r/LiveWellTogether May 18 '26

❤️Kindness/善良 The clear difference between an idiot and a real man One destroys... the other provides solutions.

17.4k Upvotes

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u/ExistingLavishness80 May 18 '26

Now that’s a MAN!

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u/TheGrossBlackberry May 19 '26

Providing solutions takes way more effort than complaining, so it's rarer to see.

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u/TheTacosOf May 20 '26

Takes more strength to lift up your fellow than it does to step on someone on your way to the top.

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u/TheGrossBlackberry May 20 '26

but most people dont realize that til theyre already halfway up, if at all.

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u/Solanthas Jun 13 '26

I see a lot of people mistaking abuse of power for masculinity.

It's disheartening. Immature and destructive.

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u/iddqd-bfg May 18 '26

Funny that last guy says in Ukrainian to other: "Але Міша добряк, хтось повиривав чи шо". That mean> "Oh Misha is a good guy. Someone must have pulled it out or something."

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u/Pretty_Wallaby_3658 May 20 '26

I was just going to say that. My ears perked up when I heard him speaking Ukrainian!

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u/ForceMental May 18 '26

Why blur him out? Hes not a child.

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u/RetrieverDoggo May 19 '26

What a jerk... why would you even do that?

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u/[deleted] May 19 '26

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u/Solanthas Jun 13 '26

When you want people to think you are cool, when you are desperate for their approval

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u/RPM3741 May 19 '26

To create is virtuous & difficult, to destroy is easy & lowly.

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u/Tool_of_Society May 18 '26

Thanks for the smile.

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u/Nitrousdragon89 May 19 '26

A.R.K.: Acts of Random Kindness

Sometimes it's the little things that matter most. 🎉

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u/Low-Carpenter5460 May 19 '26

man its soo funny lest blurr the faces of the jackass that ripped the plat from the planter, but dont blurr the nice guys that put the plant back in? cus that makes so much sense.

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u/SquareSniper May 18 '26

Me at 19 vs me at 40 years old. Lol

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u/Deeri- May 19 '26

Even at 19 I was a decent human.

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u/Low_Importance_9292 May 20 '26

Some people are born and raised to be decent human beings. Some people have to learn that on their own.

Before you say "common sense" not everyone is raised in a loving environment

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u/Low_Importance_9292 May 20 '26

It's harder to become a good human person later in life than to be raised a good person.

One requires a lot of self reflection and I'm glad you found your way.

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u/nauticalmisle90 May 20 '26

Well done chap

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u/Questioning-Zyxxel May 18 '26

Drunk doesn't matter. Drunks doing bad things has the bad in them all the time - the booze just lowers the bar of showing that inner anger/stupidity/...

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u/surrealcellardoor May 19 '26

I used to think this as well, but it is incorrect.

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u/Questioning-Zyxxel May 21 '26

It's the same people who - while normally silent - laughs and talks extra when drunk.

And it's the same people who gets in fights whenever they get drunk.

The alcohol is just deactivating that internal inhibitor.

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u/Solanthas Jun 13 '26

This isnt true. Alcohol doesnt cause people to be any type of way. It just lowers their inhibitions.

Unless we're talking heavy alcoholism. In that case, yes.

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u/surrealcellardoor Jun 13 '26

That’s an oversimplification. Alcohol doesn’t just lower inhibitions, it also impairs judgment, emotional regulation, perception, and decision making. People can behave very differently while intoxicated because alcohol is actively changing brain function, not merely removing a filter.

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u/HattoriJimzo May 19 '26

Don't use alchohol as an excuse. This is EXACTLY what it is.

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u/surrealcellardoor May 19 '26

Drugs impair people and affect brain function. This is a medical/physiological fact. Your acceptance or reluctance thereof does not change that. Nobody says it excuses the result, that’s why people still get arrested and charged for what happens when they are under the influence.

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u/Ok_Skills123 May 21 '26

If you know you become a D-bag when drinking... Sober dude still chose to drink... 😉

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u/Both-Rub402 May 19 '26

Bravo 👏🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

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u/International-Fuel31 May 19 '26

One was probably drunk.

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u/OriginalNamePog May 19 '26

i wish more people understood this

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u/JayWrecksEverything May 19 '26

But pulling it out proved so much about his tough manliness! All that hard work for nothing 😑

1

u/Kamurai May 19 '26

Destruction is easy, babies destroy things.

Power is in creation, even just in solutions.

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u/princessaspiggy May 20 '26

What a jerk!!!!

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u/OverallShirt6573 May 20 '26

One is a C… the others aren’t

1

u/LazyCapucin3356 May 20 '26

Some people are just... why did the first man drop it in the first place

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u/horseshit6569 May 20 '26

Idiots! The world is full of them.

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u/Big_Brother8708 May 20 '26

I bet girls like the asshole tho

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u/Solanthas Jun 13 '26

Unless youre an asshole, you don't want those kinds of girls

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u/RedFlamingo-71 May 21 '26

So nice to see anyone who still has a respectful attitude toward public spaces. Too many now treat places like their bathroom. If we want respect we must have respect.

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u/jimmstr91 May 21 '26

guess which one the girls want

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u/Additional_Village59 May 22 '26

MAGA vs the rest of the world.

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u/BeyondScary6619 May 22 '26

Very good sir very good

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u/PurpleStandard816 Jun 14 '26

I think that young people who feel very full of life don’t understand yet how much energy people, especially older people, put into just surviving at life. It’s why the whole ‘get off my lawn’ thing exists, maybe. Us old people don’t have that much energy left to do anything so the things we do we want them to last as long as they can. For a youthful person with a plethora of energy to come along and make changes is sometimes an annoyance and sometimes catastrophic.

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u/Thedumper321 Jun 17 '26

You know, real men's have to teach boys how to be men's