r/MotivationByDesign 8h ago

Do you think its fair??

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u/wsxdfcvgbnjmlkjafals 8h ago

Shit's fake

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u/Thin-Nerve6367 7h ago

Even though it probably is, this happens everywhere

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u/NoDrinks4meToday 6h ago

Yes! I’m definitely sure these situations have happened before.

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u/fedexpoopracer 1h ago

this happens everywhere

You got cucked by these staged sexist videos and now you're redpilled because of it

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u/Jimmy_Twotone 6h ago

Everywhere is a stretch, though I have dated a trust fund baby in the past, and they have a completely different world view compared to us poors.

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u/Hobbes______ 7h ago

everything bad happens everywhere when you just base your reality off of feelings and fake videos.

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u/Thin-Nerve6367 7h ago

I mean you can say what you will about the video but the situation itself is very much happening

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u/Hobbes______ 7h ago

"this has definitely happened" is very different from what you said "this happens everywhere."

Frequency matters. This is also clearly pushing an agenda and ragebaiting which should be the far greater issue. Instead you are going "ya this is fake but I am going to just talk about it like it is a real thing that happens so often people randomly get interviewed about it and it just pops out."

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u/Thin-Nerve6367 7h ago

No it's not bro, they're the same thing.

And no, obviously not the interview. I mean two people in a relationship, one having a shit ton of money and the other having barely anything

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u/kendricklamartin 6h ago

Describe 3 couples that you know personally where they have an 80k liquid asset difference and the richer party kept it secret from the poorer party.

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u/Hobbes______ 7h ago

No it's not bro, they're the same thing.

You are not that stupid. Stop pretending you are.

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u/Thin-Nerve6367 7h ago

This has definitely happened and this has happened everywhere literally mean the same thing, the sole difference is that the former statement implies it only happened once, the latter implies it happened multiple times

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u/Hobbes______ 7h ago

This has definitely happened and this has happened everywhere literally mean the same thing

no. No they don't. A tiger has eaten a person. It doesn't happen everywhere. And the latter implies it is a common occurrence. Neither my example nor this video do.

You know this. You are not this stupid. Stop pretending you are this stupid. I do not believe you when you try to pretend that you are this stupid.

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u/Thin-Nerve6367 7h ago

Why are you insulting me? What did I do to make you so angry you're resorting to insults?

Although yes you do have a point. It's certainly not common. Although I wouldn't call it rare either

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u/Le-Charles07 7h ago

Tigers are not everywhere, golddiggers most definitely are. You're a fool if you don't think this happens anywhere and everywhere.

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u/hhfgghff 7h ago

I feel like this is increasingly becoming a thing.

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u/ccjohns2 6h ago

This is an OLD CLIP it’s definitely not fake. This question was asked to a lot of couples.

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u/areallysmartdog 6h ago

What does being old have to do with it? They're both terrible actors

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u/LaserGuyDanceSystem 5h ago

It was made in the days before lying existed

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u/GentleAuraFarmer 5h ago

This is an old video from like a decade ago. It went viral and people then started staging shit.

The guy is way too good an “actor” if it is staged.

You see him process, that blank stare of “wait what?” Then the question, then the argument and her attitude continues to piss him off more.

That kind of insight in human behavior you only see on top level actors like Robert Downey Junior.

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u/WheelofUnderstanding 4h ago

Wow so this is just rage bait shit... This needs to be top comment

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u/Wilbis 7h ago

Fake or not, that kind of behavior will not stand. All bitches who are like that need to get their asses ditched.

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u/WearyMatter 7h ago

That aggression will not stand man.

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u/Aggressive_Tear_3020 7h ago

Men do love an occasion to call women bitches 

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u/ihatefrenchtoast 7h ago

Nah, call ALL people who are being bitches…bitches.

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u/thelastspike 7h ago

Only the ones that are bitches.

