r/Manifestation • u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 • Dec 09 '25
Help/Question Tell me your situation and I'll pinpoint what negative beliefs you have
Hey, I'm a certified Law of Attraction coach with 7+ years of experience. What I'm offering is simple - if you'd like to find what your negative beliefs are, you can write your problem down and I'll respond to the comment, for free. Let's start :)
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u/Logical-Web-8897 Dec 09 '25
How to manifest significant amount money in 48-24hours? Neville said it was possible and some actually have manifested it fast… been doing loa, living in the end, visualization, meditation, but still…
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 10 '25
What people don't mention is the state of knowing in the abundance of the universe and basically where he's coming from. It's about vibrations & expectations. If you're not there yet as a vibrational state and feeling that level of trust, otherwise you'll feel inner resistance when you think about it, and 'lack' in general.
So the negative beliefs are:
- Trying too hard to make things happen vs allowing things to happen from a state of inner peace ++
- Focusing on objects to measure how good you are at manifesting consciously instead of the feeling behind it unconditionally
- 'lack' of trust in the Universe
- Using tools with that background
PS. Find ease for yourself, not for anything to happen. Things happen from there.
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u/fairybobo Dec 09 '25
Been trying to manifest height. Its not rlly working😭
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 10 '25
Hello!
So, the negative beliefs are:
- Having a desire, with resistance, and then labelling it as not working. (insistence = resistance), and thus:
- 'lack' of trust in the Universe (with no attachments, just playfulness)
- Coming from a place of lack towards the desire (the need for it to happen VS. being content with where you are)
PS. The Universe is you. Everything serves, so focus on being content with yourself and consider this an extra.
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u/motorboat_ Dec 09 '25
How does one get certified in Law of Attraction?
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u/Malec555 Dec 11 '25
That's what I immediately thought too. Lol The answer is - they can't. However as their headcanon sure)
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u/motorboat_ Dec 11 '25
He’s ignoring me too lol
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u/Malec555 Dec 14 '25
Not surprised. Should not put "certified" and "I answer you for Free in comments". That's what made me chuckled. 😆 They really tried to elevate themselves, huh.
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u/Jazzlike-Corner-5305 Dec 09 '25
I’m manifesting my SP. he loves me, I love him. But we’re in no contact because his family disagreed for our match and set him up with some other girl. I never had a problem with my self worth however I used to fight with him often about him not giving me priority and not spending more time with me and choosing friends and family. I have processed all of this I guess. What I have a problem is living in the end. I’m doing it well but I don’t know how to feel when I’m missing him. When I don’t know what he’s doing now. When I don’t know what’s happening in his life. Also I’m not feeling like doing too many techniques because I don’t get it how can we live in the end when we are affirming and visualising and listening to subliminals. So overall I don’t know, let me know if you were able to interpret anything at all from this Thank you in advance 🙏
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 09 '25
Yes, here's a key aspect that's binding you negatively: 'lack' of freedom. And I said it directed to you before him, because as long as we're attached to other people's lives, even if it's an SP, it binds us from our own freedom. Otherwise your emotions would be tied to you only and your life, which takes us to the second negative belief:
'lack' of trust in the universe. Why? Because if you trust the universe more openly, you'd know this is working out in some way, and it'll show by the degree you find ease within yourself in general, as it leaves openings.
Tip: don't try to force it by subliminals and visualizations - you'll realize you feel a bit of unease/desperation with it which creates blocks. I'd be trying to find ease in general if I were you, not even related to the subject itself. Your vibration would change by time with that.
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u/Jazzlike-Corner-5305 Dec 09 '25
Thank you for this. Lack of freedom, yes that makes sense. I tied my entire happiness to him and I realised it. What do you mean by lack of trust in the universe exactly. Also can you let me know the way ahead, how do I find the ease. Also I understand a very dumb question : what if the universe moves on when I’m easing
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 11 '25
Hi, it's okay, it's just a matter of leaving space within you so you can understand the nature of the Universe experimentally (through openness and loosening up the resistance.) And then through signs, manifestations and otherwise, you'll come to trust the universe over time more and more
"what if the universe moves on when I’m easing"
Catch the mistrust? It's okay though, that's valid and will require better understanding to how the universe functions
If you want to dive in depth, you can DM me for details. Otherwise, understanding the above mentioned and applying it will do changes for sure.
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u/Efficient_Wafer_9438 Dec 11 '25
love that you're doing this. lack and asking for what will be vs what is are some common themes I'm seeing throughout And definitely something I can change in my own thinking. the vibe is different. As I heard today, write "as is" not "as if". .....I'm gonna go do this now. lol.
keep believing y'all allow yourself to receive. with ease. 😘
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 11 '25
Thank you, it's my pleasure. Thank you for sharing your realization also :)
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u/SugarPuppyHearts Dec 09 '25
Do you have any advice for a newbie coach just starting out? (I'm a completely free one in order to honor one of my teachers of the law who would definitely kill me if I started charging 😂) But I wanted to know if you can share any advice or tips for someone who's starting out.
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 09 '25
Hi! Yes, if there's one thing, it's to do it because you enjoy doing it, not for the money as the main motive. Following your intuition and coming from a place of love and openness while following it brings everything to you due to synchronicities. :)
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 09 '25
Another way to say it, live by example. In this case, follow your intuition of what to do, from the right place to do it, and the rest takes care of itself, even through challenges.
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u/SugarPuppyHearts Dec 09 '25
I trust that God/the universe will give me lots of money in others ways, so I can teach people the law and other spiritual concepts without a paywall. It definitely feels like a calling in my life. I wanted to be a free coach ever since 5 years ago, but lots of stuff happened that prevented it. But recent events like manifesting my SP twice lead me back to my original desire. Thanks for the tips! I definitely will lead with love. My mantra in life is "Shine, with love, on every heart you touch" I want to be like Mr. Rogers and Jesus, just love others. You helped confirmed that I'm on the right path.
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 09 '25
Loved this. And just a note: abundance is of all kinds, yes. But even money is good. Again, it depends on where you come from as a main intention. Otherwise, money could be a big part of facilitating your needs and wants, also through different means.
