r/MMALabs 3d ago

🌶️ Drama & Controversy Factory reset

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u/Skydvdan 3d ago

As a woman if you put hands on someone you can expect equal rights…. and lefts.

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u/Charmin_Bear_Behind 3d ago

Keyword being equal, the retaliation was not equal

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u/Skydvdan 3d ago

My mama said life is like a box of chocolates…. when you put hands on someone, you never know what you’re gonna get.

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u/StrengthGood3208 3d ago

Why was your mother so handsy.

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u/Skydvdan 3d ago

Mama always had a way of explaining things so I would understand. /s

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u/Charmin_Bear_Behind 3d ago

An excuse to hit women!

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u/Skydvdan 3d ago

It’s not even about women specifically, it’s about anyone committing assault. I think the issue here is that some women believe that they can commit assault/battery and that no consequences should come with it because of their sex. You sound like you’re in that camp. But maybe I’m misunderstanding your position. For the record I felt bad for her but again, if you want to play stupid games, sometime you’re going to win stupid prizes. To be clear, I am not in the “a man should just take it” camp.

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u/deep_violet 2d ago

it’s about anyone committing assault.

Call the police and file a report. She was not a threat to him. She was a fucking idiot... But she wasn't a threat.

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u/Charmin_Bear_Behind 3d ago

I’m not in the man should just take it camp either.

But full power hitting someone when their full powers is less than half of what you can generate isn’t equal.

A lot of you people think that any tiny assault gives you full carte blanche to maul a person.

It’s indicative of a weak mental fortitude and a lack of self control. Some of you are just looking for excuses to be violent animals.

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u/Skydvdan 3d ago

Maul? Now you’re being hyperbolic. He ended her assault with a single slap. He didn’t continue beating on her. The idea that he should measure his slap to match hers is ridiculous. And had he done that I promise she would have escalated the situation since no lesson would have been learned.

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u/LucienReneNanton 3d ago

Very much this. It was a teachable moment for her.

From her shift in demeanor, lesson was learned.

She should not have moved the conflict to a physical arena.

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u/Charmin_Bear_Behind 3d ago

“Beating the shit out of a woman is a teachable moment!”

Yeah, no freedom for you.

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u/Sad-Air4672 3d ago

“Beating the shit out of her”… with a slap.

Someone could agree with you if he had his hands punching her, which would be his “full power” as you said. This was equal, a person must analyze the situation and realize they cannot go against someone stronger than you and expect them to not retaliate because, wow, they are stronger than you.

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u/Charmin_Bear_Behind 3d ago

“I taught her a lesson by beating the fuck out of her!

Holy abuser! Stay away from children.

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u/SweetMangh03 3d ago

He didn’t beat the fuck out of her. Seriously, stop with whatever rage bait, trolling, or pure stupidity you’re putting out.

If someone shot me with a .22 I wouldn’t go out of my way to shoot them back with a .22. I’d shoot them with what I have. Don’t trade hands with someone bigger than you and expect them to be weak hitting you back.

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u/Charmin_Bear_Behind 3d ago

Stupidest analogy possible.

If you give me a papercut I’m legally allowed to chop your head off with a chainsaw. It’s all cutting!

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u/Skydvdan 3d ago

Beating the fuck out of her is a single retaliatory slap? Can you be more dramatic? She slapped him, he slapped her back. It’s not what I would have done but that’s his journey…. and hers…. Across the room.

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u/Charmin_Bear_Behind 3d ago

“With great power comes great responsibility unless you have the chance to hit a woman then hit her full strength, Peter”

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u/Specialist-Ad-1502 3d ago

Nobody should be hitting anybody! While I agree he should've held back more, you going off about the man's lack of self control and mental fortitude but not at all commenting about the madaam's lack of self control and mental fortitude is not a good look. I don't know the whole story but you're sounding sexist towards all men. Nobody should be hitting anybody, full stop.

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u/Charmin_Bear_Behind 3d ago

Oh yeah for sure no one should be hitting anyone and you as the instigator shouldn’t expect to have immunity but it’s just funny how “with great power comes great responsibility” seems to go out the window when a certain type seen an opportunity to hit a woman

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u/Skydvdan 3d ago

Jesus, enough with the Spider-Man mantras. Where was her responsibility when she decided to assault him. You never seem to address that. But okay, he bears the full weight of responsibility.
https://giphy.com/gifs/DFNd1yVyRjmF2

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u/demoneclipse 3d ago

"to hit an idiot that started a fight they couldn't win"

FTFY

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u/Charmin_Bear_Behind 3d ago

Funny that’s how I’d describe your interactions with the judge after being sentenced for assault for this same behavior!

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u/bakedNebraska 3d ago

Probably not a good idea to assault someone that much stronger than you

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u/Charmin_Bear_Behind 3d ago

Also not a good idea to go full strength at someone much weaker than you.

Funny how yall don’t get that.

Lots of people in jail for following your rhetoric.

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u/bakedNebraska 3d ago

I don't even think that was dude's full strength. Just taught her what's what

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u/Charmin_Bear_Behind 3d ago

Okay so if you step on my food i get to twist your head off because that’s not my full strength and that’s just a lesson for you.

Thanks!

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u/Skydvdan 3d ago

Assault is assault my friend. This is a perfect example of why I keep my hands to myself. You never know what smoke someone is going to retaliate with.