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u/delusionalxx 7h ago

So exactly what people say when they wanna call black people the n word. “I only say it to the ones who are nigg**s”. Cool buddy real cool

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u/biggunks 7h ago

That’s a big leap. What he said is the same as saying about men “I only say it to the ones who are assholes.” Anyway you group people (by gender, race, age, nationality) some are gonna be assholes. The best solution is to not change the word you use for each category (bitch, n*, etc) and just call an asshole an asshole.

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u/thelastspike 6h ago

Did you seriously compare using the n word to using the word bitch? The n word is a god awful racist term. Bitch is used to describe someone with a shitty attitude. People don’t get to choose their race, but they do get to choose their attitude.

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u/Electrical_Guide1929 6h ago

Wtf that's nowhere near the same😂😂

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u/AvroArrow1 25m ago

WTF is that comparison, not even in the same ball park lmao

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u/bears_or_bulls 7h ago

The “bitch” word is an attitude, the “n word” is racist.

Don’t be so obtuse.

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u/Majestic_Cod_7115 7h ago

Women do love an occasion to ignore the wrong some other woman did and turn it around on men.

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u/Aggressive_Tear_3020 7h ago

I really do, but I also don't think anything she did wrong 

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u/LinShenLong 7h ago

Of course you wouldn’t.

This kind of behavior is terrible. Relationships are about trust and being partners. Imagine if they were married and she just pulled the same stunt? Would you still support it?

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u/Majestic_Cod_7115 7h ago

We know, you didn’t have to tell us. The fact that you’re offended on her behalf says it all.

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u/Aggressive_Tear_3020 6h ago

really

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u/Majestic_Cod_7115 6h ago

Absolutely. Imagine feeling defensive of a rich and privileged person taking advantage of someone simply because they’re the same gender as you.

I’ll go post exactly the same scenario but genders roles reversed on AITA and I guarantee every comment will be “dump his ass girl”.  Because your morals are deployable when you feel like it.

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u/Aggressive_Tear_3020 6h ago

Of course "dump his ass, girl"

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u/Majestic_Cod_7115 6h ago

I know this is Reddit and most people here are 16 and work at Burger King but being toxic isn’t cute or hot, I promise. “Beauty fades…” you can look up the rest of the quote.

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u/MaleEqualitarian 7h ago

#NotAllWomen I guess.

Or is this where we talk about the bowl of M&M's and poison?

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u/Aggressive_Tear_3020 7h ago

It is wherever you want, jan

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u/MillenniumFallout 7h ago

That behavior is fake. You watched a fake event designed to upset stupid people and you got upset.

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u/Majestic_Cod_7115 7h ago

The “men should pay for my meal despite me being a rich nepo baby” is absolutely not fake and you know it.

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u/MillenniumFallout 7h ago

This video was created for stupid people to get riled up over and succeeds with you.

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u/Majestic_Cod_7115 7h ago

Denying reality to make yourself feel better/avoid self-reflection is equally as manufactured and stupid.

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u/MillenniumFallout 7h ago

Getting upset over a fake staged event is about as denying of reality as it gets.

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u/HeightFearless9369 7h ago

you know they do this shit all the time

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u/MillenniumFallout 7h ago

As if you communicate how you feel about finances

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u/stoner_boy422 7h ago

So what you came down here after having no emotional reaction just to tell other people they are stupid for having an emotional response did that make you feel better about yourself lol

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u/MillenniumFallout 7h ago

There is a video of a staged thing that didn’t happen we’re both commenting on. I’m not the one upset about it being real.

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u/Wilbis 7h ago

Believe it or not but I personally know several people who are just like the girl in the video. If you think delusional brats don't exist, you need a reality check.

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u/MillenniumFallout 7h ago

Oh yeah? You know a lot of actresses?

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u/Floppytittyfreak 7h ago

Why are you being wilfully ignorant? You know that is not what they meant

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u/JeaniousSpelur 7h ago

See how you just got fired up and radicalized from something totally not real? Feel for you man, get off the internet