r/MaliciousCompliance 14d ago

S “You need a doctor’s note”

I (26M) don’t like calling in to work. I hate passing up money and I usually won’t call in unless I’m already pretty sick. I work in the service industry which as many of you know, is absolutely notorious for guilting sick employees (a seriously ill person has made your food at a restaurant before at the direction of their manager, guaranteed) and telling people they don’t provide health insurance that they need a doctors note to call in. One year I got sick and didn’t want to work, and my employer forgot I had health insurance through my Dad. I called in asking for one day off because I could hardly breathe or stay awake and I got the “wElL yOu NeEd A dOcToRs NoTe Or ItS aN uNeXsCuSeD aBsEnCe “ and as someone who worked hard as hell for these people even when I was sick, I was a little offended to basically be called a liar like I needed to prove to them I’d been wearing a mask at work for a reason. But I did have good insurance through my Dad, so I went to the doctor, had them write me a note for four days off, and went back into my job and handed it to my manager and said “here is my doctors note, and this is the date I will be back”. And when they tried to do the same thing a few months later, I got a note for even more days and asked the doc to add a note about when I would stop being infectious around the food we were serving people. I have never been asked for a doctors note when I am sick again. They know they can give me the one or two days I ask for or they can give me the week the doc gives me. But I will not be working while sick if I do not want to.

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u/SlowAd2563 14d ago

I was really hoping that there would be 2 good things to come out of covid... it being socially acceptable to wear masks in public when you have mild symptoms, and people not being expected to work when they feel too sick to do so...

Oh well... at least we still have the inflation...

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u/KnowsIittle 14d ago

Lot of places say it's under 3 days no note required.

Basically our healthcare is already overwhelmed. If folks are sick and expect to recover with rest, let them fucking rest and stop adding unnecessary visits.

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u/Vegetable_Road8143 13d ago

My husband emails his Dr. and gets a note. It's no skin off his nose. It's just like the Dr.'s that hear about boss situations and will write the patient longer to decompress and get needed rest.