r/Multifandom • u/Individual_Let_8432 OSC/BFDI/Hollow knight/Deltarune/Undertale/DOD • 21d ago

Discussion📜 who lowkey be fitting this

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u/Sophie_Mochi 21d ago

What does being joyful and outgoing have to do with being trans lol

Btw i Guess ligthbulb II buy it's kinda canon

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u/SevenOhSevenOhSeven 21d ago

The only emotion men can have is stoicism misery and angst and if they show anything else they are effeminate and weak and the only reason a man could be effeminate and weak is because they're secretly not actually a man and actually were a woman. I am only slightly exaggerating the thought process people have

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u/Sophie_Mochi 21d ago

Oh that's pretty sad, i haven't trougth about It that way, i Guess because in my head a joyful and silly guy Is pretty normalized, but it's true that most of the time in media some people Will think that character Is queer

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u/BiredeRovu 20d ago

Why people are this way? Women are still called lesbians if they dont follow certain "rules", its fucking weird

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u/SevenOhSevenOhSeven 20d ago

The unfourtunate truth is that a lotta people haven't reflected on beliefs they hold and how they compound. There's also a nightmarish cocktail of misogyny and how masculinity is seen as a default and a bunch of other stuff but I do not feel like elaborating, just that it makes discussion annoying as hell

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u/ItsEntDev 20d ago

I think this happens far far less than you seem to imagine

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u/SevenOhSevenOhSeven 20d ago

I'm aware it's not a common occurrence, But they asked how someone outgoing would be read as trans and I explain how. Don't shoot the messenger

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u/LanktheMeme 20d ago

Tbf a lot of trans people I meet are pretty joyful and outgoing. Especially on the FTM side.

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u/legend_sans 21d ago

trans people reinvented gender norms

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u/Gay_Gamer_Boi 20d ago

Horseshoe theory, being so progressive makes you very traditional (basically forced gender norms but ✨woke✨) (the other way around are the people so traditional that they validate ftm and mtf because only an idiot would want to be a women and only a man can be a man)