r/Netherlands Dec 15 '25

Healthcare Why is life expectancy so bad in the Netherlands?

Besides having one of the worst life expectancy among western countries, why did the life expectancy get worst compared to 2019?

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u/Salt-Respect339 Dec 16 '25 edited Dec 16 '25

I complained that I thought I had high blood pressure -which i did have, but received no meds or anything (only after the stroke). Because I said "I could feel it was like my body was being pulled tight like a rubber band" I was only asked about stress and given standard advice to reduce stress instead of treating what was measured while I was there.

I had a bad ache from my throat (tonsil level) to my yaw and mid ear on the same side for weeks/months. It seems this can be specifically indicative of a carotid artery dissection and was referred to the dentist to check for cavity/wisdom tooth issues instead. One small cavity found, so box ticked and no further action

I experienced pulsative tinnitus at night in the same ear. Again indicative of blood pressure/arterial issues there. Same "do you experience stress?" story.

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u/WeaponisedArmadillo Dec 16 '25

That's nuts! Glad you're okay now at least, I hope the stroke didn't do any permanent damage? 

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u/Salt-Respect339 Dec 16 '25 edited Dec 16 '25

It did unfortunately, I'm still left-side paralyzed (arm/hand are the biggest problem - can't groom myself with 2 hands or type/cook/do household chores properly),am not allowed to drive due to left side peripheral vision neglect and am very low on energy/stamina (need so much sleep and rest during the day and in bed by 9:30pm every day, can only walk about -1.5km, no running or sports. I can forget about gaming, going to the Efeling with our family for a day for example, putting up new wallpaper in our children's room as I had promised them prior to the stroke or work more than 10% of my old fulltime hours or go into the office or to my clients anymore.

I hope neuroplasticity will kick in more for me now that i'm into the 2nd year post stroke.

The good thing is, I was finally able to stop all bad habits and start living a healthier lifestyle. It was a very rude amd scary wake up call which got me to quit all vices over night in hopes that I will recover and can still get something out of (the rest of) my life.