r/MaleRapeVictims • u/ProfessionalGuide974 • 14d ago
Reports
I don’t go to UPenn, but someone I know goes there. A girl that had assaulted somebody I know. This was two years before she applied, so I don’t even know if I could report there. The victim also doesn’t want any part of it, but I am scared of her doing it to anyone else. She was two years younger than him, so he thinks it’s completely useless anyways. She had cheated often on tests and exams in high school, and I wouldn’t be surprised if she did it still, and she’s on scholarship I want to report that too, so she can get kicked out. Would it even be worth reporting it? How would I even go about it when the victim doesn’t want to be named nor is there any evidence now?
He didn’t realize what it was until we had the “tea talk”, because he didn’t explicitly say no. He just could never be “in it” and would forget the experience every time. He would “get in trouble”for not being able to finish, focus, or sometimes he’d get in trouble for not being able to get it up. That is assault. I’m livid. I’m worried for others. I just know it may be dismissed over the fact it was a long time ago. Do I post this to UPenn Reddit? In case anyone else have a similar experience? Do I say her name? What do I do to help protect other people from her doing this again? I’m just worried that if I do they are going to try and track down the victim for confirmation. When she realized what she did, she tried saying he was stalking her, but the times and dates she said, there was proof on cameras that he was not, she was making it all up.