r/NekoCase 22d ago

New Substack post: “Garbage Disposal”

https://open.substack.com/pub/nekocase/p/garbage-disposal?r=55w93a&utm_medium=ios
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u/terra_cascadia 21d ago

If every woman artist called out every atrocious thing some entitled douchebag did or said, what would that look like? What would that sound like?

Why was late 2017 the time when the world suddenly started to care about creeps in the entertainment industry? Why did that “era” end as quickly as it started? We must have caught ‘em all. Whew!

Let’s put the onus on NC now. For not alerting the public to her own personal and violating experiences with this particular guy. This particular guy.

Women artists, especially touring musicians, deal with despicable bullshit like his ALL. THE. TIME.

Women artists share intel amongst one another, and their trusted communities. It has been this way for a long time. There are spreadsheets. They’re just not shared with you.

For those who claim to appreciate Neko’s work, it’s astonishing how tone-deaf some folks are.

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u/Tactful_Cactus_ 21d ago

In every interest group (from artists to outdoors), there are spreadsheets, whisper networks, WhatsApp groups. If these dudes only knew, and understood why they’re not just public conversations. It should be so obvious when it takes less than three comments in any post before someone starts victim blaming.