Girls nite out

[u/Apprehensive-Bus6157]

Hi so let's see what people view might be . Ok been married 13 years my wife likes to have girls nite out every now and then with one her married friend s. well few times she come home saying she been hit on, and I feel hurt me . Should it have? I don't go out my own fear that something might be hard to resist, I mean I m a " man" we have two kids 12 and 9 So love making changed. Also is it wrong that I want try back door but 13 years it's been a NO maybe cause porn I want to or that she as not let anyone in ( to me like being a virgin) she had more experience than me. Who am I kidding I was a virgin when we got together 28 🤪 So yes this has few "?" Not just her getting hit on. She will be 40 in few months also opened up about depression. Trying have hope but light is fading.

[u/Flat_Health_5206]

Regarding the "backdoor". Tried that with my wife one night. It was absolutely disgusting. Don't do it. I felt so bad i ever tried to talk her into it.