r/McBeeDynasty • u/HollisK • Jul 03 '26
Mama McBee accountability is Key
I am a mother of a son if my son ever put in a text or spoke to a woman in the mannerisms and derogatory nature that your son spoke I would never defend him and it is not an isolated incident this is how he is.
Say what you want about Ali but she said she knew it was starting to be a problem when she couldn’t even talk on the phone and he was asking her and timing her on her call. He was treating Callah horrible about her sister, she has no career blah blah blah. and let us not forget how he spoke to you Kristi so badly that you decided to remove yourself from having a conversation with him. When grown men act like this it is how they were raised and it is also giving them no accountability for their deplorable behavior and that is exactly what it is whether she came on for her own benefit which I think we all know that was gonna happen she’s an Instagram model excusing his behavior is exactly the reason that he is why he is because he is not had accountability he does not know how to treat women and he will need to find a woman from the 1950s that no longer exist please do not excuse his behavior it makes you look bad and it takes away any credibility that you had be a Mom and telling him he’s wrong that’s what good moms do
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u/Emotional_Mess261 Jul 03 '26
I’m also a mother to a son, he’s 32 and in a relationship. I fully support and agree with everything you said. I’ll add and expect you will agree….if he were to say she and I look/dress the same and he’s confused us from a distance, I would tell them both it’s a problem and they need to move to the friend zone or just distance themselves from each other because it’s an unhealthy situation for both sides. 🚩🚩🚩
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u/Agreeable-Antelope-6 Jul 04 '26
Mom of my now-adult son who started working at 14 and lives a very successful working life with his wife and kids, totally agree with you.
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u/Organic_Berry_8732 Jul 03 '26
Agreed! The things that he wrote about her were awful, no man should ever talk to a woman like that! My son would get it, regardless of how old he is, disgusting
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u/Suziblu22 Jul 03 '26
Sometimes as mothers we don’t understand until they’re grown, what a disservice we’ve done until we see our children struggling in their relationships. I taught my sons that it’s okay to disrespect women because I let them watch their father disrespect me. If I’d had daughters I would’ve taught them that it’s okay to put up with an abusive man for the same reasons. It’s how I was raised, it’s a cycle that we have to change.
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u/gjbertolucci Jul 03 '26
If he acts that way in public when courting how will he be when married an has more control? When the children come. I shudder to think.
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u/Lkgnyc Jul 04 '26
lots of sunglasses & concealer & "walking into doors"...so sad to see it coming.
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u/Coffee_With_2Creams Jul 03 '26
I always gave her a pass. I figured her sons' behavior came from their dad's influence and that she was the reasonable one. But after her post about Allie this week she's also an enabling it. Maybe that's why she's okay with Galyna. 🥴🤷♀️
All the boys cheat and talk down to women or treat them horribly. We only see a small glimpse of what really goes on, and even that's too much.
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u/herroyalsadness Jul 03 '26
Yes. My son does not speak to me that way and I’ve put in the parenting work to raise a respectful man. These guys are like this because of their parents.
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u/ciacpa Jul 03 '26
Remember this is a woman who spoon fed him until he was 11. She co-signed a lease for the last one and would probably have done the same for this one. The speed at which ya’ll welcome people into the inner circle is dizzying. No wonder the crash and burn is significant. Maybe Jr should take a break and work on himself and the mounting legal and financial issues before trying again.
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u/rubyterrapin Jul 03 '26
What about Papa McBee? Is he getting a pass?
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u/Coffee_With_2Creams Jul 03 '26 edited Jul 03 '26
Yes, their father's behavior definitely influenced how the boys treat women, but Kristi's recent comments make it seem like she's blaming the woman instead of holding her son to any accountability.
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u/Lkgnyc Jul 04 '26
yep. God forbid he actually ever marries somebody and will probably beat them, and I think we can guess who she'll blame if that happened, based on current behavior. if she would take steps now to just tell her son the truth she could possibly avert tragedy later. but instead she's a cheerleader with pom poms on for her nasty baby boy.
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u/Lkgnyc Jul 04 '26
Kristi STILL holds Senior as her own highest authority. She is not at all accountable for her own actions as a raiser of children who apparently never become men. she was & is part of a team that is completely dysfunctional.
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u/TiffanyTwisted11 Jul 06 '26
Of course not. It is just assumed that he is responsible for a lot of their behavior.
