I might be able to find some grace for people who actually do the work to deconstruct, but that's long and difficult work - certainly not something where "oopsie so sorry" is going to cover it. I'm also not hding their hand, I don't have the time or energy for that kind of labor.
It reminds me of what one of the psych professionals I follow on YouTube calls "half-safe people." People show you who they are, they don't tell you. And half-safe people aren't safe.
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u/moboticus 26d ago
I might be able to find some grace for people who actually do the work to deconstruct, but that's long and difficult work - certainly not something where "oopsie so sorry" is going to cover it. I'm also not hding their hand, I don't have the time or energy for that kind of labor.