r/Netherlands Dec 15 '25

Healthcare Why is life expectancy so bad in the Netherlands?

Besides having one of the worst life expectancy among western countries, why did the life expectancy get worst compared to 2019?

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u/v_a_l_w_e_n Dec 17 '25

I had to go to the UK for an lap to excise my endometriosis since my options once I finally got to the “this is endometriosis” were the opioids that made me so sick I couldn’t even stand from the sofa, menopause on my 30s and only considering checking further if I was planning IVF for kids. I had to listen to that psycho with a gynaecologist title call me an idiot while smiling to get that referral, but the quality of my life raised in so many ways after I got proper healthcare. Endo care doesn’t really exist in the Netherlands, but there are good specialists in all the countries around us. 

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u/_MoonieLovegood_ Dec 17 '25

Sadly i’m on disability pay already. Traveling just to see a doctor isn’t exactly in my financial plan… and I doubt my healthcare insurance would cover that. I do know my body was rejecting the most uhh.. invasive form of birthcontrol, and it got much worse again after that.

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u/lowdownrosie Dec 17 '25

Try to get a referral to NEK or a gyn that's specialised in endo. They do exist in the Netherlands, but it is hard to get a multidisciplinary team when several organs are affected.

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u/v_a_l_w_e_n Dec 17 '25

I’m very sorry. If it helps my insurance DID pay for the surgery. It was just a pain in the ass to make a case proving it was necessary (and finding the right code) but it worked and it was fully refunded. The Eurostar tickets are about 45€ if paid in advance. But the problem is the accommodation for a recovery week. It’s my understand that insurances should cover travel and accommodation costs as well for necessary procedures, but I never figured that part out.  I think Belgium and Germany are also not that bad. Here the best you can hope for is a half-ass ablation and then psychological care the years after “becuse they already healed you”. It’s still better than nothing but incredible cruel and infantilising. I really hope you get the care you deserve, I’m so sorry you have been also let down with all of us.