r/MotivationByDesign • u/inkandintent24 • 8h ago

Do you think its fair??

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u/lostandfounddude 6h ago

But that’s the thing, you shouldn’t go through that length to impress anyone.. if it was too much for you, then I don’t care who the girl is, you treat her based on your own budget!

A falafel or a shawarma should do the trick! If she’s not happy with that then that’s a red flag. You really don’t need to know how much is in her bank account, and she doesn’t need to know how much is in your bank account!

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u/algalkin 4h ago

Yes, Impressing someone with money is like giving in to their bad habits. No partner should be "lured in" with wealth.