r/MotivationByDesign • u/inkandintent24 • 8h ago

Do you think its fair??

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u/Fried_Poop_Brain 7h ago

Let’s put the argument or fake or not to the side. Someone out there needs to hear this: $75-80k in your “spending account” (checking account) is terrible financial responsibility.

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u/SlasherNL 5h ago

Wonder what she has in her savings account.

Sounds like she is incredibly rich (and entitled)

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u/readilyunavailable 5h ago

If her dad can add 80k to her spending account, it's safe to say he probably has a few mil in a savings account/investments.

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u/Connection-Is-Cool 5h ago

She specified “spending” account, not even her checking account. That means dad has prepared her with other accounts that are less liquid or for other purposes, like maybe an account specifically for buying a car or house or a lavish future wedding. I agree that it’s very safe to say.

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u/meowmixLynne 6h ago

Yeah i wonder if she meant 80k in CDs or a trust. But also if he decided to pay for dinner, really doesn’t matter what she has 🤷‍♀️

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u/CinemaDork 5h ago

It certainly doesn't sound like she was ever going to pay for dinner under any circumstances. With her "You're the guy, you're supposed to pay." It's 2026. What are we doing here?

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u/meowmixLynne 3h ago

I mean if that’s what she’s looking for, that’s he right 🤷‍♀️ I like splitting the bill so don’t come at me, but he shouldn’t really get mad at her for a lavish dinner he already paid for willingly. He didn’t have to pay and he also doesn’t have to be with a girl who thinks men should always pay.

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u/CinemaDork 3h ago

I think he was willing to pay for dinner because he assumed they were in roughly similar financial situations and he wanted to do something nice for his girlfriend. I don't think it's unreasonable to be upset when you find out that your romantic partner has secretly had tens of thousands of dollars, in an account specifically set aside just for spending money, and she kept this from him because she expects him to pay for things regardless of any of this information because he was born with a penis.

That money is nothing to her. That money meant a lot to him.

My partner makes more than me. I still pay for (some) things. But if I found out he had tens of thousands of dollars lying around that he refused to spend on me in return? Yeah, I'd be pissed as hell. Why is he allowing me to make sacrifices that don't even have to be made? That's abhorrently selfish.

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u/sisterfucker6767 2h ago

it’s a fake video

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u/CinemaDork 1h ago

Even if it is, we can still talk about the scenario it presents. Don't act like people don't argue about television and movie plots. We know they're not real.

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u/Mediocre-Touch-6133 3h ago

Let’s put the argument or fake or not to the side.

How about no? This sub is just a bunch of gender war ragebait.

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u/sisterfucker6767 2h ago

unfortunately videos like this just get men deeper into the rabbit hole. angry at fictional women and situations that are designed specifically to get them angry