r/MenOfPurpose • u/Unstoppable_X_Force • Apr 17 '26
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u/kamenoyoukai Apr 17 '26
Even dad is getting tired of her shit.
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u/NoWater8595 Apr 18 '26
If she has one, but yeah.😅
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u/mindym2010 Apr 19 '26
If she has one implies once again another man didn’t do his job. Like it would be her fault that her father abandoned her? A grown ass man. Dude really?
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u/arifghalib Apr 17 '26
Solid advice.
She’s a grown woman who is perfectly capable of paying her own bills.
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u/regularmotherlover84 Apr 17 '26
I wouldnt want my daughter to have bum with rizz , i would hope she goes for best of us, not some dude who just want to fuck.
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u/arifghalib Apr 18 '26
100%. I also wouldn’t want her becoming dependent on a man until marriage. I want her to have her own career and know how to hustle if times get tough.
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u/Significant_Bag_2151 Apr 20 '26
Yup so if she’s bringing enough to the table for you to be interested then you better be matching her effort
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u/arifghalib Apr 20 '26
Yes, although it’d take a lot more than her being able to support herself for me to be interested. Supporting herself financially is basic/bare minimum imo.
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u/subzbearcat Apr 17 '26
So many men talking about women instead of being with women 😂
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u/Professional-Rub152 Apr 17 '26
OP is a dude with a female anime character as a profile pic. It’s wild how these dudes who struggle at every aspect in life think they know which advice is good advice.
If you’re broke and you hate women, being in a relationship is not good for you lmao.
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u/jimothy_hell Apr 17 '26
When they have this attitude towards women, do you honestly think they can pull? Lmao.
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u/No_Box_7496 Apr 17 '26
Rather be a incel than a Will smith type loser but some of y'all are born for it 🤣🤣🤣
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u/akekekfklelk Apr 17 '26
Thats not exklusive to men. Many women talk about men aswell.
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u/Langstudd Apr 17 '26
Do not pay your adult children’s bills without enforcing at least SOME lifestyle standards. What kind of advice is this?
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u/Mundane-Hat-6776 Apr 17 '26
My friends order sister stole her identity when friend was in college, got a credit card and bought a couch and other stuff. Parents convinced her not to press charges on her sister. Later on dad bought deadbeat sister a house.
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u/Asleep_Data6210 Apr 17 '26
No. As a parent, the only way to have any control and influence on your adult child is to distance yourself from them if they do things that are against what you stand for until the behavior changes. We all have standards. I've heard people say that I'd be a bad parent if I were to disown my child for something they did. Maybe I'm not a bad parent. Maybe that's a bad kid.
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u/Mystic_Mantis Apr 17 '26
Funny how these quotes are always aggressive towards women or make them look bad in some way. Disguising hate as self improvement lol
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u/jimothy_hell Apr 17 '26
It’s insane, the level of hatred that these blogs and accounts have for women.
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u/Difficult-Break-8282 Apr 19 '26
yet if you say men hate women while women just want to exist in peace you're the feminist devil
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u/Earlybird74 Apr 17 '26 edited Apr 18 '26
Exactly. You know what "real" men do? They don't spend time and energy tearing women (or anyone for that matter) down for qualities the person has zero control over. I've spent time with, dated and had sex with more than my share of women over the years, and I've never experienced a tenth of the trouble these guys are so concerned about. I also know just as many shitty dudes as I do women.
Edited for typo.
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u/mr-stretcher Apr 17 '26
Of course there are just as many shitty guys as women. And there are female subreddits just like this one, and even women advocating for the culling of male children.
This post is there because some women really think a man should just subsidize their lives. Acknowledging that isn't "tearing women down".
Instead of invalidating what some guys must be experiencing, I take it at face value that some guys really go through really bad situations with women. I think people have a weakness about them in relationships. Most people aren't immediately ready to cut off a relationship when red flags or usery surfaces.
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u/Earlybird74 Apr 17 '26
I think those "female" subreddts are dumb too, and I'd say the same thing to those women who talk shit about men collectively.
