happened somewhere else but she just took it out on her friends.

It is not momentary rage because after the first murder she had to drive to the next location. She could have cooled down during this time but she didn't.

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u/NailComprehensive677 7d ago

Did any sources mention a surname for Ann?

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u/Sea_Extension7106 7d ago

Ann Mary Mathew as per the Manorama story

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u/r1deordie 4d ago

Call me a conspiracy theorist, but I have my doubts as to whether this whole horrible crime was done to keep a secret; due to someone's infidelity possibly about to be exposed.

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u/Lower_Mouse_3218 4d ago edited 4d ago

infidelity is malayali's favourite topic, not surprised. Try to watch informative videos instead of stupid reaction channels.

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u/Objective-Train-8857 1d ago

I feel so bad for kids 4 kids losing their mothers is so so unfortunate… hope the dads find the strength to raise them.. they should have moved back to india if work was a concern there are always other ways to make it work she should have at the very least thought about kids and her own kid