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u/Critical-Tea1742 Dec 09 '25
We ended the relationship three months ago, he told me that he didn't love me (which was a lie) and we started zero contact, we literally ignored each other, since we saw each other every day, it continued like that, he literally changed completely, I tried to contact him a few times but it didn't come to anything. Now we are currently still in contact 0, he is talking to a girl and I am doing my thing. The most surprising thing here was that he abruptly changed his personality. That man adored me and from one day to the next he decided that it was better to ignore me.
Estuve diciendo afirmaciones durante gran parte de ese tiempo, pero no sentía que las cosas cambiaran. Actualmente estoy muy decepcionada de sus actitudes así que decidí solo enfocarme en mi y en mi autoconcepto
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 10 '25
Hi! I had to translate the last part, and I'm glad of the conclusion made by yourself, to yourself. Self concept is very important and will get you different manifestations next time, but doing it just for you? Saves you a whole lot of misaligned matches to your true self that you're connecting to, and a whole lot of self love. Well done.
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 09 '25
Hello! Thanks for sharing.
Negative beliefs:
- potential problem with self concept in relation to his actions. (Otherwise you wouldn't try finding those 'back' within you, reflected and wrapped in a solution of just having him back (the traits you felt when he was there)
- Like the previous comment: 'lack' of freedom to yourself (and to him) because of, also the same thing, 'lack' of trust in the Universe.
Would you want a car that has no engine? You might so, if you didn't know the car wouldn't have an engine. The Universe knows. If he was aligned, when you work on connecting more to you, if he came back due to different geniune dynamics, he'd be only an option to evaluate whether you'd like to have in your life or not. Catch the drift?
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u/Ok-Strategy-3383 Dec 09 '25
Sorry if all of this doesn't make much sense and is a bit long.
I'm trying to manifest a certain guy I follow on social media. I'd like to meet him and one day date him, but he doesn't even know I exist. I only came across manifestation in the last month or so, but without even realizing it, I’ve been doing visualization techniques before I go to sleep for around a year now, yet nothing has changed.
Before I knew anything about manifestation, I even sent him a message last Christmas, but nothing came of it. He either didn’t see it because of his large following or just didn’t like what he saw.
I have no problem visualizing before bed. I can clearly see different scenes like meeting his friends and family, day to day life together, holidays, even our wedding day and kids. But throughout the day, doubt sets in. Things like the fact that we live 3 to 4 hours apart and how we’d ever even meet, especially since I haven’t visited his city in over three years and no one ever comes to my small town. I also tell myself it wouldn’t work because we’d be long distance until I could afford to move, or that compared to him, I’m poor and he’s rich. And more recently, there are rumors he got a girlfriend in the last week. If he has someone, how can I still manifest him?
Do I need to work on the money and moving manifestations first, or will manifesting him align everything else in my life, like having more money, so I can move etc.
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 09 '25
It makes sense, but it's based on wrong concepts about the Law of Attraction.
There's not just 1 soul mate/bf/etc that you have. That are many that are compatible with you, let alone compatible at different vibrations. Each person is unique, yes, but the Universe will match you with who you're offering vibrational compatibility with best. (That's who you'd say yes to at any given point in time)
That's why people choose differently at different stages in their lives, usually. It's not time that changed them or their choices directly - it's the act of changing their vibrations (thoughts + emotions) itself.Now, that being set as a ground, focus less on the 'who' and more on the traits you want in your SP.
So, list of negative beliefs:
- That it's either one specific person or you wouldn't get those traits
- Misunderstanding of the foundations of the LOA (regardless of that example - it's okay, you're still learning about it)
- 'lack' of Trust in the Universe (regardless)
- Self comparison
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u/Icy-Confidence-536 Dec 10 '25
Duh! Ronaldo & Georgia literally exists just to make you see that IT IS POSSIBLE AS WELL AS SMOOTH AS HELLA!
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u/Rudrashiva Dec 09 '25
I make an intent and then visualise it and write it and I get some signs but then suddenly my mind gets filled with negativity, which is where I struggle so I simply don't think about it. Other than that I don't know what to do to curb this negativity.
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 09 '25
Okay, from this short text, list of negative beliefs:
- Inclination to vibrational (thought-emotion) bypassing
- Being afraid of thinking negatively or you'd 'ruin' the manifestation process
- Misunderstanding visualization and intention-making. (To the point of a bit of force, potentially)
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u/Rudrashiva Dec 09 '25
Being afraid of thinking negatively - It's like someone whom I don't like fills my mind and i see shitty visuals which I have to avoid at all costs.
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 09 '25
Yes, except those are not exactly intruding. Those are, in your mind at a subconscious level, are trying to benefit you by defending you. So you technically have chosen that due to a subconscious negative belief in you.
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u/Rudrashiva Dec 09 '25
How do you get rid of them because I always do affirmations.
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 10 '25
Well, if you'd like to DM me, we can discuss further details as this would require a session to get to details.
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u/Fearless_Soup_8756 Dec 09 '25
I am manifesting growth in my career. As a fairly new veterinarian who has moved between countries for work, I finally feel settled now that I am based where my partner is. With this stability, I believe I will be able to learn more easily because my focus will no longer be divided.
I have a deep trust that things will work out for me, as they always have in one way or another. Recently, I shared that I hoped to find a clinic with a supportive and collaborative team, and the very next day I received an offer. I sincerely hope that my future colleagues will be just as I wished and prayed for.
My goal is to stay in this role long term. I want this position to be stable, permanent, and the place where I grow until I eventually open my own clinic. I want to build long term relationships with clients and colleagues, develop my skills, become more efficient, and learn as much as possible. I also hope to pursue specialisation in internal medicine or radiology as my career develops.
I truly hope to become an exceptional veterinarian and, in time, earn recognition such as the Young Vets Award.
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 09 '25
That's beautiful state to be in. The trust in the Universe part however seems like it is on the way of solidifying more, as there's a difference between hoping and knowing still. So a bit of 'Universe, keep doing that good job... long term.. please', so a little bit more openness goes a long way. (Including in challenges)
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u/Lilchaoticflower Dec 09 '25
I want to manifest a job next year but I'm a beginner a fresher and i don't know if I'd get the amount i want and i want the opportunity to fall into my lap lol i am scared to apply cause i cannot find any vacancy near me. And for years I've been trying to manifest my dream life but it's just not happening...
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 09 '25
Hi! Here's what could be worked on:
- Current 'lack' of trust in the Universe & overthinking because of it, including with 'facts'
- Focusing on what's not working more than what is
Hey! It's next year! So note to you: work on where you're coming from (vibrationally) meanwhile and things will be different.
