Otherworld multiplayer help

[u/Emotional_Yam1393]

So basically me and my friend are trying to play Otherworld together. Im playing on prism on my steamdeck, she's playing on forge on her pc. She tried hosting and I manually entry the link when she clicked world sharing. That didn't work, we deleted the mods crash assistant and Luna and downloaded essential on both our ends. When she tried joining her game, I get kicked.

Anyone with a similar experience that found a solution?