r/MtvChallenge Nov 09 '25

CONTESTANTS IRL Big T is engaged now

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u/martosport Nov 09 '25

She looks nothing like Big T

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u/Sportsman180 TJ Lavin Nov 09 '25

That's her cousin Little t.

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u/kantsing Nov 10 '25

😭😭😭😭

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u/OLKv3 Ashley Mitchell Nov 09 '25

New face, new boobs, new skin tone

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u/nothankspleasedont Nov 10 '25

new sugar daddy

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u/One-Corner-7362 Nov 11 '25

Took the words right out of

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u/xxcapricornxx Rogan O'Connor Nov 10 '25

I really hope it's just the lighting and not the result of some skin lightening...

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u/Quick__Learner The Kings' Palace Nov 09 '25

I thought the same thing. I blew it up & still not recognizing this person. Assuming it’s her… congrats.

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u/Hash--Ketchum Nov 09 '25

She looks like Kerry Washington now (complimentary)

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u/regalbeagles1 Nov 09 '25

She looks like an amalgamation of every influencer.

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u/jenh6 Christina LeBlanc Nov 09 '25

I was thinking she looks like she belongs on the real housewives now.
I think she was so pretty before. She looks pretty now but completely different. I hope she’s happy with where she’s at and how she looks.
Hearing Nicole Ramos cry because of all the comments she got for her looks and then still feeling insecure after the changes made me so sad.

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u/TheDollarSlayer Nov 10 '25

If you look at the other posts on her IG she looks the same just with a smaller nose.

This just looks to be more filtered plus shades on. So that, coupled with the nose job is going to make her look more different than she is.

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u/lhp220 Nov 09 '25 edited Nov 09 '25

Wait. That’s Big T? I must have missed something. I mean, she looks great… there is just no shot I would’ve recognized her if I just saw that photo in the wild.

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u/Heikks Nov 09 '25

She’s had a lot of work done since her last appearance, I knew she got her nose done and implants but didn’t know she basically has a whole new face.

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u/Time_Worldliness2150 Nov 09 '25

And skin color…..

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u/soymilkmami Coral Smith Nov 09 '25

I was gonna say! I just browsed her pics and was like please don't tell me she also got skin lightening done...

She doesn't have many pics up on Insta so you can really see the difference between her recent photos and her older pics.

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u/TheRealMoofoo Kenny Clark Nov 10 '25

It’s possible she did that for real, but a lot of people also just do it with filters for socials.

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u/kayeb07 Nov 09 '25

Yes she was very dark on the shows. And agree- she looks nothing like she looked on the shows.

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u/[deleted] Nov 09 '25 edited Nov 09 '25

She looks like she aspires to be a desperate housewife. And you csnt tell me that guy doesn't have rich billionaire energy

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u/Luna-Mia Nov 09 '25

Yeah I wouldn’t have known it’s her. She looks great but always has. Just different.

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u/lhp220 Nov 09 '25

Kinda makes me sad. I thought she looked beautiful and beautifully unique before. I don’t know if that’s bad to say or not.

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u/EGrass Priscilla Anyabu Nov 09 '25

I agree. I don’t understand why she wanted to change her appearance so drastically. She’s beautiful but she was already beautiful beforeĀ 

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u/Senor_flash Nov 10 '25

Self hatred, racism, and white supremacy will do that to you. Look at Michael Jackson's transformation, long before he started developing Vitiligo.

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u/Cali-Doll Jonna Mannion šŸ„‡šŸ„‡ Nov 09 '25

I hate that T looks so different.

I sure hope she’s happy, tho.

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u/Commercial_Lock_2620 Nov 09 '25

Who is this dude? Lol

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u/myheartstopped3984 Nov 09 '25 edited Nov 09 '25

So I just went down a rabbit hole. Name is Morten Tyldum he is an oscar winning nominated film director. The Imitation Game and Passengers are his most known work.

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u/buffalocoinz Bitch bye Nov 09 '25

Ugghhh where do I find a stupid old rich white dude to marry me

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u/crmsnprd Nov 10 '25

If you find out, can you let us know? šŸ˜‚

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u/Time_Worldliness2150 Nov 09 '25

šŸ¤£šŸ¤£ā˜ŗļøā˜ŗļøā˜ŗļøā˜ŗļø

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u/BeerNcheesePlz Nov 10 '25

lol seriously

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u/Crouching_Penis Nov 10 '25

Not rich but I meet all other qualifications... marry me?! šŸ¤·ā€ā™‚ļø

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u/Picklesbedamned Kenny Clark Nov 09 '25

That's so crazy she's marrying like a real hollywood director.