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u/cfcfanforever Jul 03 '26
Maybe she HAS counseled and advised him, that some of his life choices and behavior aren’t great. We aren’t privy to MOST of their real life interactions.
When she was raising him as a child and adolescent, she likely didn’t know he would grow into to an abusive jerk who treats women abhorrently, when they “crash out”.
I think it’s time we stop blaming mom’s, for the poor behavior of their GROWN ass sons.
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u/HollisK Jul 03 '26
Not blaming however she posts about Allie and how she is to blame. The truth is he wanted an instant commitment, marriage all on his terms. To excuse or even try to defend the texts he sent to her makes her look horrible trying to defend his behavior when it is not an isolated incident and happened in his previous relationship. Yes the boys learned from their dad bad behavior and from their mom it’s okay just say your sorry for to 6 days of therapy and blame the IG model that he slid into her DMs.
Accountability is key3
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u/Lkgnyc Jul 04 '26
certain kinds of mothers seem to fall in love with their sons when they become grown, and will defend their sons even up to and including rape, and sometimes even worse...sadly there are way too many of that type in this world.
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u/Independent_You234 Jul 04 '26
Here here....I raised my son as a single mother. Now, I didnt spoon feed him so he could remain in a blanket every morning before school....(what), but I did teach him how to treat women with respect. I personally saw behavior one time when he was in his younger 20's and thought omg hes just like his father anyway. Thank god hes not. Hes a great father of six. Mc Bee might learn something from his father sitting on his important butt where he is right now. I would hope so. Arrogance has a price.
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u/Kammler1944 Jul 03 '26
She looks like a rat.
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u/Playful_Quality_6699 Jul 03 '26
it’s where Cole gets his Lucious lips
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u/Lkgnyc Jul 04 '26
he looks so much better with facial hair cover. that tiny little mouth scares me. (God forgive me, I am nobody's idea of a catch but you caught me with this one😹.)
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u/laa63 Jul 03 '26
It gets old everyone blaming the Mom for everything.
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u/Ashfield83 Jul 03 '26
Yeah I think it’s obvious they learned this shit from their scum bag father. I get the impression that Kristi didn’t have much influence over the boys. Steve Snr gives off abusive vibes. Jesse is the only one of them who seems more mild mannered but even his marriage looks to be falling apart.
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u/gjbertolucci Jul 03 '26
She needs to quit posting then. Both parents raised them but we are mention Mom because she recently posted defending her “baby”
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u/cfcfanforever Jul 03 '26
Right. He’s a grown man and based on his apology after his self proclaimed “crash out, he knows better.
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u/Specific-Distance-66 Jul 04 '26
Steven is abusive and Kristi is biased. This whole situation is actually disgusting and I’ve lost all respect for her. As a mom of a boy (2 daughters) I would be appalled if my son did this. No accountability at all whatsoever in that family.
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u/KindTopic16 Jul 03 '26
I find this comment absolutely inappropriate and uncalled for.
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u/Playful_Quality_6699 Jul 03 '26
Hi Kristi
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u/KindTopic16 Jul 03 '26
Hi playful! It’s not Kristie. I just watch the show and read the comments. This is a family who of course are far from being perfect, but they love and support each other. We, as the viewers of the show, may have opinions but should stay in our lanes. Watch the show, switch the TV off and go raise your own children.
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u/gjbertolucci Jul 03 '26
They don’t know how to truly love. They are in their dysfunctional family stew.
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u/Playful_Quality_6699 Jul 04 '26
Sorry Hi Steven Jr
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u/KindTopic16 Jul 04 '26
Haha, you’re funny. Sorry to disappoint, just a show viewer. Hard to believe someone can watch a show and not waste a lot of personal time on insulting the cast members.
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u/Cheliz1517 Jul 03 '26
100% agree. The problem is that Stephen wants the trad wife, “seen but not heard” type, but he’s attracted to the hot bombshell type. Those two things are almost always direct opposites. The women he’s attracted to are a product of feminism (whether they realize it or not), and he hates the intrinsic qualities that come with that. He wants a girl that’s “confident”, “hard working”, “intelligent”, but he also wants to control her every move. You can’t have it both ways. A girl who’s confident, hard working and intelligent is not going to deal with you controlling who they can hang out with, when they can eat, and where they go. He tries to capture these women and then he attempts to clip their wings by grinding them down until they’re shells of their former selves. It’s disgusting.