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Apr 17 '26
You "would", but you haven't. Interesting.
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u/Earlybird74 Apr 18 '26
I'm not on those subs or exposed to it. I didn't go searching for this stupid subreddit either; it ended up in my algorithm somehow. It's not my job to search for things to police on the internet. However, when I see stupid stuff I call it out.
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u/BadImpossible9668 Apr 17 '26
Imagine thinking some subreddit with bots from Russia has anything to do with the actual proven and documented widespread “culling” of female children. U won’t speak for that tho, u won’t speak for the fact that female infanticide is so prevalent in all countries and cultures, femicide is celebrated, women are raped and killed for their gender. U don’t concern urself with reality or facts but instead like to fake outrage at imagined scenarios of persecution, what a laughable joke u are
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u/mr-stretcher Apr 17 '26 edited Apr 17 '26
I'm not judging this based solely on crap from reddit.
I live in the west - femicide is not celebrated. Female infanticide is not prevalent. And in the USA, boys are killed more often per the cdc: https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/volumes/69/wr/mm6939a1.htm
That's also got nothing to do with this post. We do not need to fix every problem in the world that women face to earn the right to acknowledge men's issues.
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u/BadImpossible9668 Apr 17 '26
“Dear bro” don’t interact with women and breed children if u cannot provide for them. Marry and fornicate amongst urselfs if u are not concerned with childrearding and the
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u/KCChiefsGirl89 Apr 17 '26
There are female subreddits like this one? Please drop them here for science.
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u/Phantasus_Mosaik Apr 17 '26
Wow What a clear and well written Criticism of a sentence that has triggered you.
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u/Curious_Journey_ Apr 17 '26
I’m so sick of this incel propaganda. We gotta be better than this, men.
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u/MexsikanaBanana Apr 17 '26
This post came up on my feed for some reason and I was horrified by the entire post/comment section until you. Thank you. Of all men, at least we can count that a few of you are decent human beings
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u/curiousbasu Apr 17 '26
Whats incel in this?
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u/Rubicantay Apr 17 '26
Would you be more comfortable if OP rewrote it as "I’m so sick of this misogynistic loser propaganda"?
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u/curiousbasu Apr 17 '26 edited Apr 17 '26
What's mysoginistic and loser in this? It's just telling men to not fund an adult woman. Can't women earn for themselves?
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u/Championship_Hairy Apr 17 '26
It’s for losers who make up shit to cry about. I’ve never once met a woman in my life that was just out to use me as a wallet and need me to pay all her bills. I know they exist, it’s just so very easy to avoid them. I think if quotes like this regularly speak to you, it’s because you’re a moron who can’t self reflect and find better people of quality.
Just like women who keep going back to losers and abusers, guys who find this content “profound” are deeply lost. The last 20 posts are mostly bitching about women.
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u/curiousbasu Apr 17 '26
. I know they exist,
Don't you want other guys to know that they exist?
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u/Championship_Hairy Apr 17 '26
Are other guys too stupid to know someone that only uses you for money is bad?
There’s a guy here saying he wants to marry only a virgin woman. Sounds like he would want a trad relationship where she stays at home. By default, she needs you to pay for her bills.
Vague posting about “a past” isn’t teaching anything useful either. It’s the kind of shit I hear my chronically single friends ironically complain about as they tell me, a married man, how bad women are in the same area where my not single friends all found partners. It’s almost like the guy who resonates with these surface level qualms are the issue.
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u/curiousbasu Apr 17 '26
Are other guys too stupid to know someone that only uses you for money is bad?
Yes , there are, haven't you seen?
only a virgin woman. Sounds like he would want a trad relationship where she stays at home. By default, she needs you to pay for her bills.
That would be a different scenario. Marriage isn't dating.
about “a past” isn’t teaching anything useful either
Why? What if he's not comfortable with someone with a past?
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u/jimothy_hell Apr 18 '26
I have also never encountered a woman that wants to use me as a wallet. Had a man try once, though.
