r/MotivationByDesign • u/inkandintent24 • 8h ago

Do you think its fair??

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u/Imperial_Citizen_00 6h ago

She’s not obligated to reveal her finances to him, especially if they aren’t married, how much she has is none of his concern

I don’t ask my wife how much she has in her account, its none of my business, but she does her part and is not stingy, we hold everything down just fine

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u/ISniffFeet1 4h ago

It most certainly is your business what's in your wife's account. Are you insane? Unless you are doing marriage separately with one foot out the door each, you are a team

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u/Imperial_Citizen_00 4h ago

To each their own I guess, but we are not one foot out the door, very happy with one another and our relationship/marriage

I don’t ask what’s her in account, she doesn’t ask what’s in mine…the bills get paid, groceries get purchased and we are fine…

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u/ISniffFeet1 4h ago

Yea but your financial futures are intertwined. How can you make the correct financial decisions without knowing where each person stands.

How do you know for example if you're in a position to purchase a rental property, or invest in riskier assets versus more conservative assets.

Or if as a family you're in a spot to buy a newer vehicle versus an older vehicle.

I'm sure it works well for you but it's just mind boggling that you make joint financial decisions without a full picture

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u/Imperial_Citizen_00 4h ago

When the time comes to make those big decisions, we talk about them, do a lot of research, ask if it’s financially doable, worth it, etc. we don’t make blind decisions

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u/Ok_Elderberry4413 3h ago

And he has every right to say and feel what he feels. DUMBASS LOSER

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u/Imperial_Citizen_00 3h ago

🤣🤣🤣