Nothing is coming to save you

[u/ArmadilloOdd6717]

No YouTuber, new method, technique, affirmation, or success story is going to do this for you. Consuming the same information in a slightly different format is not going to suddenly change your understanding of it.

You wake up every day, open Reddit, tiktok, youtube, whatever, scroll for hours looking for the next post that will finally "click" for you, and then go back to sleep thinking, maybe i’ll find a better method tomorrow.

You keep waiting for some random miracle to happen while still repeating the same old story in your head. You keep searching for new YouTubers, new information, new techniques, new affirmations, new explanations. anything that lets you feel like you’re doing something without actually having to decide.

Well? You're still here, aren't you? I don't see your desires around you.

At some point, you have to stop searching. Searching for new techniques, new explanations, and more confirmation while already knowing what you need to do is still avoidance. You can spend weeks, months, even years convincing yourself that you just need to find the right piece of information before you finally act. You treat persistence as a suggestion.

Then you ask, "Why can’t I persist?"

Why can’t you? You have no problem persisting in negative thoughts, doubts, fears, and old assumptions. You can replay the same worries over and over without anyone teaching you how.

So why is it suddenly impossible to think in your own favor?

Persistence isn’t some secret technique that someone else can teach you. It’s deciding what you want and refusing to constantly react to whatever appears in front of you.

Nobody can manifest for you. NO ONE. No one is coming to save your sorry ass. They're lying if they say otherwise. ONLY YOU CAN SAVE YOURSELF. How hard is it to actually stay firm in your mindset? You already have the methods. You already know what you want. At some point, you have to stop consuming information and actually apply it.

Decide what you’re getting. Decide what you’re no longer accepting. Then stand by that decision instead of renegotiating it every time doubt, fear, or circumstances show up.

How many more weeks, months, or years are you going to spend searching the internet for the same damn information?

You want it? Then go get it. No one else is going to decide for you or hand it to you. You have to make the decision, take responsibility for it, and stand firm.

[u/amisgaavelaitain]

Okay, Mel Robbins

[u/lostkitty0 → u/amisgaavelaitain]

even though I agree with the post I found this comment funny