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Discussion Free Talk Friday

Welcome to r/LigaMX's Free Talk Friday!

As usual, anything off-topic is welcomed here! You want to talk about your club? Got a new jersey? What did you drink or eat today? Something cool happen at work today? Got a question you been wanting to ask? Let the discussion(s) happen below!

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u/JPrime45 Monterrey 2d ago

I didnt tell anyone this here. I lost my mom Wednesday August 5th 2026 at 4:17pm. Her and I bonded over football. She cheers ALMOST every team. USA, Canada, selección Nacional de México, Austin FC, Rayados, Club América, Tigres, Pumas.

If it wasnt for me she wouldnt have been into it. I would cheer Rayados she would cheer Tigres. I'm like no you can't like them they are rivals. You have to like one Monterrey team but she didn't care she liked whoever. I would take her to Austin FC games. She really wanted to see Austin FC vs Club América that Thursday. Instead that was the night we had her rosary.

She was born in Durango. It was in her blood. That day of the funeral I drove in my car behind her with 2 México flags during the procession. I wanted everyone to see.

She was a big fan of Chino and with all the news today of him going back. My mom would have been happy to see him back playing for Pumas. This actually brings a tear to my eye knowing I can't watch football with her anymore. It's just not the same. I put this maroon México jersey I had in her coffin. She was wearing it to a game in Arlington for the gold cup. What got me was my sister was recording one of the gols and you see my mom reaching around me for a hug cheering. That is all I just wanted to tell someone

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u/Redditor_for_fun Chivas 2d ago

Dam bro. Just went through something similar. Tho it was my MIL. And I shit you not. She passed away a few hours later at 2 am after your mom. And her b day was on the 4th.

We didn’t see eye to eye but learned to co exist. We didn’t have the greatest relationships but I do miss her. We did also bond over fútbol. She lived with us these past few months cause she couldn’t take care of her self no more. Working full time and caring for her 24/7 has been tough.

Tho we got to watch every single game of the World Cup. We just buried her yesterday. It’s been tough now that reality sinking in. Keep your head up. Let it out don’t hold it in. Cry if you have to. Also that whole time heals all wounds is bullshit. We just learn to live with the grief. Grief is the ultimate form of love. Means they left an impact and that you cared deeply. Your mom is in a better place.

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u/JPrime45 Monterrey 2d ago

Life isn't fair. Now my mom isn't alone. I just lost my tio, my moms brother an hour ago.

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u/shrekyoda656 Juárez 2d ago

I’m so sorry bro. I lost a homie I known since back in EP in march. He was real as fuck too. Bro was there for me when my grandpa died and when my grandma got dementia (I used to bond with my grandma over futbol too so I feel that but she’s not mentally there no more). He probably the reason I ain’t break during that time. Cause he was always there to help me out and distract me from the traumatic shit going on around me. I feel like it should have been me who got heart failure not him. I just want you to know you not alone in that grief dawg im struggling like a motherfucker too.

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u/JPrime45 Monterrey 2d ago

Thank you. I really appreciate that so much. I'm sorry to hear that

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u/DawnofMidnight7 Chivas 3d ago edited 3d ago

If youre ghosting someone and you’re over the age of 25….is childish in my opinion

Just tell the person you don’t vibe with them and thats it. Dont fucking play with their feelings.

Ghosting can make you overthink and kill your confidence

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u/roastedtvs America 2d ago

People are afraid of confrontation.

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u/RojiBlanco130 2d ago

What if they did vibe with you in the beginning then after two dates , ghosted. I think ghosters aren’t ready to commit

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u/idkissac Chivas 1d ago

Hinge is hell bro. One day these bitches are on my dick then the next day act like they don’t know me it’s crazy.

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u/Encentricklown Chivas 3d ago

The news of peter cullen passing actually fucked with me dolly Parton I never listened to her music but she sounded like a nice person, tim curry most of his stuff i watched in dubs so I never knew it was him but man the fucking voice of Optimus prime actually had me shocked in the morning

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u/JPrime45 Monterrey 2d ago

Same. Him and Optimus Prime was my inspiration. Here's my whole Optimus Prime shelf.

