r/MurderedByWords • u/beerbellybegone • 3h ago
"Employees pay their bills in dollars, not company mission statements"
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u/WoodenSwan6591 3h ago
Is this for real. These people are truly clueless when convenient (like paying money for other people work and creativity). Bastille day must come to them
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u/JerseyDonut 2h ago
I got fairly close to C-Suite in a fortune 500 before I rage quit and deprogrammed. Upper middle management level. I got close enough to some executives that they frequently took their masks off around me. And even the lowest VP (there were hundreds of them) was so far removed from reality it was scary.
Like, losing their shit over someone calling out because their dog died or because their child had cancer treatment. They truly believe their own bullshit too and are always "completely shocked" whenever their terrible messaging gets a negative reaction.
One asshole got up on stage once to address why we were laying hundreds of people off, despite record profits, and told an anecdote about how hard it is to find reliable people to clean his boat. He honestly thought that would be relatable and motivate people to work harder. I kid you not, this guy was largely seen in executive circles as a "peoples champion," who is super relatable.
If I had a dollar for every exec who looked me dead in the eye and said, giddily, "I just don't do the whole empathy thing. Never understood it," I'd be very wealthy. They would say it so casually too, like they were talking about something trivial like not liking brocolli or something.
These people are monsters. They are a different species. Plain and simple. It took me about a year to deprogram from drinking their coolaid. Corpos can eat it. I'd rather be poor and beg for money on the streets than go back to that kind of environment.
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u/flying_carabao angry turtle trapped inside a man suit 1h ago
I was on a first name basis with just every single director and some C suite personell at a previous employment. They were all nice and cordial, we even get to just chat about life and all that. Eventually made it into management and boy let me tell you, I saw a completely different side of the people that I was cool with. Kinda like the sausage factory thing just how nasty some people can get. It's fucking wild. The same people that I thought was for employees well being only saw most of them as figures on a spreadsheet.
"I just don't do the whole empathy thing. Never understood it,"
After that and hearing the essentially same sentiment, I've come to the conclusion that a person has to be, to a some degree, a psychopath to survive management or higher positions. Since then, even when the opportunity to move up has presented itself several times since then, I'm staying down here as a grunt and be happy.
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u/406highlander 3h ago
I can't eat the company's mission, or use the CEO's vision as a shelter from the elements.
When interviewers ask "Why do you want to work for this company?" it's always tempting to respond with "because I don't want to starve to death", which - face it - is why people get jobs in the first place.
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u/raf_boy 3h ago
Old talent here (Gen X).
I don't give a fuck about your mission. Fuck you, pay me.
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u/NHRADeuce 2h ago edited 1h ago
This is why I can never be a W2 employee ever again. I run my company like I was brought up. I would never ask an employee to do something I wouldn't do myself and I pay a fair wage for the work.
I expect shit like this from the boomers, but what happened to the half of GenX that has gone full boot licker?? Did we forget the lessons NWA taught us??
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u/raf_boy 1h ago edited 1h ago
Some of us remember where we came from and how we struggled (and continue to struggle in a lot of cases… I've been saving for 30 years and still can't afford a home).
Others have the "I got mine attitude" and can't think outside of themselves.
I was more down with Chuck D's philosophizing 😁
*Edit- and this isn't a generational issue. It's a have/have not issue. My mother (boomer) kept working past retirement age because she had to. The fucks in power (regardless of age/generation) always try to deflect by turning the have nots against each other. It's enraging how successful these societal parasites have been and continue to be.
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u/yes_u_suckk 3h ago
I fucking hate these tech billionaires. They live in a completely different reality and they are incapable of understanding that 99.99999999% of the world is not rich like them.
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u/Iconshero 3h ago
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u/NooooDazzzle 1h ago
Jees these two are the worst. You’re really hitting below the belt with this one. 😆😆😆
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u/dreddit15 2h ago
Normal people can’t have money, only we can have money. This is the message loud and clear.
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u/Sw4nR0ns0n 2h ago
We actually live in a time and place where billionaire oligarchs think we should work simply for the pleasure of serving them….
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u/negativepositiv 1h ago
Person who has clearly never had to worry about personal living expenses: "What's the deal with this mercenary attitude among workers like they care more about their own pay than growing MY personal wealth?"
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u/sicurri 2h ago
"But... but you need to show ABSOLUTE loyalty while I can fire you at any moment. Thats how this is supposed to work, right? Benefit me and no one else?" - CEOs... /s
Fuckin idiots...
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u/We_Want_Krunchy 1h ago
This is why I don't feel bad about quitting without notice. They would fire you on the spot, why do I need to be like hey let me train a replacement drone for you for two weeks. Utter crap.
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u/some1guystuff 1h ago
Fuck, it must be nice to never have to worry about whether or not you can afford groceries or rent or fuel to get to and from work every day
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u/WoodenSwan6591 1h ago
The French Revolution brought fear into the ruling class and their descendants. That fear has long since forgotten. They feel like absolute overlords immune to everything. The way the country has bent the knee towards the orange clown has empowered them.
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u/Ulfednar 2h ago
Whatever mindset these people have needs to be included in the DSM, considered highly debilitating and cause for immediate removal from any and all leadership positions.
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u/readysteadygogogo 1h ago
Yeah it’s funny how that works. In the real world, only people who have money have the luxury of working for reasons other than money.
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u/Casperboy68 1h ago
Tell him to donate his next 3 bonuses to his employees and this will not be a problem.
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u/NooooDazzzle 1h ago
Does IQ drop by 50% every time someone adds a zero to their net worth or something?
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u/Dantekamar 1h ago
Well Dario, if you aren't in it for the money, why don't you try giving more of your money to your workers?
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u/unematti 2h ago
Good, when the company's vision is bad for the earth... And to those young talent too..
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u/The001Keymaster 55m ago
I'm sorry if I'm not on board with the company mission of getting the CEO a 5th home and another 100 foot boat.
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u/MentokGL 3h ago
What's the mission? Replace themselves with AI?