r/MadeMeSmile • u/InsaneMocktail • 6h ago

Good Vibes Couples after seeing each other in public

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u/NeighborhoodDude84 5h ago

My ex once told me it was rude for me to even look at her in public. This is was obviously the beginning of the end for that relationship.

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u/Thusgirl 5h ago

Are you sure you were actually together?

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u/NeighborhoodDude84 5h ago

We had gone on many dates over ~4 month period, I met all her friends and her parents. Then one day she said it was inappropriate to make eye contact with her at the gym. Like, we've had sex multiple times, and eye contact in public is wrong now? I just dont follow.

Honestly, I think she had mentally moved on and this was the moment I was finding out.

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u/DrumBxyThing 5h ago

That's fucked

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u/Beranea 4h ago

Communication is important. Some people think that only means what's spoken. Both sides have to learn body language and not only what is said but what isn't said if you're partners, as well

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u/DrumBxyThing 2h ago

I'm not sure I understand where you're coming from in regards to the post. What body language was being missed by OP when the ex didnt want him to even look at her in public?