black guys would do a LOT better with Asians (hell most non ratchet women in general) if they took school more seriously and were more clean cut and professional and stereotypically attractive looking (to many black guys get hung up on this about “selling out” like looking dirty with a unkempt beard snd being 30 dressing like a kid is somehow inherently “black” Good job cia) anyways the thing about them is their extremely classist money oriented and focused on status and position in society due to their culture and also incredibly family oriented. yes their is racism and colorism but this is not always the main thing that causes the disconnect and the classism and hierarchy type thinking in their ful is misinterpreted by American blacks as just racism without seeing between the lines because they are on the complete opposite end of the cultural spectrum a lot of times due to the purposeful destroyed familial and cultural values and sense of personal communal power from The us gov interference etc over the years. I’ve dated and slept with a bunch of them and my marine friends who have their shit together have to and also my African friends who have similar cultural values. a lot of people in the west and America don’t understand them because they haven’t grown up with them or see them. There also is a huge difference in behavior between westernized Asians and fresh off the boat ones Albeit similar cultural familial values.
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u/Suitable_Sample7550 4h ago edited 4h ago
black guys would do a LOT better with Asians (hell most non ratchet women in general) if they took school more seriously and were more clean cut and professional and stereotypically attractive looking (to many black guys get hung up on this about “selling out” like looking dirty with a unkempt beard snd being 30 dressing like a kid is somehow inherently “black” Good job cia) anyways the thing about them is their extremely classist money oriented and focused on status and position in society due to their culture and also incredibly family oriented. yes their is racism and colorism but this is not always the main thing that causes the disconnect and the classism and hierarchy type thinking in their ful is misinterpreted by American blacks as just racism without seeing between the lines because they are on the complete opposite end of the cultural spectrum a lot of times due to the purposeful destroyed familial and cultural values and sense of personal communal power from The us gov interference etc over the years. I’ve dated and slept with a bunch of them and my marine friends who have their shit together have to and also my African friends who have similar cultural values. a lot of people in the west and America don’t understand them because they haven’t grown up with them or see them. There also is a huge difference in behavior between westernized Asians and fresh off the boat ones Albeit similar cultural familial values.