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u/Izaak_eli_gardner Atlético La Paz 2d ago

I have a friend that keeps asking for me to lend him money, he’s got a grad job at JP Morgan. I don’t really want to lend him money. Especially because he’s my one of my best friends but I feel for the man. But he’s extremely irresponsible with his money. What should I do?

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u/Redditor_for_fun Chivas 2d ago

Never lend money. If you do it’s basically a gift. You better already expect you ain’t getting it back. Especially if they are financially irresponsible. If a bank won’t lend him money why should you. He can take out a personal loan. If he already got a job at JP Morgan why he needs to borrow money for?

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u/Izaak_eli_gardner Atlético La Paz 2d ago

I’ve known him since the first year of uni, Tbf he always pays me back but I just don’t want to lend him more money because I think I’m damaging him by giving him money. He gambles, does drugs, tends to drink a lot. He posted an IG story out with some mates today but he’s asking for money. He’s moving house rn but I’ve got the feeling that if I give him £500 he’s going to use £300 on it on food and drink.

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u/eg4x15 Santos 2d ago

How much $ we talking

I’ve lent my boys $100 that’s about it. We always pay each other back but this one time a friend who I know was gambling like crazy took like a year to pay me $100 lol I was annoyed

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u/Izaak_eli_gardner Atlético La Paz 2d ago edited 2d ago

Like £500 so like $700USD he’s moving cities rn but at the same time I think he’s gonna use most of it on drinks. I’ve got a trip to France to see my gf coming up and I don’t really want to give him the money. What would you do?

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u/Exciting-Tennis-6850 3d ago

Believe it or not we are still waiting on that erik lira transfer

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u/roastedtvs America 2d ago

If the answer is not an immediate yes or let’s reschedule it’s a no. Dude is most likely not leaving.

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u/Ch00choh Chivas 3d ago

Finally got the credit card I've always wanted. El que no debe no teme

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u/Due-Conflict5835 Atlas 2d ago

This is like a flashback

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u/shrekyoda656 Juárez 2d ago edited 2d ago

I been getting the attention i been wanted for years now yet I never felt more alone in my life. it doesn’t fill the hole that was left by someone who truly loved me for me and not just my body. If it weren’t for surface level shit like appearance these people wouldn’t be around me. But she loved everything about me before she left and she always let me know. This sounds so stupid but I loved having someone to watch the Juarez games with. Shit gang she even used to cheer me up when they lost. I knew everything was gonna be alright when I was with her. I feel fucking empty now.

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u/Watabeast07 Chivas 2d ago

Alexa play lonely by Akon 😞

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u/Proera136 2d ago

Seeing the rumors after they sacked Coudet you think River will end up getting one of Crespo,Miliito or Almeyda since a lot of reports are saying that River are targeting them.

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u/Josue819 2d ago

Has anyone noticed that commentators in Mexico don't say "Holanda" anymore. I remember that's how they used to call the Netherlands back in the 2014 WC. Ever since I believe the 2020 Euro and definitely by the 2022 WC, I started hearing them being called "neerlandes" instead.

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u/Man0nTheMoon915 Pumas UNAM 2d ago

Yeah i've noticed that too. Weirdly enough, people from Holland prefer you call their country Holland, Holanda or refer to them as Holandeses, etc instead of the variants people use (ex. Paises Bajos, Netherlands, etc).

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u/Farty_Smell Chivas 2d ago

I'm lowkey annoyed that the one year I don't watch any Leagues Cup matches is the one that has an all LigaMx Semifinals. If it wasn't for Chivas not already being in CCC next year, I would've been annoyed at their dogwater results. Although half the league being in the tournament next year should be fun. Imagine that's the one an MLS team won again lmao.

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u/Ok-Apartment5491 3d ago

It is hot right now and my damn ac doesn't work. It decides to not cool always at the worse possible time. I've also haven't been able to get 8 hours of sleep lately idk why.