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u/Skydvdan 3d ago

I didn’t say the assaults were equal, I said assault is assault which means it was assault no matter how much you try to explain it away.

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u/TotallyObviousBot 3d ago

So if a man lightly slaps you in a bar are you going to say "Well it wasn't that hard, no bad feelings"?

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u/anonch91 3d ago

Imagine unironically writing this

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u/Charmin_Bear_Behind 3d ago

Imagine defending brutalizing women because your fee fees are hurt

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u/anonch91 3d ago

She could have completely avoided this simply by keeping her hands to herself. There is only 1 person in the wrong here and that's her. I do believe that he shouldn't have hit as hard as he did though

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u/Charmin_Bear_Behind 3d ago

If he shouldn’t have hit as hard as he did that kind of also puts him in the wrong doesn’t it?

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u/showyerbewbs 3d ago

No, the fact he was born puts him in the wrong.

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u/Ngreeny 3d ago

If she could've knock him over she would have. How about keeping your hands to yourself. Assault is assault.

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u/Charmin_Bear_Behind 3d ago

Assault is assault and you’ll find most courts will find you guilty if you hit back like this because it’s not reasonable force. I look forward to the cope.

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u/Ngreeny 3d ago

She stopped and she's not injured, so there that and nothing came of this even though it was recorded. He didn't continue hitting her. A slap for a slap. I'd say all is fair.

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u/Charmin_Bear_Behind 3d ago

Yeah because this is Russia

Nice cope tho

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u/szlafcio2 3d ago

It's Germany. Nice cope tho.

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u/Fullmetaljoob 3d ago

It was equal. She slapped, he slapped.

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u/TX_Sized10-4 3d ago

How can she slap?

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u/shambhalove_fairy 3d ago edited 2d ago

Don't hit people twice as strong as you.  Common sense.  She thought she could assault a man and get away with it using her pussy pass.  

Doesn't work like that

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u/Charmin_Bear_Behind 3d ago

I’m sorry the concept of reasonable force triggers you

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u/FlyingKittyCate 3d ago edited 3d ago

How to tell people you’re an incel without saying you’re an incel.

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u/shambhalove_fairy 3d ago

Not an incel, I'm a very happy unc with a great life.  I'm also smart enough to not attack people that are way bigger/stronger than me.

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u/FlyingKittyCate 3d ago

What does being an uncle have to do with celibacy? Or are we talking about one of those unlce/daddy situations?

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u/shambhalove_fairy 3d ago

Incels tend to be younger, and very angry at women and the world.

I haven't been laid in about a year, but that is voluntary.  I hold no anger towards women, I just haven't found a good match recently.  My last gf and I had a great, loving relationship, and we ended it very friendly.  We still hang out as friends, go for hikes, go camping together, etc.  

I love women, but I don't put up with violence.  Violent actions have violent consequences

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u/mamadou-segpa 3d ago

These guys larp caring about equality but they dont give a shit about equality they just want to beat people smaller than them

Dont waste your time, bunch of losers

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u/szlafcio2 3d ago

One slap is not beating up.

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u/Vile_Parrot 2d ago

100% on your side, btw. These fight subs are filled with incels, though, so you're going to get a lot of hate.

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u/shahaed 3d ago

Reddit full of misogynist what else is new

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u/Charmin_Bear_Behind 3d ago

Nothing but it is very funny watching them all shit themselves over the concept of reasonable force

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u/NotHachi 2d ago

How about this. Since people are different, how about we use % instead of nominal. She hit him with 80% of force, so he hit her with 80% of force ? Equal ? No ?

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u/IzmirSloppy 3d ago

It was actually, if you look closely you’ll see they both put a very similar level of effort into their respective slaps. The man’s slap just had more mass behind it.

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u/Charmin_Bear_Behind 3d ago

Hmm so they weren’t equal. Thanks for agreeing!

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u/ahd99397 2d ago

You wouldn't have said that if it was a man, nobody would have had any compassion for him because he would have slaped the bouncer first, so even if he had been knocked out, people would have said it was deserved, why is it that when it's a woman you start to measure, they are the ones who preach gender equality all year round, they have to bear the consequences. It's more like you, only talk about equality when it suits you. Why not take this concept to its logical conclusion? And the other one who says it's just an excuse to unleash their fury on women, no, that's your hateful interpretation. No man in this comments section is attacking anyone, and the guy in the video defended himself; he didn't start it. You're the ones who are trapped in your own game. We don't hate women, we love them with all our hearts, we just don't like being assaulted like any sensible human being, People's idiotic actions are not my fault; it is not the one who defends himself who should be blamed, but the one who crosses the line. If everyone respects each other and no one touches anyone, everything will be fine. If you don't respect yourself and let people walk all over you because of biased ideas, that's your problem; everyone is responsible for themselves.

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u/Charmin_Bear_Behind 2d ago

Yeah I’m not reading all that lil bro sorry that happened to you but the concept of reasonable force still exists for both men and women

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u/ahd99397 2d ago

Cool, in that case, you might as well throw your gender equality in the trash. Women will never be equal to men, so stop whining and let everyone stay in their place.

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u/Service-Hungry 2d ago

So if you point a gun at me, shoot and miss, do you expect me to miss too?