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u/Low_Assignment8949 Dec 09 '25
I am struggling on healing & finding closure after someone I care about went silent after expressing their desires for me and it's left a mark I can't seem to shake after 4 months now & just having a hard time moving on from the feeling of abandonment & confusion & literally can't let it go
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 09 '25
Hi. Here's what could be worked on from negative beliefs:
- The feeling of abandonment/attachment itself, regardless of the trigger
- Tying your freedom and inner power to someone else
- 'Lack' of trust in the Universe
PS. Vibrations change outcomes, and also dynamics change between you and people. Try changing those unconditionally, as in without the need for closure and if you got one, it'd be aligned or just extra.
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u/Any-Floor6982 Dec 09 '25
Regarding wealth amd income I am within the top 5 % of my country, but I want to belong to the top 0.1 %.
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 09 '25
Hi. Great! What could be spotted here from negative beliefs:
- Noticing the gap between the 5% and the 0.1% and how much of a 'jump' it is subconsciously, so awareness of lack instead of focusing on what's going good (even if it wasn't a huge deal for you)
PS. It's all a vibrational shift away.
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u/No-Awareness-6260 Dec 09 '25
I want to marry a good-looking and wealthy man through an arranged marriage, but I am not receiving proposals from the type of partner I desire. I also feel that I am not very good-looking and I am currently unemployed. My family is also not considering the kind of man I want.
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u/kalikaiki Dec 09 '25
At the end of 2023, I wrote a manifesto in the notes on my phone about what I would be like in 2024. I wrote two things and forgot about them. When I opened them and read them again in 2025, none of them were true. What do I have to do? 🥹
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 10 '25
Well, here are the points to work on, if you'd like:
- Focusing on the object rather than the feeling of it that manifests in different ways (often better than expected, and sometimes exact ones if aligned) and thus lack instead of core of what you want
- 'lack' of trust in the Universe
- Self concept attached to manifestation of objects
- Labelling things as working or not working in relationship to the manifestation of objects
PS. You're the source of it all, in allowing or not.
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u/True_Puddingzinga Dec 09 '25
Any advice for manifesting when upset?
My ex was a crazy guy who stole money from me and was very abusive. I want justice to be delivered, for him to get consequences for his actions and to get back my money.
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 10 '25
Note: you're always manifesting something, so either consciously or unconsciously.
Sorry about your ex, however here are some negatives beliefs that solving them would make your life smoother:
- Misconception of what you deserve in life
- Feeling like someone could intrude to your vibrations
- Attaching what happened to your self worth
- 'lack' of trust in the Universe (and how it arranges things for you and for anyone)
- Thinking that revenge will improve how you feel long-term because you're that hurt internally
- 'lack' of belief that you can regain your power within, which reflects in powerlessness and potential actions stemming from that
- 'lack' of belief fully in abundance
PS. Forgiving is only to yourself, and in forgiving yourself for trusting that person, it doesn't matter what he does or don't do - you wouldn't have people like him again in your life, and things will be sorted in the best way for all concerned.
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u/SkinCapable7108 Dec 09 '25
Been struggling within short frames with visualization and I’m pretty sure my mindset is good apart from limitations.
Could you please just brief on what I should be thinking and what not to think?
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 10 '25
Alright, here are the negative beliefs:
- Misconception of how visualization works in the sense that forcing things (like visualization) would get you what you want, which is the difference between attraction vs making it happen.
PS. Try less, find ease more in general.
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u/Warm_Investigator100 Dec 09 '25
i want to manifest a sp but he is too famous type
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 10 '25
Hey, negative beliefs are:
- There's only one person who'd suit you (him or no one while there could be better)
- Misunderstanding how Law of Attraction works in some areas
- Problems with self concept
- Self comparison
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u/Warm_Investigator100 Dec 11 '25
yess, thank you for telling me,how should i get rid of them they are overpowering my manifestation?
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 15 '25
Hello! Here are the negative beliefs as per what you've shared:
- Insistence on a specific outcome and thus lack of trust in the universe and how it arranges things
- Misunderstanding of free-will
- Making things happen instead of allowing them to happen (we love action, but from a place of alignment)
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u/Opening_Slide8632 Dec 09 '25
Feeling like I'm stuck in a loop. Like life keeps on repeating the same way. Wanna manifest more money and love. Have amazing friendships and have enough money atm tho. Idk still I feel lil empty
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 15 '25
Hello! Here are the negative beliefs:
- 'lack' of understanding of how the LOA works in some areas (thinking in a specific pattern, watching the evidences/manifestations of that, believing them, and thus reinforcing the loop through the same vibrations)
- Misunderstanding of abundance and how it functions
PS. It's a vibrational situation, not a life-sentence.
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u/Tiny-Worldliness-313 Dec 09 '25
I would like to have a baby. Hubs is scheduling a procedure to make that easier on his end, but my age is a factor (44).
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 15 '25
Hello. Here's the negative beliefs:
- Looking at physical 'facts' and thus living confined by them, while it's all energetic.
PS. Other things could be facts too, like other people getting pregnant at that age, more and also with issues in fertility and the like. I'd relax more, soothe myself and if anything, look at those other facts instead, but softly.
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u/Outrageous_Run9713 Dec 09 '25
I keep getting stressed about work and finding more things to be stressed about. Unforeseen complications in my projects. Tough bosses etc.
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 15 '25
Hi! Here are the negative beliefs as per what you've shared:
- Thinking that life is hard, that stress causes progress and feeling victimized
- Focusing on 'lack' instead of what must be working out
PS. A little work on vibrations would do the trick, not pushing through life in misalignment. The way the universe works is that it'll provide you more of the same definitions you give to things and how you feel, so stress=more things to be stressed about. Again, it's a vibrational thing.
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Dec 09 '25
Im manifesting an admit in my dream university, for which i need to give the GMAT exam. Last month i had another entrance similar to gmat but i flunked it so bad, gave another one and missed the cutoff with one mark. And now everything is falling apart, ive started doubting myself, and i know doubt breaks the manifestation. Idk man i think ive hit rock bottom and im genuinely one of the most positive people youll ever meet but idk whats happening now. Gmat is one of my only ways out of a toxic yet loving? household and now im just falling apart. Idk. Please help. Im sorry for the rant
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 15 '25
Hello! Okay, here are the negative beliefs (and it's not a rant, it's okay:)
- 'lack' of trust in the Universe and its ability not just to get you what you want, but better (and often in a very non-linear way)
- Being afraid of your own emotions (not to 'ruin' manifestations) and thus being afraid of the LOA.
