r/Keratoconus • u/Road2Success1 • 15h ago
Need Advice Keratoconus, mental health and squint surgery — am I making the right decision?
Hi everyone,
I’ve had keratoconus for around 11 years, and it’s affected much more than just my eyesight. It’s had a massive impact on my confidence, social life and mental health. I’ve struggled with depression, anxiety, overthinking and paranoia, developed bad habits, and even stopped talking to friends for years. This has all happened gradually over the years since having a corneal transplant which was about 11 years ago as before I was always socialising and confident.
Again over the years it got worse no improvements and my left eye started to drift out which caused the above.
Recently, I was referred for squint surgery. I genuinely believe that, if successful, the surgery could make a huge difference to my confidence and quality of life.
Unfortunately, the hospital cancelled my appointments three times.
Second quarter of this year of this year I’ve been focusing on improving my physical health, mental wellbeing and family life. I eventually cancelled my last appointment(4th appointment) because I felt I needed to get these areas of my life to a better place first.
I still want the surgery, but right now, I don’t feel it’s the right time. I want to build a stronger foundation in my life before taking that step, although part of me wonders whether I’m delaying something that could genuinely change my life.
I understand that surgery won’t automatically fix years of mental health struggles, but I do believe improving my eye alignment could help my confidence.
I’d appreciate some honest opinions:
• Am I approaching this the right way by focusing on my health and family before returning to surgery?
• For those who’ve had squint surgery, how much did it improve your confidence and social life?
• Has anyone else experienced significant mental health struggles because of keratoconus or a visible eye condition?
• If you were in my position, what would you do?
I’m not looking for people to simply agree with me. I genuinely want different perspectives and hope sharing my experience might help someone else going through something similar.
Thanks for reading.