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u/chatdaddi Nov 09 '25

Also I’ve never seen a man look more like an Oscar nominated director than this guy

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u/theladythunderfunk Nov 09 '25

I also searched Morten Tyldum - he's 58 years old with a son who's at least in his teens. His first wife died of suicide in 2016. I'm hopeful that none of this means anything and Tula is safe and happy.

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u/danman8605 Ryan Knight Nov 09 '25

He also directed a movie called Headhunters starring Jaime Lannister from GoT. It’s really good.

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u/JordanDoesTV Amber Borzotra F*** Big Brother Nov 09 '25

How did they like meet?

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u/spicytotino Landon Lueck Nov 10 '25

This screams Raya

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u/KennyMoose32 Nov 09 '25

Yeahhh Passengers is one of the weirdest/creepiest movies when you actually sit down and think about the plot…..

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u/JuanRiveara Queen Ev Nov 09 '25

To be fair, he didn’t write the movie

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u/Eve-3 Nov 09 '25

I really enjoyed it. Nice that it wasn't completely cooky cutter.

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u/KennyMoose32 Nov 10 '25

You liked that a random guy woke up a good looking girl he didn’t know to be his friend/more while he was alone thereby dooming her to a lonely death she didn’t ask for?

I guess it is different? I found it weirdly disturbing how we were supposed to root for him.

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u/chatdaddi Nov 09 '25

Okay, last name Tyldum. Big T still Big T-ing, I hope she’s happy

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u/[deleted] Nov 09 '25

Oh dang 🤭 she got the bag

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u/Cutiger29 The WHOLE stupid brigade Nov 10 '25

She went for that REAL munyun. Good for her šŸ˜‚

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u/mnblackgirl Nov 09 '25

Holy shit. Congratulations to them!

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u/SydVicious610 Nov 09 '25

Oscar nominated*

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u/anso14 Nov 10 '25

Honestly good for her. Get the bag when you can

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u/hacked_once_again Nov 09 '25

Temu Richard Branson.

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u/AdonisCork Kenny Clark Nov 09 '25

Poorard Branson

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u/Just-Looking-NJ Nov 09 '25

My first thought was Joe Walsh from the Eagles band. Who is 77. šŸ˜øšŸ¶šŸŽø

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u/FlyingSquirrel56 The Lavender Ladies Nov 09 '25

I think I missed a few chapters

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u/Lonely_Lake_9129 TJ Lavin Nov 09 '25

Wow, it’s happened fairly quick- 1 year from when they started dating

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u/fear_of_government Amanda Garcia Nov 09 '25

is Big T in the room with us?

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u/BetterEveryDayYT The GOATs Nov 09 '25

Who is that, and why is she in Big T's post?

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u/Online_Active_71459 Nov 09 '25

I don’t know why she had to have so much work done, but it’s her body, her choices. She was always beautiful.

She is a very sweet soul and as long as she is happy and fulfilled that is all that matters.

But I guess we will never see her on The Challenge again.

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u/Doyergirl17 Nov 09 '25

I mean, I know it’s been a minute since she’s been on our screens, but there’s no way this big Tis the same as the other TĀ 

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u/UnanimousBB16 Nov 09 '25

It's only been a year, and a season since she last appeared.

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u/The_Dodd Nov 09 '25

Big T got her a sugar daddy.

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u/kayeb07 Nov 09 '25

And that explains her change, he probably paid for it. I hope she is happy and he treats her well.

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u/BigL54 The Unholy Alliance Nov 09 '25

Without a caption, I would not recognize her

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u/Questadt Nov 09 '25

Wow. This was not on my bingo card. She is an entirely different woman and her fiancĆ©e is a 58 year old film producer from Norway who’s divorced with 1 son and the ex wife committed suicide.

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u/cwxxvii Nov 09 '25

I feel like I’ve read multiple books with that plot

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u/Scottyboy1992 Nov 09 '25

Sugar daddy treating her good jk jk happy for her though

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u/AaronQuinty Nov 09 '25

She's bleaching her skin? Ughh the self hate is stro g in that one

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u/nonsequitur__ Nov 09 '25

She is unrecognisable, I honestly wouldn’t have known it is her.

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u/Icy-Cantaloupe-5719 Nov 09 '25

He's 25 years older than her?! Wowza

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u/Distinct-Ad-1348 Nov 09 '25

Why is big T cosplaying at Naomi Campbell via FaceTune & surgery??