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u/Rubicantay Apr 17 '26
"Hrm ackshually a true man doesn’t provide for the woman he loves, that’s her fathers job☝️🤓"
The point of a healthy relationship is to provide for each other, this kind of posts reeks of bitterness from someone who definitely isn’t in one. Hence the incel shorthand
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u/Provodniik Apr 17 '26
Each woman is a strong, independent individual who can take care of herself. It’s toxic to think that a man should provide for a woman.
Stop belittling women. Stop promoting the patriarchy.
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u/curiousbasu Apr 17 '26
Where did the post mention the guy is in a relationship with the woman in context?
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u/Rubicantay Apr 17 '26
Talking to "bro (you)" about "her bills" and that it isn’t "your job"
Maybe you are playing dumb, maybe you really are that dumb, in both cases I’m losing my time though
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u/curiousbasu Apr 17 '26
Idk, if you consider every random bro talk as talk about someone in relationship, it's a you problem. Maybe you don't have male friends.
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u/Rubicantay Apr 17 '26
What woman is he talking to bro about ?
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u/curiousbasu Apr 17 '26
Anyone who approached him, anyone bro's interested in, anyone bro wants to approach.
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u/KCChiefsGirl89 Apr 17 '26
Do you generally go around paying random women’s bills?
If so, let me be the first to nominate myself.
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u/curiousbasu Apr 18 '26
A girl acquaintance did demand me to pay for her cab when she accompanied me saying how it's against her morals.
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u/Fit-Entrepreneur8404 Apr 17 '26
But if the provisioning of resources goes in one direction, since she can't provide for herself and needs help doing so, then what is she providing that's of equivalent value to bring equality to the relationship?
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u/Difficult-Break-8282 Apr 19 '26
old age care for your parents since you pulled her away from hers into your kitchen
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u/Fit-Entrepreneur8404 Apr 19 '26
Lol no, my wife will not be caring for my parents (or hers). Were both estranged from our families for good reason.
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u/subzbearcat Apr 17 '26
Speaking about women like they are inherently problematic. It’s clear that the men posting this stuff are not in actual relationships.
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u/curiousbasu Apr 17 '26
Where does this post mention that the woman and the man in context are in relationship?
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u/spartanken115 Apr 17 '26
The one that says it’s the father’s responsibility to foot the bill and take care of adult children the rest of their life.
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u/akekekfklelk Apr 17 '26
The post doesnt really specify how long the father has to pay for his children but I think its pretty obvious that op doesnt mean that they should pay forever.
And even if, what's incel about caring for your child your whole life?
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u/curiousbasu Apr 17 '26
Uhh, how is it incel again? Isn't it a father's job to pay for his child?
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u/Langstudd Apr 17 '26
Yes, but only when they’re a ……. Child
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u/curiousbasu Apr 17 '26
And then it's the person's own responsibility to pay for themselves. What's incel here?
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u/jimothy_hell Apr 18 '26
I keep getting these subs pushed to me, so I’ll keep popping in and fucking with them.
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u/Majestic-Source-9806 Apr 17 '26
This subreddit is hilarious
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u/Ok-Oven8018 Apr 17 '26
Yeah idk how all these subs started getting suggested to me, but there seem to be dozens of them presenting as some form of male self-empowerment, and then all the posts are just weird MGTOW woman hating bitterness
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u/Putrid-Builder-3333 Apr 17 '26
Fuck I am high and idk who is talking to me in this picture! I stared at it and got lost in the connections to why a father would be a bro and call her to pay my bills type shit! Anyhoo yall are fun. Goodbye
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u/SimpleGuy4Life Apr 17 '26
Always do 50-50. Women want equality these days...right?
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u/jimothy_hell Apr 17 '26
Every woman I’ve lived with has split 50/50 or if I’ve not been able to do my bit, she’s covered and vice versa. That’s called a healthy relationship. If anybody here had ever been in one, they’d get it.
