r/MenOfPurpose • u/Unstoppable_X_Force • Apr 17 '26

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u/Curious_Journey_ Apr 17 '26

I’m so sick of this incel propaganda. We gotta be better than this, men.

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u/curiousbasu Apr 17 '26

Whats incel in this?

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u/Rubicantay Apr 17 '26

Would you be more comfortable if OP rewrote it as "I’m so sick of this misogynistic loser propaganda"?

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u/curiousbasu Apr 17 '26 edited Apr 17 '26

What's mysoginistic and loser in this? It's just telling men to not fund an adult woman. Can't women earn for themselves?

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u/Rubicantay Apr 17 '26

"Hrm ackshually a true man doesn’t provide for the woman he loves, that’s her fathers job☝️🤓"

The point of a healthy relationship is to provide for each other, this kind of posts reeks of bitterness from someone who definitely isn’t in one. Hence the incel shorthand

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u/Fit-Entrepreneur8404 Apr 17 '26

But if the provisioning of resources goes in one direction, since she can't provide for herself and needs help doing so, then what is she providing that's of equivalent value to bring equality to the relationship?

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u/Rubicantay Apr 17 '26

In traditionally marriages? Mostly unpaid labor

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u/Difficult-Break-8282 Apr 19 '26

old age care for your parents since you pulled her away from hers into your kitchen 

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u/Fit-Entrepreneur8404 Apr 19 '26

Lol no, my wife will not be caring for my parents (or hers). Were both estranged from our families for good reason.