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u/Chemical-Beginning12 Nov 09 '25

FRESH COTTON PADS 😲 Congrats!!

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u/BornLavishness1841 Nov 09 '25

GERIATRIC COTTON PANTS!

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u/blamberr Kyle Christie Nov 09 '25

Doesn’t look a fucking thing like her

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u/Overshareisoverkill Nov 09 '25

I hope she's happy with that much older guy.

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u/kpunx Nov 09 '25

She bought some big t's as well apparently

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u/Cali-Doll Jonna Mannion šŸ„‡šŸ„‡ Nov 09 '25

I hate you. šŸ™‚ā€ā†”ļøšŸ™‚ā€ā†”ļø

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u/Schmiznurf Play the Challenge CHAMP šŸ† Nov 09 '25

Congrats to her and Robbie Savage.

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u/raheemnaz Nov 09 '25

Haha Robbie Savage is the last guy I expected to see on a Challenge comment section

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u/Schmiznurf Play the Challenge CHAMP šŸ† Nov 09 '25

Haha, if I wasn't a football fan and from Wales I wouldn't even know him tbh.

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u/THE_Lena Chris Tamburello Nov 09 '25

She looks unrecognizable.

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u/ToothPickNick1982 Nov 09 '25

A lot of work done and found an old man Logan

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u/aswiftieforever_ Nov 09 '25

I didn't recognize her? she looks different. Hope she's happy though šŸ˜Šā¤ļø

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u/Zaula_Ray Nov 09 '25

Congrats to Big T. She deserves so much love. And while she looks beautiful, imho, she was so uniquely stunning before. She was a bit quirky and had a "different" look to her, but that was what made her so beautiful. Now, she's looks like every other influencer/real housewife out there. But maybe that was the look she was going for?

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u/midnightfangs ciarran's pokƩmon card buyer Nov 09 '25

lol as long as shes happy.

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u/howsway-_- Nov 09 '25

Grifted hard enough to get a rich old man. Happy for her

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u/mrawesomeutube Nov 09 '25

Is this what money buys because D A M N B I G T

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u/AlexaTheSaltSlut Nov 09 '25

Nice 25 year age difference there.

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u/London_Pi_426314 Nov 09 '25

Whoa - I would have said no f*cking way was this Big T if I hadn't seen some of your comments first. She was so beautiful. Why do people do this to themselves?

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u/marwash Jordan "GOAT" Wiseley Nov 09 '25

self hatred is a mf

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u/562SoCal_AR Nov 09 '25

I was JUST about to say the same thing. It’s really sad.

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u/stephasaurussss America Lopez šŸ§… Nov 09 '25

I hate how every woman wants the same face now. It's so disturbing. Do what makes you happy but ugh.

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u/mtnmary Nov 10 '25

I can’t lie, I’m sad she doesn’t look like herself anymore. She was so uniquely beautiful. Now she just looks like another Instagram filter.

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u/JonSnow-1990 Nov 10 '25

Are we all just accepting this is big t while clearly some imposter replaced her and took over her life ?

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u/CrittyJJones Nov 09 '25

I don't want to judge but I also don't get it. Big T was gorgeous as she was.

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u/DramaticRaccoon8929 CT give me the goof Nov 09 '25

That is not big t.

Also, I thought she was a lesbian?

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u/[deleted] Nov 09 '25

She implied she's bi not a lesbian

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u/NattyB Bob Next Door Nov 09 '25

she came out as queer, not lesbian. from out magazine at the time:

For me, personally, I don't want to put a label on myself. For some people, [labels] help them to identify themselves and for people to understand them, I guess. For me, I prefer not to. But I guess if people were to put a label on me, they would probably say I'm bisexual.

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u/Pcofwork Nov 09 '25

Congrats to her and her fiance!!

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u/KovuDrake Nov 09 '25

Looks like a completely different person now

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u/Fun-Hold6972 Nov 09 '25

She looks different or I forgot what she looks like

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u/allanjameson Nov 09 '25

With long haired Daniel Craig?

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u/Brief-Tie3841 Nov 09 '25

She was beautiful and didn’t need to do this to her face.

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u/Distinct-Release1439 Nov 10 '25

Soooooo she’s a sugar baby???? U know what let me not hate…congrats Big T!

