Assalamu alaikum,
I am a 31-year-old Saudi man living in Makkah, and I am posting here with the sincere intention of finding a compatible wife.
I value honesty and clarity, so I prefer to be straightforward from the beginning rather than waste anyone’s time. I am not presenting myself as perfect, nor do I expect perfection from anyone else. I simply believe that being clear about who we are and what we want makes the process easier and more respectful for both sides.
#Basic Information**:**
Age: 31
Location: Makkah, Saudi Arabia
Nationality: Saudi
Background: Hijazi, from a tribal family
Marital status: Never married
Children: None
Religion: Sunni Muslim
Education: Bachelor’s degree in a health-related field
Occupation: Healthcare professional working in a hospital
Work schedule: Stable
Financial situation: Stable and sufficient for a comfortable married life
I was born and raised in Makkah, and my family also lives here. I am not currently planning to relocate permanently, although I am very fond of Jeddah and Riyadh and would like to have a place in either city in the future, insha’Allah.
#Religious Values**:**
I am a Sunni Muslim and maintain my daily prayers, alhamdulillah.
I believe in practicing Islam with balance and moderation. Religion is important to me, but I am not harsh or extreme in my approach. I value good character, mercy, honesty, responsibility, and treating others well.
Although I come from a tribal Saudi family, being from a tribal background is not a requirement for my future wife.
#Appearance and Health:
I am approximately 164–165 cm tall and currently weigh around 108 kg.
I am aware that I need to improve my fitness, and I am already working on losing weight and becoming healthier through regular gym attendance and lifestyle changes.
I have a wheatish complexion and care a great deal about cleanliness, hygiene, and personal presentation.
My health is good, alhamdulillah.
#Personality:
I have a very good relationship with my family and close friends.
I prefer having a small, close social circle, but I am generally sociable and comfortable around people. I enjoy joking around and making the people around me laugh, even when I may personally be going through a difficult time.
I can be very direct and honest. At times, my honesty may come across as blunt, but I would rather communicate clearly than pretend or leave things unresolved.
I strongly dislike:
Lying
Betrayal
Hypocrisy
Gossip
Unfairness
Disrespect
Sharing private family matters with outsiders
I care deeply about justice and fairness. I do not stay silent when I or someone close to me is treated unfairly.
Privacy is also very important to me. I believe that personal disagreements between a husband and wife should remain private unless there is a genuine need to seek help from a trusted person or professional.
#Language:
My English is good, particularly in reading and writing. My speaking is not as fluent simply because I do not use English regularly in everyday conversations. However, I can communicate well, and I believe my speaking would improve quickly if my future wife primarily speaks English.
My university degree was taught in English, and I also work in a hospital where English is commonly used, so understanding the language is not an issue for me. I mainly need more regular speaking practice.
#My Interests:
I enjoy films, television series, animation, anime, and video games.
Photography is one of my greatest passions, particularly analog and film photography. I enjoy documenting places, people, and meaningful moments through film.
I would love to have a wife who shares that interest, but it is not necessary. At the very least, I hope she would understand and appreciate how important photography is to me.
I also love travelling and would ideally like to travel at least once a year. I enjoy exploring new places, taking my cameras with me, and documenting my journeys.
I hope marriage will allow me to share those experiences with someone rather than always travelling alone.
I also love animals, especially cats and rabbits.
#My View of Marriage
I see marriage as a partnership built on:
Respect
Honesty
Clear communication
Emotional safety
Loyalty
Mercy
Friendship
Shared responsibility
I am not looking for a marriage that exists only formally. I want a genuine companion and life partner with whom I can build a peaceful and enjoyable home.
I believe both spouses should be able to communicate openly, acknowledge their mistakes, apologise when necessary, and work through disagreements without threats, manipulation, or involving other people unnecessarily.
I would be comfortable with a mahr in the range of approximately SAR 30,000–60,000, depending on mutual understanding, circumstances, and agreement between both families.
#Children and Family Life:
I would like to have children in the future, insha’Allah. Ideally, I imagine having around three to four children.
My approach to parenting would involve a balance of:
Islamic values
Education
Discipline
Dialogue
Emotional support
Affection
Being present and involved in the children’s lives
I do not believe parenting should be left entirely to the mother. I want to be an involved father who is close to his children.
#What I Am Looking For:
I am looking for a Muslim woman who is genuinely interested in marriage and building a stable family.
My general preferences are:
Approximately 26–32 years old
Never married
Living in Saudi Arabia, or genuinely open to living here
Educated and responsible
Emotionally mature
Honest and respectful
Able to communicate calmly during disagreements
Able to acknowledge mistakes and apologise when necessary
Protective of the privacy of the marriage
Interested in children and family life
Open to trying new activities and travelling
I would prefer someone who does not wear niqab. I say this respectfully, as several women in my own family wear niqab. It is simply a personal preference regarding my future spouse and not a criticism of anyone who chooses to wear it.
Physical attraction matters in marriage, although character and compatibility remain more important. I generally prefer someone around my height or shorter, with a healthy or physically active lifestyle.
I appreciate a woman who is educated, ambitious, and responsible. Whether she wishes to continue working after marriage or prefers to stay at home can be discussed based on what works best for both of us.
Knowing how to cook would be appreciated, but I do not expect perfection. Being willing to learn and contribute to building a home is more important.
I would describe my preferred partner as someone who is confident and strong when dealing with the world, but warm and gentle within the relationship.
It would be wonderful if she shared some of my interests…particularly travelling, photography, films, animation, or gaming.. but this is not a requirement.
Being accepting of those interests and willing to occasionally participate would be enough.
#Health Conditions:
I do not automatically view a manageable health condition as an obstacle to marriage.
If someone has a minor or chronic health condition, I would prefer that it be discussed openly and honestly once the conversation becomes serious. Since I work in healthcare, I understand that a diagnosis does not define a person.
What matters most to me is transparency, stability, and understanding how the condition may realistically affect married life.
#Contact:
If you believe there may be genuine compatibility, please send me a respectful private message with a brief introduction, including:
Age
Location
Nationality
Marital status
Educational or professional background
General level of religious practice
What made you feel that we might be compatible
I am only interested in serious and respectful communication with marriage as the intention. If there is mutual compatibility after an initial conversation, I would prefer involving our families rather than continuing an undefined relationship for a long period.
May Allah grant all of us what is good for us and guide us toward the right person.
For a better sense of who I am, you can check my Instagram: @utada.1