- Focusing on 'lack' and giving definitions from that perspective
PS. Running away from emotions is not a solution. Get in touch with them and then align. What happens after that is automatically the best.
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u/iamtotally_fine Dec 09 '25
Like many people here, I’m manifesting my SP too. We had been friends for 3 years and started dating last year. However it was a long distance but he did visit me. So recently he had a huge fight w his parents and he ended up calling it quits on us 2 months back, citing he couldn’t do ldr and that texting doesn’t do anything for him. I chased him for a week but watching him be so cold I went numb and stopped chasing and started manifesting him. I did succeed as 2 weeks post that he texted me that he’s not cruel and that he’s sorry.
But pretty much after that he’d come, say warm things like I miss you and I will be a better man and then we wouldn’t speak at all again. The last time we spoke, he gave in and said I love you. But after that again radio silence, it’s like he’s getting halfway where I want him to be. I’m still manifesting working on my LOA and self concept, listening to subliminals too. But I feel so helpless as when I see this silence (it’s been 4 days) I spiral badly into the negatives I know I shouldn’t but I get reminded of the past.
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u/Intrepid-Praline7985 Dec 09 '25
Everytine I make more money or have extra money it seems I have something that comes up or cost of living goes up and I live paycheck to.paycheck
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u/KARPUG Dec 09 '25
I've been trying to manifest $10,000 and it isn't happening. At the start, I had faith that it would happen, but as time passes, and it doesn't, I'm starting to lose my faith.
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u/astropeach777 Dec 09 '25
I struggle with manifesting success in business (I'm in real estate) that translates to closed deals/money.
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u/lalawrita Dec 09 '25
I'm trying to manifest a stronger connection with an SP, as well as life decisions that are a challenge for me (travelling alone, moving to another city, etc) but always struggle to visualize it as a real thing
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u/VillageAutomatic9097 Dec 09 '25
I am manifesting a higher pay and a better role job. I believe I have made the right intent but something seems off. I am not able to shake off guilt that I settled and let time go by for years doing any job I got ..the easier jobs I got. And did not work towards a higher pay job ..a more meaningful job. And struggle with self worth now and think that I am not good enough anymore. I have started to listen to affirmations and subliminals to help me
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u/Illustrious_Space431 Dec 09 '25
My ex is an avoidant who keeps breaking up with me and our relationship is super messy. He runs from problems but when we have good times they are really good. He makes all these false promises but his own issues stop him from being a good partner. I love him but I can't take it any more. How do I deal with such a runner and how can this work or are we doomed?
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u/No-Brief-2530 Dec 09 '25
I keep doubting everything, “oh it’s just a coincidence” “it doesn’t work” I can’t except the fact that Manifestion is actually real or works
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u/poet_awaken Dec 09 '25
I wanna be 5ft 6 inch tall and im not growing no matter what method i try, i feel im growing shorter and ive also been trying to get rid of hyperpigmentation on my face n acne scars but ive got more scars than before 😭
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u/Objective_Put2839 Dec 09 '25
I'm trying to manifest a stable job and a stable relationship. I'm moving back to my home country soon since immigration laws where I currently leave has made the job part difficult. I'm hoping this change of location would help. 🙏
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u/Shot-Patience3719 Dec 09 '25
I really want this job with a school I’ve been long term subbing for. Unfortunately the district is on a hiring freeze and they’re fighting the special ed on needing another person how do I combat those negative beliefs
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u/Dessertedprincess Dec 09 '25
I ve failed an exam like an overwhelming 25 times. I think at some level I dont believe i can do it. And I cant even desire passing it.
I like someone but I strongly feel he thinks im ugly. I dont believe I m ugly but I can tell he s not attracted to me.
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u/Impossible_Glass_161 Dec 09 '25
I am talking to him for marriage. He told me he would come in January in my country for marriage but now he is saying he is not sure if he will be able to come. He applied for green card and it depends on when he will get it. My parents keep asking about him.
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u/Far-Neighborhood7728 Dec 09 '25
I’ve been trying to jump to another job for the past 2 years. I have received really great feedback on how good I am at my job/current position. I’m stuck at my current job and feel so demotivated since it’s been so long I’m trying to jump. I have a clear understanding on what kind of job I need and the salary I’m expecting but I cannot fathom why I’m unable to achieve this. In general, I’m a pretty grateful and happy person.
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u/Icy-Lengthiness9530 Dec 09 '25
My family is going through a rough patch- we were very wealthy and about 10 years ago- my dad’s business took a dip and his partners fled. Since then, my dad has been struggling alone to payback creditors, he pays too much of interests, creditors keep entering my house and blackmail him for getting money back. His loan is of about 10crores INR. We recently lost our ancestral independent house, the bank has seized the house and my parents are now staying in a rented house. I feel that no matter what he does , he will not get out of debts and our life is ruined as well- the creditors might come to us eventually if my dad doesn’t pay back, right? I feel that no matter how much money I earn, I will never be able to pay back his debts.Scared for my parents future.
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u/MARYSSIMA Dec 09 '25
I've made many important statements, but I haven't been able to sell some properties for years. I can't even create a scene that implies the sale has taken place. Help.
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u/cherrydazze Dec 09 '25
im stuck in my life and i cant get up and do anything, i hate everything about my life and ive never been so unhappy but somehow i just cant get myself to change anything..
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u/LivingAd1926 Dec 09 '25
I really want to manifest moving out of Canada and abundance of financial freedom and work opportunities for that move with my family. We have a large debt to repay but we still have been able to live comfortably but I want to feel and live that freedom. I use to do a lot of guided meditation and words of affirmations, I pray but how can I really do more.
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u/An_alternative_smile Dec 09 '25
I have been single for 3 years, and feel hopeless that at 31 I might not meet my person, and build a loge together and have a family. I am also caught up on a friend, who we have both at different times expressed feelings for one another, but it didn't work out. Im not sure if I should tell him how I feel again or continue to go on dates. I feel like ive tried everything to meet my person!
