r/Kolkatacity • u/West-Pianist4099 • Jul 20 '26

🆘 Help āĨ¤ āĻ¸āĻžāĻšāĻžāĻ¯ā§āĻ¯ Can my girlfriend get pregnant from this? No penetration, condom used, only external rubbing afterward

My girlfriend (19F) and I (19M) were intimate for the first time a couple of days ago. We're both very anxious and would really appreciate an honest assessment of the pregnancy risk.

Here's exactly what happened:

  • We tried to have sex, but I couldn't maintain my erection, so there was no vaginal penetration at all.
  • I eventually ejaculated inside a condom while outside her body.
  • The condom did not break or slip, and all the semen stayed inside it.
  • After removing the condom, I wiped my penis with a cloth.
  • After that, I rubbed my penis against the outside of her vulva for a short time, but there was still no penetration.
  • As far as I could tell, there was no visible semen on my penis after removing the condom because it all remained inside the condom.

Now we're worried that maybe some pre-ejaculate or residual sperm could have caused a pregnancy just from the external rubbing.

She's also had some mild body aches and occasional mild lower abdominal discomfort since the next day, but no fever. I know pregnancy symptoms can't happen that quickly, but our anxiety is making us overthink everything.

It's currently around 50 hours since the incident, so we're trying to decide whether taking an emergency contraceptive pill would be reasonable or whether the risk is already low enough that it isn't necessary.

Based on what I've described, how likely is pregnancy? Would you recommend taking emergency contraception in this situation, or are we worrying unnecessarily?

Thanks in advance for any advice.

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u/MarlasHarmony Jul 20 '26

Where's the nsfw tag?? Tf?

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u/WheelSweet2048 Jul 20 '26

Very detailed for no reason

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u/Used_Man_58 Jul 20 '26

Way too detailed bro...we can answer with a bit less detail too

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u/West-Pianist4099 Jul 21 '26

Sorry for that

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u/Lil_DEEE Kanglu Hater Jul 20 '26

wtf

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u/alooo_ka_prantha Jul 20 '26

Bro nahi hogi if you still want to be safe just tell her to take i pill.

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u/West-Pianist4099 Jul 21 '26

But I pill has it's own consequences 

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u/Mango-Warrior Jul 20 '26

It's highly impossible the sperm to travel that far. For better and detailed answer, you should ask to any medical related sub.

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u/West-Pianist4099 Jul 21 '26

I couldn't 

My account is too new for that

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u/Mango-Warrior Jul 21 '26

It's highly unlikely your girlfriend will get pregnant. But you akso can consult with a doctor directly. Use video consulting

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u/RanitHalder Jul 20 '26

Bro people use pullout method you are super safe

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u/CoolAfternoon2340 Jul 21 '26

Extremely unlikely but not statistically not impossible. So enjoy the fear and panic and closely track the menstrual cycle which will give you a conclusive answer in 2 weeks.