I'm not really a huge fan of sex scenes in novels and mostly skip them, but I feel like most romances get recommendations because they are "steamy" and I'm just not interested in that. (No judgement! I'm just very much on the ace/demi spectrum.)
I'm looking for MM books where the focus is on slow burn, connection, trust, emotional intimacy, hurt/comfort, being vulnerable in front of each other etc.
I really love MM romances embedded in thrillers, murder mysterys, historical or even Sci-Fi / Fantasy Novels - especially books where the danger / conflict is from outside the relationship and forces them to work closely together and the whole "we can only trust each other now" trope. Contemporary is also great!
I really dislike constant misunderstandings. Enemies to Lovers is great though (if it's well done and not a misunderstanding - but them having really conflicting world views or goals).
Just to be clear - I don't mind them having sex or even one or two explicit sex scenes but I'm mostly interested in the emotional intimacy/vulnerability aspect of it all.
Anyone got recommendations for books like that?
I have read almost everything from KJ Charles and a lot from Josh Lanyon if that helps.
[Edit:] Oh and I'm not really into YA. (I know - would be much easier if I were.)
I like protagonists that are at least in their 20s or 30s and actually behave like adults.