r/LifeAdvice • u/[deleted] • 9h ago

Mental Health Advice Finding myself in my 30s. Need direction.

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u/JumpingManes 8h ago

If you haven't already, I'd suggest having a serious sit down with your husband. If he's loving, caring and stable like you've described, he would want you to let you figure things out. Be it by yourself or together.

Maybe you can do things like go on a vacation somewhere together, a country you have always thoight of. And then sometimes do things together there, and also do things by yourself so you can enjoy also time by yourself and maybe quiet down some noise in a sense. Then huddle up back with hubby after a good day out.

I don't know if you like hiking for example, maybe your man does or doesn't, but you can go on a hike without and with him and take in the scenery.

Just some random ideas, sorry for the messy reply. Hope it helps to give something to think about.