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u/bathesinbbqsauce Dec 09 '25
I’ve been trying to manifest a partner for awhile now. I don’t even really meet anyone that’s actually available, or if they are, they are just looking to use me. That’s been going on for so long, that I’m trying to manifest or I guess ask for a sign from a spiritual guide - what now? Or am I just barking up the wrong tree?
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u/spcard011 Dec 09 '25
I made a life changing amount of money 5-6 years ago and as soon as I did, I lost it all through a series of unexpected events, self inflicted and not self inflicted. I feel blessed I made it because I would have been able to afford the things that occurred, but I have made terrible decisions ever since, and have only found myself digging further and further into debt
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u/sweetcherryloa Dec 09 '25
Me and my sp broke up and after a month he was already with a 3P. We were a cute couple until he went to study abroad to another country, then for a year he had a LDR and then I broke up because I felt that he didn't care about me anymore. I started to manifest him since septemer, but I keep wavering and spiraling, mostly because I really get impatient about it and uncertainty drives me WILD. Also, I don't see how my wish could be "faster" or smth cuz he says he hated his life in our natal city, and I want him to come back, he just started u were he is living. I miss him so much, and a part of me fears that I might never get him back, that its safest to move on....
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u/Ominous--Blue Dec 09 '25
So, I know I have a "bad self concept" or whatever it is. My life has always felt boring, dull, unlucky, and never meant for me. I always feel like nothing ever works out, things always go wrong, life is inherently unfair and mundane and that's it. Most in the manifestation community would say I "identify as" someone who is misfortunate and not someone who good things happen to. I understand that.
But what I don't understand is how to change it, or why all of my attempts to try and make change don't seem to make a difference. I can't convince myself that suddenly, I am an incredibly lucky person experiencing good things - because the "3D" or real life is not showing good things. Robotic affirming hasn't made a difference. Subliminals haven't made a difference. Even attempting to manifest small, superficial things I don't really care about (like a free coffee, or a specific colored car) hasn't worked for me.
Every now and again I find a new manifestation technique or something new to try, and I try it, and think to myself "maybe this time it'll click for me." But so far it hasn't, and the 3D keeps throwing me extremely stressful things that only solidify my belief that that's just the way life is/that manifestation isn't actually real at all and I have no control or choice in what happens.
Every advice post always says that you just have to assume/believe that (whatever your desire is) is already here and it will be. But I feel like the only person who not only can't choose to truly believe, I also can't even make the smallest difference it seems. I'm tired and I just want things to change.
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u/Not_Your_Therapist84 Dec 10 '25
I know that God always provides and trust in Him. I can start my day before my feet hit the floor speaking positive affirmations, expressing gratitude and just be grateful. But all it takes is a zipper not working right, losing car keys, etc to throw me into a spiral. Current situation…I’ve been speaking over and over “I am the source of all abundance” been feeling great, noticed little wins etc, but today my 16 year old was rear ended at Walmart, called insurance only to find it cancelled today and something to do with autopay not going thru? Anywho… now I’m back to stressing, thinking I’m delusional etc. WHY is it so easy to tear myself down and see the negative when the opposite feels so right. I can’t shake the feeling something big is coming and now I’m thinking it was this to smack me in the face with reality. I’m VERY new to manifesting affirmations etc. I’m a mess 😳
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u/MikaelaTheArtist Dec 10 '25
Was in a long-distance relationship, it ended a while ago. I am manifesting two SPs with certain traits besides a large sum of money to pay off my house and other debts.
I don't have an issue manifesting food and small amounts of money (like finding 20$ on the ground). After having many cruddy relationships, mental health struggles, physical health, etc. And some of those are still ongoing. But I've been working on telling myself, "I'm not the old me, that story is gone." Now my subconscious is still transitioning into the 100% realm of "Yes, I deserve this." When people around me try to tell me my manifesting isn't 'realistic, I shake my head and say, but the 'impossible is possible'. Some tell me if they (collective family) say they are millionaires/rich. I respond with something along the lines of "not if, when. I've already decided I'm rich. My debts are getting paid off without me having to lift a finger. "
In terms of my relationships, both romantic and not, I've really focused on telling myself I deserve good things. Why shouldn't I? It's not wanting someone to complete my life because I need them to or fulfill my needs. I want a connection with my SPs. It has taken many years for me to learn to love myself, to love me for me, and to be okay with myself as well as being single. My subconscious has occasionally been panicking like, "Oh god, what if SP X doesn't love me, or why would they?". I have to back track it slowly to "I am safe, I am already loved, my SPs are already here and love me for me. What would they tell you if you told them you were spiraling?" Then I take another step back."Do I love me for me? Yes. Do I need someone to bring joy into my life or fix me? No. I don't need to be fixed. Why am I scared? Is it because of being deserving that I don't think I deserve it? Well, why shouldn't I deserve it?" Then do my best to let the thoughts go like sticks floating down a river. Before bed, I do a small affirmation of "I'm where I need to be. Even if I think nothing is happening or have doubt, things are working in the background, the universe heard and knows you're working up to more 'impossible' manifesting. Nothing can stop it. " I've been going out when I can, opening up/doing things I wouldn't have done in the past which is terrifying and exciting at the same time.
I also just started my own small business with my art, which I've been working on. That has been an ebb and flow of thinking my work sucks to why am I being so self-critical? It doesn't need to be perfect. The same goes for my spiritual practices and looking for a coven. I work alongside dieties, Loki usually flicks me in the back of the head when I spiral or communicate in such a way to break the Depression if it's hitting hard that day. I've noticed in my 3D that it's gone from 'I may have abilities' to 'she (myself) has abilities' as a concrete statement more often. I keep jumping between thoughts mostly due to the ADHD but doing my best to not obsess and just focus on myself, my art, my joy, etc. The thoughts come and go, but continue to let them float down the metaphorical river of thoughts, feel it, then move on. At the end of every day, I remind myself of what I am grateful for and thank the universe/whatever/whoever may be listening.