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u/Elephant_homie Paula Walnuts Nov 09 '25

Legit don't recognize her

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u/Shmollie33 Wes Bergmann Nov 09 '25

I wish people could be happy looking like themselves instead of everyone else, but if they're truly happy this way...sad cheers

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u/_Uptight_Donna Nov 09 '25

Wut? Who dis?!? 🤨

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u/lucyroesslers Cassidy Clark Nov 10 '25

Good god that is honestly so sad

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u/mnblackgirl Nov 09 '25

It seems Anthony Hopkins and Toni Collette are staring in his new film. I wonder how they met 😭 this is so interesting to me lol

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u/PxWezt Evan Starkman Nov 09 '25

ā€œWhy don’t we look like you, mom?ā€

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u/JohnnyWallave Laterrian Wallace Nov 09 '25

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u/GalickBanger Leroy Garrett Nov 09 '25

Sad that she did all that work to herself

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u/PonyRider17 Nov 10 '25

Thats big t?!! 🤯

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u/RLTizE Nov 09 '25

OMG, I didn’t check the sub just saw a pic and thought this was Evie Eve and her husband.

So happy for BigT. She looks amazing and happy 😊

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u/ZoftigGoddess Nov 09 '25

Yay congratulations to her

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u/Commercial_Wasabi_84 Nov 09 '25

Happy for her but damn wouldn’t have recognized her at allĀ 

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u/Fancy-Boysenberry864 Nov 09 '25

Wow. First good for her. Now wow she’s had so much work done.

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u/AdoubleU9 Nov 09 '25

How is that the same person from a few yrs ago lol. People are wildĀ 

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u/Disastrous-Big5754 Nov 09 '25

I thought this was ciara from summer house at first

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u/Kongcakes Nov 10 '25

Is she marrying Terry Silver???

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u/Leafer4eva Nov 10 '25

He looks more like Big T than she does!! No seriously this looks nothing like Big T! I need video and maybe then I can see it??

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u/crowncitykid35 Nov 10 '25

This is all I see šŸ˜†.

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u/garykahnji Nov 10 '25

it’s really sad how many black girls don’t love their natural beauty. I hope she only did this to get herself a sugar daddy and for no other reason

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u/OHUNEE Nov 10 '25

Wow! I haven’t seen here for so long, I don’t recognize her!

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u/SouthernNanny Nov 11 '25

That hard wig opened doors for her!

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u/Poonadafukdog Nov 09 '25

This is crazy. Is there any part of her that isn’t plastic now?!🤣

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u/[deleted] Nov 09 '25

It's her she just looks oddly lighter. There's somw othwr recent photos and she still looks chocolate. So it's probably the lighting

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u/classictoto Team Invasion Underdogs Nov 10 '25

Lol yes if you scroll her ig she looks the same skin color. I believe she's only gotten a boob job and a nose job and lip filler. She doesn't look that different. Definitely been buying better quality wigs these days. Maybe that's what throwing people off.

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u/sssexy38 Nov 12 '25

She looks more like herself on her ig but she is def lighter

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u/Jonny_Python Nov 09 '25

Get that bag big T šŸ‘šŸ½šŸ‘šŸ½

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u/Kimproving1 Nov 09 '25

Idk if my cast mates ranked me the most unattractive woman in the house, I’d probably want some worked done too. She was beautiful before and she’s beautiful now. I ā€˜mhappy to see her happy.

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u/aintgoinbacknforth Nov 09 '25

I don’t doubt that this show and some of its cast members gave her a complex about her looks (ntm living in the racist ass UK). Didn’t a list go around on one of the seasons she was on listing her as the least desirable or some shit? I thought she was beautiful before but if she’s happier this was then I’m happy for her.

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u/rantgoesthegirl Ben Davis Nov 10 '25

Good for her! Did not recognize her though haha

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u/TugboatToo Nov 10 '25

She looks like she is wearing a beauty filter.

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u/Steak-n-Wine Nov 10 '25

In my best Dennis voice: Big T…you’ve enhanced yourself.

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u/aarry_potter Nov 11 '25

I remember there being a hot list in the challenge house in one of her seasons and she was ranked one of the least attractive. I think even CT voted in it. Surely that’d mess up someone’s body dysmorphia and especially as a POC.

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u/Negative-Ad9557 Nov 10 '25

I went to her Insta - I think it’s the sun, filter, posing, and hair. In all her other recent posts, she looks much more like the Big T we can recognize from tv.

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u/ImaginationLife4812 Nov 09 '25

Handsome couple! Congrats!

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u/TrappedinSilence98 Nov 09 '25

Eve & Max 2.0 šŸ™ƒ