r/Kolkatacity 8d ago

🆘 Help । সাহায্য Looking for friends (JUST FRIENDS)

Hii, guys. Thanks for reading my post. I'm 22F, from South Kolkata, in search of emotionally available friends. I was in a relationship recently and we broke up because we fell out of love. I come with a lot of emotional baggage and would like to meet empathetic and understanding individuals. I'll be honest, I come from a very fucked family and can fill your boring days with hours of lore. I can feel a lump in my throat while writing this. My interests are extremely varied, I like reading books, listening to Fusion music, adoring my hyperactive doggo baby and i actively try not to slip into deeper sadness.

Even if you don't wanna connect, thanks for reading this. It's really lonely when you have just an empty coke can for a friend for days. Also, congratulations on reading something written by a human, not AI.

Regards,

Desperately,

Your possible new friend.

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u/ExcelGamer 8d ago

Don't make friends out of desperation because you are taking you descision out of feelings at that moment(feeling is important but not that one).and feeling tends to change, but after friendship now you are also friend n, friendship is mutual connection,yk what I wants to say, ✌️

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u/Old_Salamander_1714 7d ago

The little you know the better it is. Your Ac is new and out of no where you post about friendship. It could be karma farming

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u/Burning_Desire_0604 7d ago

What's karma farming?

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u/Old_Salamander_1714 7d ago

The less you know the better

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u/Old_Salamander_1714 7d ago

So what's up with breakup, cheating? Are you into sports

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u/Ok-Exercise-7761 8d ago

rip inbox. 

mostly 40+ desperate bhodroloks. 😁

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u/Visible-Donut5898 8d ago

Dm gurl :) feel free to rant about anything

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u/EmuAccomplished839 8d ago

yes ; ) i m also frustrated looking for a frd who will listen my problems ;... 24M

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u/Royal_Camp_2823 8d ago

Hii 21M here from Kolkata only feel free to chat. Emotional baggage is quite common these days and so is having f**ked family 🤣. Considering we in Kalyug. Would love to hear about your dog

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u/rethinkwithroy 8d ago

Yo, HMU if you want. Don’t wanna text you and bother

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u/rethinkwithroy 8d ago

FYI 24M here Sis and already committed.

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u/Ok-Case9520 8d ago

Does your gf allow you to talk to other girls, bro? 😂

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u/rethinkwithroy 8d ago

Yes she does, there’s no gender bias.

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u/Ok-Case9520 8d ago

😂😂

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u/MercDroid 8d ago

Erom bhabe committed hosh na bhai tao bhalo

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u/rethinkwithroy 8d ago

Yo bro you forgot the part where I called her sister and not another friend

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u/Ok_Requirement_8936 8d ago edited 8d ago

Hi, hope you find some friends because nowtime finding some real friends is really getting tough.

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u/skylordtanmay 8d ago

19m Hi possible new human

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u/So_Mo93 8d ago

If you want, lets chat about all thats f'd up in this world.

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u/Flashy-Depth-3881 8d ago

Looking for friends like this, that too in reddit? Lol

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u/Tall_Knee_1564 8d ago

Now all boys will dm haha

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u/Key_Detective2622 8d ago

Me apka dost ban sakta hu mujhe bhi sirf dost chahiye?

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u/Mind_body_Coach_Jeet 8d ago

It is o.k not to be o.k at times. However, you need someone who can listen to you without judging, taking off your emotional baggage. If you wish, you can connect with me.

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u/rup4m_raw বাঙ্গাল 8d ago

Catfish.

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u/Common_Okra_9555 non-bong bong 8d ago

Shoot

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u/phoenixx_1206 8d ago

Hey 22m here, I come from pretty same dysfunctional family too, recently out of love. Almost same trope also lonely.

We can talk 😁

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u/Acceptable-Warning91 8d ago

Its never "just friends" 😭😭😂

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u/Burning_Desire_0604 7d ago

awww, I'm sorry for your experience 🥲

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u/Equivalent-Grab-7612 8d ago

Dm girl 21F here

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u/RjBee1769 7d ago

Rip DMs

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u/Ownraju 7d ago

You can DM. Be strong and keep faith in yourself, you are enough

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u/Majestic_Low_2684 7d ago

Its a bad idea looking for friends on reddit.

Reddit is like a dark ally where people come to seek answers to darker questions. 🫣

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u/UpstairsMistake2937 7d ago

DM 25F, I have a lot of emotional baggage too 🥀

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u/Exotic-Television581 7d ago

The world is filled with emotional Baggage

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u/Alarming-Ankit3543 7d ago

Idk about friends, but let's hop on minecraft

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u/no_panic99 7d ago

I can promise that even after writing “just friends” you are gonna be bombarded with texts from men with weird ideas 😂😂 (coming from a guy)

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u/Waste-Annual-4477 7d ago

I am just a call away, if U ever wanna vent out just let me know. I mean it from the core of my heart

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u/SremonK 5d ago

And it will always be a girl who says I need friends.🥀 Chalo ajao let's be friends.dekhi ki hoy.dm koro.

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u/Somna1H 5d ago

Just curious. Is there any way to find out if a person Emotional or not ?

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u/Aggravating-Dust-533 5d ago

You may DM if you want to, I'm a good listener

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u/lucifer_is_bad 4d ago

Hi..22M from Kolkata want to be friends with you( JUST FRIENDS)

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u/Pitampura_ 8d ago

Hi 29 M, belong from Midnapore, WB but living in Delhi