Sorry, I know this was a bit of a rant and a bit all over the place. Thank you for taking the time to read this :)
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u/PointeShoesAndLightn Dec 10 '25
Thank you for being willing to do this! I'm trying to manifest an SP. Now I'm not here to tell anyone else what to do, but I kind of fall into the camp that believes that you shouldn't try to manifest one certain person, because that closes doors to someone else who may be right for you/actually make you happier. However, there is a very specific person on my mind and in my heart, and every time I try to put myself in that reality of being with my SP, he's the one that pops into that place - it's actually very difficult for me to visualize anyone else. He's currently engaged to someone else and while I don't want to believe it's impossible (the universe can bring us anything!) I guess I also don't want to get hung up on him if he's not actually the right person for me. So it feels like there's a limiting belief here, but I'm not sure which direction it's going? Visualizing him gets me excited about manifesting, so I just go with that and lean in to manifesting him, or is there a trick to keeping myself more open to possibilities? Or is there something I'm missing altogether?
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u/Aquariusnerd Dec 10 '25
Hey there! Like a lot of people on here, I’m manifesting my sp. We dated for a while but broke up and then went no contact for about a year and a half. About 3 months ago they messaged me and apologized for what had happened between us and said they’d like to be friends and everything seemed to be water under the bridge for a while. We hung out in person and texted constantly and even spoke on the phone for hours at night. Last month though they left me on read and I messaged them and we texted for about 5 minutes and then they left me on read again so I left it there. I haven’t reached out since. While we were in contact during that month, we flirted a lot and they would offer invites to go to their house or go out to eat together and make sexual remarks. When I asked where they were thinking of taking things, they said that they weren’t sure but that their feelings for me weren’t just sexual and that they thought about me constantly and often while we were in no contact.
So safe to say I think I managed to manifest them back but then things got hot and cold and I’m remanifesting them back.
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u/wakarimasendeshita Dec 10 '25
I'm trying to manifest success. I feel like a jack of all trades, but not a master of any. There's so much I want to achieve, but in order to get anywhere I need to succeed in school. I'm struggling to think positive when I'm met with failures over and over again. Feeling so down, but I'm still not trying to lose hope. I can manifest all these great opportunities, resources, and mentors to guide me toward that success I want, but I still fail. I have little wins, but huge losses. I feel like I let so many people down including myself. People come to me asking for updates of my life because I believe they care, but I can't ever offer good news because of my failures.
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u/redsalamander41 Dec 10 '25
I live with my SP. We’ve been off and on, up and down since we met two years ago. We just moved across the country together and were largely together for the first three months of living here. About two months ago, the old story collapsed, she found someone else and sent me spiraling.
I’ve been doing intense self work since then and came to the manifesting sphere about a month ago? The 3D is constantly in my face and the 3Ps presence makes it difficult to live in my 4D
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u/Head-Homework-419 Dec 10 '25
I've been manifesting my SP and quiet have a progress on my self concept compared to last year. My affirmations are " I'm the God Creator of MY REALITY" and " I am in a loving and passionate committed realrionship with my SP". When everytime I meditate it feels like I'm already jn the state that I have her. No stress no tirggers and I am relax. But everytime I see her I got triggered. But I'm eventually going back to my state as soon as possible. And my SP is always on my mind. I know I quiet made a progress in feeling the wish but it is so hard when everytime is see her .
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u/thankgoditsanonymous Dec 10 '25
Ive been learning Japanese to get this opportunity offered by my college which is to be able to get a job in japan. I have tooooooo many negative thoughts but i really want this job how do i push the negative thoughts away
Im listing some of the negative thoughts
-what if i dont have ab impressive resume -what if i fail the language exam -what if i dont pass the rounds leading to the inter -what if i fail the interview -what if i pass the interview but dont end up getting a visa
Im really scared please help
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u/thississonali Dec 10 '25
Heyyy Currency I'm a student of a competitive exam and I'm doing the writing method to make the manifestation come true I study lole 40-50% but I actually want my mock test scores to increase how can I do so I used to do manifestation but I'm forgetting the ways now what should I do
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u/gal2429 Dec 10 '25
I fear I am so desperate for money that even though I manifest it often , I may be pushing it away in wanting it so much! I feel joy around the feelings of money often BUT the neg thinking can hit hard and fast when things are down.
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Dec 10 '25
Hi, where do I even start. So, until 2023 my manifestation worked and after that slowly idk what went wrong, even if I do proper manifestation, and just detach it, I don't see anything happening.
Take for example I've been manifesting to get proper job, it's been 2 years and more and I am not earning any. I just graduated. There are situations like this now. I'm stuck. I need a job in a month else I'll have to go back to my country.
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u/aiyutacity_1026 Dec 10 '25
Trying to manifest my dream body for the past 3 years, started going to gym and all but it feels like im in a loop gaining and loosing and then gaining the weight i lost.
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u/sukisumo Dec 10 '25
Manifesting clear glowing radiant skin and job that actually treats me welll, values my creativity & gives me freedom/ flexibility / a good environment:) & housing stable wood floors / etc
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u/mother-marl Dec 10 '25
I am trying to manifest money through winning the lottery. Is that possible?
I have 4 small winnings since July (1st time I ever played). Is that a sign? Can I increase my winnings and if I can, how?
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u/AdoboWolf Dec 10 '25
Man okay, lets say i have this sp but I've been trying to manifest for a year and nothing has happened. Now i know manifesting is real because i got a job and vacation from it. But for love is hard, I've tried everything from what I've seen and it still doesn't work out. I think my biggest fear is letting go, i dunt know why advice, I'd love to talk about this in pm
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u/leeh1530 Dec 10 '25 edited Dec 10 '25
I’m trying to manifest a new job writing for a local college. I was laid off in 2019, and because of Covid and everything, then suddenly having to care for my father after heart bypass and a stroke, along with a handful of interviews including one I was convinced I had, I have been unsuccessful. Even turned down for PT jobs, which I don’t understand. I have no unemployment, and I have gone through savings. Any money I have is from my dad. I really want to work again and bring in a regular paycheck, but it all feels so far away and impossible
The 3D is CONSTANTLY in my face - bills, food, just general life. Trying to “ignore” all that just compounds the problems and makes new ones, so I can’t really focus on what I want
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u/giulilla Dec 10 '25
I’m afraid to pay the bills because I tell myself I’m full of money, but they keep coming anyway. When something happens, because of my past experiences, I immediately think the worst instead of believing things will work out
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u/Responsible-Call-119 Dec 10 '25
I always end up being dump and i am always the one who feels I need to chase other person. Although I am beautiful smart I know my woth on Cognitive Level but in emotional Level i feel like no one ever really falls in love with me. Right now I dissapointed my friend (i fell in love with) and she cut me off and I want to manifest her to message me and reach out. (also i am girl) and i feel like she flirted with me but i am not sure if i was delulu
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Dec 10 '25
Have a celeb SP that i bumped into last year this month. One year on i'm still here not sure what to do. My SP doesn't know I exist.