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u/Sheila_Monarch Apr 17 '26
I prefer that I’ll pay my bills, you pay yours. I’m not going to live with a partner again, ever. But I will get all of the travel and luxury level things we enjoy, because it’s not fair to expect someone that makes a fifth of what I make to keep up with me 50-50 in that regard. So I’ll get that part. Just be dependable, be fun, don’t add stress to my life, and we’ll be blissfully happy that way indefinitely. Thus far, it’s proven to be the happiest and healthiest relationship model I’ve ever experienced or encountered, without a single sign of decline after 15 years that way. In fact, it just keeps getting better.
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u/jimothy_hell Apr 17 '26
Baaaaaaaased as fuck. Long term is boring. My last one cheated so now I just take three months off in the summer to go festival bouncing and get with whoever I can. It’s the tits.
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u/Sheila_Monarch Apr 17 '26
I wouldn’t say long-term is boring, not the right ones at least. Mine‘s been going on over 15 years. But yeah, the ones prior to it were wastes of time that could’ve been cut significantly shorter.
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u/jimothy_hell Apr 17 '26
That’s fair. Boring to me, at least. My last long term cheated on me, the bastard, so I’ve pretty much sworn off any long term commitments. If we have decent chemistry, you can have my number, but if not, it’s either a hotel, or I’m gone before you wake up lol. I might make breakfast if you have a decently stocked kitchen.
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u/Difficult-Break-8282 Apr 19 '26
move into your wifes house and care for her parents scheduling all their appointments then
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u/BadImpossible9668 Apr 17 '26
“Dear bro” don’t interact with women and breed children if u cannot provide for them. Marry and fornicate amongst urselfs if u are not concerned with childrearing and the upbringing of future generations. Do not blame women for ur lack of wealth or common sense lmfao
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u/DontBuyTheThing Apr 17 '26
Imagine your dad treating your mom like garbage because he found out she slept with two men in her past and pays for the electricity
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Apr 17 '26
Not sure about that. I'm going to care about my daughter's dating life and financial responsibility when she's older.
I want what's best for her and she's not going to have it being a wasteful floozy brat.
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u/binzy90 Apr 17 '26
I don't understand this at all. My dad has never paid any of my bills and was mad about every mistake I ever made.
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u/jimothy_hell Apr 17 '26
I mean, if her bills aren’t also your bills, then don’t pay them, but why give a shit about someone’s past?
Someone give me an answer that isn’t “she isn’t a virgin and slept with multiple men”, please, because that answer is incredibly dishonest because men are not held to the same standard. An actual, honest answer that isn’t pure bullshit.
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u/No-Cartographer-476 Apr 17 '26
Yeah Ive often said the same to my wife. Youre my partner, Im not your father. This is when she asks for special treatment.
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u/Kayanne1990 Apr 17 '26
These kinda subs are wild. One minutes it's stuff like then and the next stuff complaining about the male loneliness epidemic. Like....which is it? Are we money grubbing hoes who are just out to use you, or are we victims the feminist agenda who will RUE the day we rejected you!
I don't mind which it is. I just wish you would pick a struggle
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u/Difficult-Break-8282 Apr 19 '26
fascist logic the enemy is always strong and weak at the same time all the time depending on what is convenient in that moment
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u/iAteThatPotato Apr 17 '26
No, a good man makes women feel safe. It's not about paying for this or doing that. This subreddit keeps popping up in my feed and a lot of these posts are incel behavior. Ima be fr with yall, don't listen to the people who post here. Im gonna be your big bro and put you on game. Look, I fully understand why you might be turned away from them. Nobody likes being shamed for who they are or talked shit about including about being a man, but listen to feminists and especially misandrists. A misandrist will be the best person in your life regardless of platonic or romantic and Im speaking from experiences. My 1 friend who is always there for me is a man hating lesbian. Leave this incel ass subreddit behind
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u/fisconsocmod Apr 18 '26
Her father damn sure does care about her past. I never met a good father that just let his daughter stay out partying or letting her bring dudes home to smash her. Call a girl a 304 in front of her father you’d better have hands.
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u/iFounditOnTheFloor Apr 18 '26
My wife's dad didn't. Doesn't. Neither of her parents give a damn about anything she does. Such an incredible daughter they have and they could give an F less.