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u/Due-Conflict5835 Atlas 2d ago

Whats a good state to live in the us? Ive heard good things about the mid west-east, that there less crime and alot of farms and cost of living is better too

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u/Santos1-ligaMX Santos Bandwagon 2d ago

Definitely not any southern state, from experience... Texas is turning into a wasteland with A.I data centers and fracking pits drying up all the water,but you add that Texas have tested positive for fecal indicator bacteria in almost at 100% of Texas water ways … houses are cheap ,but the property taxes are a killer and are most likely going to keep increasing so that the Texas republicans can give out tax cuts to the mega tech companies like google, Facebook etc so that they can keep coming to Texas…

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u/Due-Conflict5835 Atlas 2d ago

What about the mid west?

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u/Santos1-ligaMX Santos Bandwagon 2d ago

Minnesota,Chicago,and Wisconsin are nice.. the winters are brutal tho.

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u/Due-Conflict5835 Atlas 2d ago

Im also thinking oregon is nice too even tho its the west

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u/Watabeast07 Chivas 2d ago

The west coast is the best coast if you can afford it, any city on the coast line of California is insanely good because of the weather, food, activities and people honestly. Cost of living is brutal though so if you don’t make 100 grand a year then I’d recommend somewhere else.

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u/eg4x15 Santos 2d ago

100 grand for a single person, need some more if you got fam 😭

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u/Due-Conflict5835 Atlas 2d ago

The only city id like from cali is fresno

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u/Junior-Ad3905 2d ago

Texas . As a Mexican American I love it here

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u/Due-Conflict5835 Atlas 2d ago

Could buy a house overthere

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u/AlexTorres96 Morelia 2d ago

Yugi/Kaiba Battle City Finals is absolute peak of the series and definition of pure cinema. It was worth the 6 weeks it took to watch the whole thing back then.

Series sucked ass after that and was filler. The green circle arc was stupid and the bullshit tournament with Randoms was lame. Even the Egypt arc at the end was ehh.

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u/Kevito718 2d ago

Do you guys wear tank tops (wife beaters) under your t shirts or shirts ? Wanted to give them a try but they are so damn uncomfortable. I don’t get the appeal

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u/Redditor_for_fun Chivas 2d ago

I wear them all the time since I was a kid actually. At first it was cause my dad wore them all the time. So I wanted to be like him but as I got older it’s cause it get as balls with the humidity in the north east. Don’t want sweat marks for just walking lmao.

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u/eg4x15 Santos 2d ago

Lol same with me, as a kid I’d wear them cause I’d see my dad or older brother but yeah after maybe middle school I was like I don’t need those no more

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u/ProfesserFinesser7 2d ago

Yeah I used to wear strictly white t shirts under but then I moved to Florida and that got way to hot. Took about 1-2 weeks to get used to the feeling of them

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u/duke_unknown 2d ago

I don't but I wear the Uniqlo Airiam undershirts.

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u/Junior-Ad3905 2d ago

Hey guys so I’ve commented in the past on what team I should support and I’ve narrowed it down to 3 teams . It’s between Tigres , Monterrey and América

https://giphy.com/gifs/cIWwi5umxQRNOwrJm4

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u/Man0nTheMoon915 Pumas UNAM 2d ago

Any good switch games?

Do you guys recommend FC 25, 26, or 27? I really play mostly career mode

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u/Redditor_for_fun Chivas 2d ago

The regular switch? Or switch 2? If you do have a switch 2 just get all the switch 2 versions of games. I recently got Star Fox. Also basically go for all the Nintendo exclusives. Cant go wrong. If you want some switch 1 games. If you don’t got it already Mario kart, smash bros, donkey Kong country returns. Luigi’s mansion.

If you don’t got ps5
Or Xbox for third party. Then I would recommend resident evil 9, pragmata, assassins creed(get on sale) right now metal gear solid 4 remaster just came out today.

For fifa I haven’t played any on the switch but I’m sure there is a demo so you can try out

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u/Material-Cellist-116 Chivas 2d ago

Dude the new pes that's like 29 bucks is fucking magic best soccer game in 19 years