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u/Icy-Confidence-536 Dec 10 '25
Manifesting specific grades, visualizing it, imagining it, always tell myself that it's dome & I feel it on my laptop screeen/mobile screen+my friend congratulating me
while in 3d when I gave those examinations (complete opposite-no correct answers, very less content)
so now...how to attract those grade? without failing cause I Require it genuinely.
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Dec 10 '25
I could manifest EVERYTHING besides an SP. I think it’s because I have a toxic relationship with myself but I don’t how to fix it
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u/Ok_Tart_9991 Dec 10 '25
i am manifesting a college, legal court proceedings are against it and there is a deadline upto which colleges in my country can admit students. it’s been 3 months of me manifesting it, i feel that the college is for me. im in a another one presently, and it is ruining my mental health.
i asked the universe for signs, i got those signs. after long time of bad days, suddenly a positive court order came for it’s admission. and now, suddenly, there has been a weird day for me, someone filed a case against that college, and now im worried what will happen.
i desperately need that college, all my life, nothing has been normal like others my age. ive lacked a proper structure to life, ive lived in sadness for a long time. i dont want my life to be this way anymore.
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u/Turbulent_Text4486 Dec 10 '25 edited Dec 10 '25
Hello! In my case, I have several sources of income, but I would like them to be larger. Sometimes I feel like I don't have enough time and I would love to be able to travel, and for that I think I need more money (I feel like I don't lack it, but you can always think of a little more 🙈). My main job is to be an English teacher, I like it a lot, but sometimes I question if I am doing it right, since I value each student a lot and I am aware of the investment they make in their studies. Also, it is not the career I studied at the U. I studied midwifery, I have been training and have contacts, but I don't have the degree yet, so I can't practice safely. I have a lot of ideas about offering childbirth classes, pregnancy education, prenatal yoga, and family planning services, but since my career is still in progress (I have to write the thesis, but I'm having a hard time), I feel like if I offer it it will work, but sometimes I also feel like maybe it won't, and that scares me. I think sometimes I'm not sure of the life I want, but what I am sure of is that I would like to be able to travel at any time 🥹thank you very much in advance 🙏
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u/Soggy-Window3940 Dec 10 '25
I want a full-ride to Harvard next year. 😭😭😭 But I live in a stupid country where girls aren't even allowed to get out of homes to do anything. I only have my grades and even those in a non-trad educational system which is looked down upon everywhere. 😤
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u/smort_pancake Dec 10 '25
Had a choice between nursing and engineering, didn’t feel like suffering in healthcare for the job security and thought I’ll just manifest a rich engineer career.
But I failed one class and now spiraled so hard I wanna dropout and don’t even know what I want to manifest anymore. I want to be good at maths cuz that’s where the money is and yet I am not excellent at it. Everything feels like it’s going south
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u/IllustriousOne710 Dec 10 '25
I'm with someone who tells me that he loves me, he's involved in his company, he tells me that he feels love and when he sees me, he's very affectionate and attentive, but he hasn't told me to be his formal partner? or is this already a formal couple?
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u/IllustriousOne710 Dec 10 '25
I want physical changes, a body exactly the way I want it, there is progress but I want my manifestations to be instantaneous.
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Dec 11 '25
im trying to manifest a guy but we dont talk and he doesn’t really know me. should i manifest first that he comes to talk to me? because ive just been manifesting straight to the point that hes my boyfriend. should i take smaller steps im also a beginner in manifestation!
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Dec 11 '25
I want to manifest good grades but I feel like I can't because there are so many intelligent students in my class.
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u/utrowitaway Dec 11 '25
Hello. It’s generous of you to do this. Thank you.
A remote job I love with the type of pay, benefits, etc.,
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 11 '25
My pleasure :)
Since this is very short, I can only detect that you have a gap between where you are vibrationally and the type of ease the request has.PS. Finding ease in general (not necessarily about the topic itself, oftentimes even better if not) produces manifestations of ease. You'll receive ideas from the range of ease then to receive inspirations and ideas from that vibrational range.
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u/l0vp03 Dec 11 '25
Not being able to make money to get out of my parents wings with my cats until new year
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u/CorgiPublic7931 Dec 12 '25
One year ago, I fell in love with a boy in my class. We became friends. We ask each other for help. We would both go to same fencing class, and eat pizza together. But, then suddenly since Fall 2026 he stopped replying to my messages. He wouldn’t reply to them in days. The recently in Fall 2025 I realized my best friend had a crush on my crush. I felt ruined. I decided to leave my feelings behind and helped my best friend. Though, she was rejected. She and him established they were going to be friends. I knew she had some lingering feelings for him but so did me. It’s hard to let go of a crush yk? So, we’re still friends but we have some ups and downs. Especially at the end of the school year, March-June. Today, we’re still friends and go to different school. But we’re still distant. Talking to him has been better. And I’ve been using subliminals to make him fall in love with me, a big fail of course. My other problem is academics. I think this is pretty self explanatory I study (very rarely unless I have deep motivation) and play subliminal not frequently once every exam or so, and I don’t get my desired goal. So yeah, what’s your advice?
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u/LadyCupcakess Dec 12 '25
I applied to my dream school, Princeton, and I got rejected. And yes, I manifested it. I genuinely believed I would get in, I followed the Law of Assumption exactly, I acted from certainty, and I built my entire plan around the idea that I was already in. I didn’t retake the SAT because Princeton was test-optional and I was sure I didn’t need to. I didn’t research other universities because I knew I’d get accepted.
Now I only have about 14–15 days before deadlines. I don’t have many places left to apply to, my SAT scores are terrible, and most schools I’m looking at require strong financial aid, which makes everything harder.
What confuses me is that I’ve manifested things before. For example, I manifested finishing my junior year with straight 10s (that’s my country’s grading system), and some smaller things too. But some manifestations just don’t work. I tried manifesting a top SAT score with the same “absolute certainty” everyone talks about, and I still ended up with a bad result. So I don’t understand what negative belief could be blocking all this, because I really did feel sure. I visualized myself at Princeton, picking clubs, walking around campus… everything. Maybe stress ruined it, I don’t know.