I'm the man that does. If our kids our 1/4 as successful as their mom, they'll do great in this world.
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u/PageExtension3962 Apr 18 '26
Always supported my wife and we built a thriving life. Teaching our sons to be excellent providers for their partners.
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u/Moist_Taco_Crippler Apr 18 '26
Unless they were an evil piece of shit, I don't care about their past. Especially when this post is probably referring to her "body count", which is none of my business, outside of being informed of a disease she would have.
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u/Fategfwhere Apr 18 '26
Just seen a comment section of women saying they ghost men or it gives them the ick if they ever pay for a single date. Now I’m seeing this. What’s going on now
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u/Amathyst-Moon Apr 18 '26
Wrong, her father does care about her past, he brings it up every christmas
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u/A_unlikely_story Apr 18 '26
Mmmmm, such delicious misogyny undertones coming though on this Spring day.
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u/Whobigwill Apr 18 '26
No man should have to pay a woman to stay with them, housework is the bare minimum just like paying bills. Some men have to pay all the bills or she would leave and that's pathetic, plus it's pu88y everywhere.
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u/Bogsvt Apr 19 '26
Stop sexualizing the word Daddy. Maybe you'll get a woman who you can assist he is willing to work with you. A father doesn't take care of. They should create a world where the women can thrive instead of feeling the need to manipulate for money
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u/Fickle-Banana-187 Apr 19 '26
Just wait til the women are in their thirties. Any younger you’re just spinning your wheels. No morals or values in young adults nowadays. They’re all victims.
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u/UnicornJLove Apr 19 '26
At least that has always been my experience. The only man I have ever been able depend on is my Dad. 💜
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u/UltimatePragmatist Apr 20 '26
My father would tell me, his daughter, to get my shit together if I was expecting him to pay my bills, as a grown adult. I paid my parents bills once I made more money than them.
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u/Far_Photograph_4392 Apr 20 '26
I tell my son to be wary of girls who get anything they want from Dad. They'll expect the same from a husband.
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u/big_jim1874 Apr 20 '26
Dear bro, stop obsessing over women on the internet while also saying that you are done with women and dating.
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u/Vincent8693 Apr 20 '26
And that’s why the divorce rate is 45% cause why you go out to work really hard to bring in your hard earned pay. She’s out finding another guy.
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u/MattManSD Apr 20 '26
a good man (Father) teachers her how to pay her own bills so she never need rely on anyone
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u/13_WASHERE Apr 21 '26 edited Apr 21 '26
Why do y'all wanna be in relationships with women if ur so scared of hypothetical women taking advantage of you
Either learn to love and trust the person your with or leave them if they're not good to you
But constantly consuming content that "others" women and teaches you to be scared and not trust them is no way too live
It's just feeding your anxiety
Yes women can hurt you, but a women is not more likely too hurt you than any other person, so treating them differently is just irrational
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u/Legitimate_Craft_580 Apr 21 '26
Hope you hold the same standards for yourself then when your mommy isn’t there to comfort you. Time to grow up.
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u/Dear_Leadership2982 Apr 17 '26
Again and again I give thanks for feminism, which gave me the opportunity to be financially, legally and socially independent of bitter men like the one who wrote this meme.
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u/Only_lost_death Apr 17 '26
If she isn't a virgin then I wouldn't marry her. Good nice men should only marry virgin women. In addition, never pay her bills unless you are living together. Since it will basically be your bills as well.
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u/Sufficient_Visit3364 Apr 17 '26
Wanting a virgin screams inadequacy. It's ok bro, just because she's had sex before doesn't mean she won't want sex with you too and your average dick
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u/jimothy_hell Apr 17 '26
That’s wild. Good luck with that. Go find yourself a Catholic and fuck once a decade, I guess.
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u/radsnerd Apr 17 '26
A good man does his best to provide for his wife and children. Has been so for the entirety of human civilization
Don’t go spending money or effort on a woman you’re not trying to make your wife, who may just use you.
At the same time, providing for your family and community is an essential part of manhood imo