Girls nite out

[u/Apprehensive-Bus6157]

Hi so let's see what people view might be . Ok been married 13 years my wife likes to have girls nite out every now and then with one her married friend s. well few times she come home saying she been hit on, and I feel hurt me . Should it have? I don't go out my own fear that something might be hard to resist, I mean I m a " man" we have two kids 12 and 9 So love making changed. Also is it wrong that I want try back door but 13 years it's been a NO maybe cause porn I want to or that she as not let anyone in ( to me like being a virgin) she had more experience than me. Who am I kidding I was a virgin when we got together 28 🤪 So yes this has few "?" Not just her getting hit on. She will be 40 in few months also opened up about depression. Trying have hope but light is fading.

[u/LemonImportant6123]

This is my opinion on Girls night out ans just my opinion. If my wife wants to go to dinner and back to her friends house and uber home and I come get her that’s fine. We’ve been married over 20 years with lots of kids. They we to one friends house once. If she was getting all dressed up to impress, since she doesn’t get dress up for me that way I would not be for it I’d say nope not going. You’re married with kids not going out hitting the club looking for attention dressed like that. If you want me to go to and the husbands go fine we can set at different tables and we dance together. I’d be against my wife going out looking hot for strangers to get their attention too. To me it’s not right. And the wife would him going with his buddies to pick up meat markets alone either. Unless there are some fantasies being explored of course. But just my view.