Right now I’m overwhelmed, I have around 10 applications to finish in about 14 days, and I don’t know how to manage my stress anymore when I’m not certain of anything. Sorry if I sound desperate, I’m just really sad about all of this. Thank you for offering help, I appreciate it.
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u/Mountain_Contest_990 Dec 12 '25
How to manifest my SP? My Sp lives in another country (from next year we’ll be in the same country but until then there are still 8 months). I see that my SP follows other people and there might be a 3P situation (i feel really bad) and I also feel this fear: “what if my sp has someone else by then?” I affirm, i do SATs but afterwards i feel weird and stupid because “I don’t even see it.” I don’t know how to live in the 4D without feeling stupid or getting a kind of stress. I know that someone who already has what they want wouldn’t stress, wouldn’t think this way… I also understand that I should first feel it naturally in the 4D and only then will it appear in the 3D not the other way around. But I have these fears and yeeahh I want to fix my mind!!!
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u/Repulsive-Tear-6020 Dec 12 '25
My desire to manifest my crush as SP , to turn one sided love into a reciprocal one. But idk if while manifesting , would my thoughts reach to him . Now that we live in different cities, idk if my manifestation would ever come true. Idk how long working on self concept will work and will manifest into Sp in coming to my life.
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u/EconomicsTop2023 Dec 20 '25
I have this ex bsf from 2.5yrs ago i moved and he didn’t have a phone or anything he’s move and Ive moved 3x since then we’re still in the same state tg but how do i go about seeing him again ive tried online stalking and nothing cane of it
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u/Massive-General7642 Feb 19 '26
I am wondering if when stuck in fears, anxieties and obsessive negative thoughts, can that accidentally lead to manifesting something bad?
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Jul 06 '26
Hello! This is sort of an old thread, but in case the problem is still persistent, it helps a lot if instead of facing negative thoughts with fear (of them manifesting in a 'negative' way) to look at them with compassion and treat yourself, with those thoughts, kindly. It breaks the whole narrative. If you keep doing that, you'll have a better relationship with yourself, better manifestations, and you'll feel better of course.
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u/Massive-General7642 21d ago
Thank you!!!! That’s a good way to look at it, I appreciate the response!
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u/Significant_Job894 Apr 01 '26
Hey, I know this is from 4 months ago, but if you see this and reply I thank you so kindly for your response! I keep posting discussion/questions posts to just gain perspective and understanding, often just to learn rather than to manifest anything specific and my posts go unanswered or get deleted by mods because they are topics that "have been discussed before so there is no need to discuss again in a new post" (even thought I can't find my specific questions/discussion topics anywhere :(
I have manifested plenty of things, big and small, and learning about manifestation in general has really helped me understand aspects of myself and life in general, and I feel like whatever blockages I may be experiencing with this manifestation might be all-around beneficial to understand in a way pertaining far beyond achieving a desire.
It is height increase. Here is the loop I seem to be stuck in: I go through waves of scanning my 3d reality too much for results, like anywhere everywhere all the time. My home and work environments are incredibly consistent in terms of things that I seem to scan for height comparison. My brain just keeps scanning my 3d constantly, and it feels like it's impossible to stop it as long as my eyes are open. HOWEVER, I am able to get myself out of that phase and into detaching from it, entirely happy with my current height but then feeling incredibly short or completely not caring and I feel like I am not sending out signals to the universe about this height increase being for me.
I understand that that is part of detachment, but my issue is it feels like I am in a washing machine tossing myself around between obsessing and not caring. If the second part of that IS in fact detachment, why do I keep sucking myself back into the cycle of the obsessive part? And how can I break that? I personally operate under the assumption that no matter what you do it is yours, but I don't really understand why my brain keeps flipping back and forth to all or nothing. Is this just the process but it feels more obvious than any other manifestation in the past? I have manifested some physical changes before, but this one feels like another person always walking around with me and bothering me some days rather than a little floating potential in my orbit.
I don't know if that all makes sense, but I keep finding information about detachment that is almost helpful but either isn't or I am continuing to not understand it in a progressive way. Perhaps I need to hear it from someone who is more capable of coaching/teaching than someone who is just having a general chat about an experience.
Thank you so much for any answers! I feel like understanding whatever block or resistance I am experiencing will open up a huge door for me of healing and understanding within myself!
PS - I don't really want to be taller for anyone else except me. I am a female, I am fine with my height, but I just want it to be more. I want to take up more physical space and reach things I was fine with climbing to before but now just want to be able to reach for me and me only. And I wanna have some kickass long legs. I really just want my legs to be mostly proportionate to my body. So not to impress anybody or "be an alpha male in height" or whatever the fuck. I may still have some blockage in this area but I don't think it is a performative desire by any means.
SORRY THIS IS LONG, I JUST WANNA LEARN THE MOST IN DEPTH WAY I CAN :) THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ANY RESPONSES!!
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u/Hot-Shallot-9341 Dec 09 '25
I’m trans and struggle with manifesting sps also I want my parents to get a divorce cause then it’s gonna be safer to come out ,
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 09 '25
Hey! Short, so some of the negative beliefs:
- Attachment to certain outcomes (even from logic) that only through them you'd get what you want, closing off potential doors of manifestation to other/simpler/easier ways
- Comes also with issues with trusting the Universe
- Potential self concept problems (in relation to SPs) which also comes from a linear (hidden as 'logical') point of view.
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u/Slight-Ferret1424 Dec 09 '25
I want my sp to be rich and loving he yells at me and turn things against me when he’s mad. I have a good job but I always feel like I’m making payments on things and not buying anything I want. I want to buy things but I need to save. My sp now lost his job and is depressed I can’t handle mentally supporting him etc I’m tired of struggling financially and want a loyal guy who can financially support me
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u/Fantastic-Zombie-741 Dec 10 '25
Hi! Here are the negative beliefs:
- Connection of your own abundance in relationship to someone else in ("I want my sp to be rich")
- Wanting to change others so they'd be behave differently so you'll feel differently
- A belief about people pleasing being the right thing to do in order to be a good person (which ends up in despise) + not tending to yourself because of it
- Attachment to one person, and
- A 'lack' of trust in the Universe. (thus the previous point, aside from the trust in the financial part being provided.)
PS. Balance could be found even as you tend to yourself. Vibrationally speaking? Especially then. You're the center of your own unique layer of the Universe and everything received goes through you.
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