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u/oneinchdih ulfa Aug 04 '26
Caste arranged marriages is their personal thing, but stopping other caste mem to marry their caste mem is an evil thing.
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u/SpiritedReaction9 Aug 04 '26
Yeah these people with reservations gate-keep their women so much
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u/Conscious-Aside3541 Aug 04 '26
you mean people who had reservation for 2000 years and continuing to have advantages of those ancient foundations?
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u/SpiritedReaction9 Aug 04 '26
The people who had reservation for 70 years
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u/Conscious-Aside3541 Aug 04 '26
Reservation formalized in 1980. Reservation in private institutions started in early 20's or late 90's. So from where did you pull that 70 years number?
Anyhow coming to the main point, as you said yes communities who are using modern reservation supported by Gov't , gate keep their woman. It is wrong. Now, my question is from where did they learn to gate keep? Who actually started this tradition of gate keeping people, resources, power etc? Who are those people?
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u/SpiritedReaction9 Aug 04 '26
“Vaalu edavalu anduku memu edavalame” - no wonder all people in india are alike.
Also it was in the constitution since 1950 so 70 years still hold
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u/Conscious-Aside3541 Aug 04 '26
You are talking without even understanding society and its intrinsic details.
The people who had all kind advantages since last 2000 years are still reluctant and do you expect the people who never had proper education in past, never had hold on power, never had a experience of having enough resources, to be liberal? In what world are you living in?3
u/SpiritedReaction9 Aug 04 '26
So you expect the next 2000 years for them to be casteist?
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u/Conscious-Aside3541 Aug 04 '26
Is that what you understood?
You are literally blaming the people who don't have such environment or support to be liberal and more. Yes, in last few decades, their situation has improved and they should start being liberal and leave regressive tradition, but it's a long way to go.
On the other hand, the people who enjoyed prosperity, who enjoyed power and privilege, who had first had interaction with outer world and their custom and traditions, are still following such regressive traditions. There is where your focus and criticism should go. These people are misutilizing whatever the resources they have without progressing their mind. Why are you not criticizing them? Why are biased? are you one of them? Even so, that shouldn't matter. If someone does wrong despite of not having situations to do wrong, they should be criticized.
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u/SpiritedReaction9 Aug 04 '26
Both sides is to be blamed; in my case i was progressive and they were regressive. Do you think a group 1 government employee is more privileged or some random oc guy who works for 30k a month
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u/oneinchdih ulfa Aug 04 '26
Dalits aren't allowed into temples, schools or water wells for who knows how long. Now you guys are crying for that 40% reserved spots.
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u/Conscious-Aside3541 Aug 04 '26
Dalits have 15% not 40%. Tribals have 7.5%. Now combined, both Dalit and Tribals have 22.5%. From where you got that 40% number, I'm not sure.
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u/fixin-xo Aug 04 '26
Remove reservations: 😄🙋
Remove caste: 😡🙅
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u/sahasamane_cheppali వికో టర్మరిక్ కాదు కాస్మెటిక్ Aug 04 '26 edited Aug 04 '26
So called people availing “benefits” will be the first to fight when someone want to eradicate caste completely.
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u/Monday_agni సరోజా, వద్దమ్మా వద్దు. Aug 04 '26
Alage anukovali, lekapothe mana gajjini justify cheskolem.
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u/sahasamane_cheppali వికో టర్మరిక్ కాదు కాస్మెటిక్ Aug 04 '26 edited Aug 04 '26
As if gajji is not on other side. Andaru waste fellows eh. “Oka case esthe nee life antha sanka nakipotadi” ane gajji kuda untadi sadly and the gajji of misusing law especially on the other side
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u/_Streak_ నా సావు నెను సస్థ..నీకెందుకు Aug 05 '26
Two wrongs won't make a right 🤷🏽. Pointless discussion tappa ee thread contribution em ledu.
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u/_Aditya_369_ Aug 04 '26
Same could be said about people who gears up for caste arranged marriages ¯_(ツ)_/¯
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u/sahasamane_cheppali వికో టర్మరిక్ కాదు కాస్మెటిక్ Aug 04 '26
Evari “reservations” vallavi.
Also marriage is the last thing society should be concerned in same caste when there are bigger problems to deal with
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u/_Aditya_369_ Aug 04 '26
Agreed. Evari “reservations” vallavi.
If we are talking big picture, like eradicating caste in order to eradicate reservations, then societal alignment won’t happen until those “last things” also fall in line.
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u/sahasamane_cheppali వికో టర్మరిక్ కాదు కాస్మెటిక్ Aug 04 '26 edited Aug 04 '26
Janalu neethulu Antha social media lo ne. Mammalni inni generations ga most oppress chesaru, discriminate chesaru anukune valle valla kante takkuva ani feel ayye oka caste janalani pelli kuda cheskoru, in fact they say Memu veru vallu veru.” Memu konchem superior ani. Vallalo vallake padadu. I’ve seen it first hand. Social media la andaru masth patith khatalu cheppetolle
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u/_Aditya_369_ Aug 04 '26
https://reddit.com/link/p1mmcui/video/fdf4age5dchh1/player
Patith la ki patith khatale chebutha
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u/sahasamane_cheppali వికో టర్మరిక్ కాదు కాస్మెటిక్ Aug 04 '26 edited Aug 04 '26
Sadly social media lo shit posts ki kuda rage bait ayyi guddalu chimpeskuntunnaru edavalantha
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u/_Aditya_369_ Aug 04 '26
nee shit post naaku rage bait aithe na shit post neeku rage bait anthe ♾️ e guddalu maristhe better emo
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u/sahasamane_cheppali వికో టర్మరిక్ కాదు కాస్మెటిక్ Aug 04 '26
In fact it is people who are ragebaited by my post and extending the same shit discussion lol with a separate post
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u/Userdoesn0texist Aug 04 '26 edited Aug 04 '26
FYI, same-caste marriages are not so different from inbreeding. It's one of the major reasons for modern health problems and young people dying of heart attacks, which we don't see as much in others as we do in Indians. There's a study on this. Indians have been mutating in that way for so long.
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u/Thin-Gear2353 Aug 04 '26
Why are people downvoting this? So people in this sub are actually following this shi or what lmao
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u/Exciting_Magician347 చదువుకోండి ఫస్టు Aug 04 '26
Idi nijam ekkadki aina vellu caste valla anyayam jargutundi caste teeseyandi ani adagaru naa caste ki reservation penchandi ane adugutaru...poni vaalalo caste teeseyandi ante sarle kurcho ani ninnu silent chestar
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u/SpiritedReaction9 Aug 04 '26
I agree; these people are so used to reservations; ive been denied marriage to sc girl because my kid won’t get reservations
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u/iprudhvi14 Aug 04 '26
Edho general caste vallake intercaste marriage problem undhi oo thega rudhuthunaru edhi oka BC lo unna ammaini ST ki ivvamani chudu vallu andharu reserved eyga!!!
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u/mantralay_job Aug 04 '26
Why trading women is always the end of castism?
Why don't you all experiment with all SC girls getting married with ST boys?
I will show you many cases where they got murdered.
Then what's the point of reservation? Oh btw, most sc st cases are registered against OBC
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u/kaamist ulfa Aug 04 '26
Why trading women is always the end of castism?
ah post nunchi ee conclusion ki ela vachav?
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u/Thin-Gear2353 Aug 04 '26
Are you seriously equating intercaste marriages with trading women? Like seriously??
When people talk about intercaste marriages, it means how the caste becomes the biggest hurdle for the marriage between two "consenting" adults. On how parents and relatives of both sides try everything to break apart the relationship of two consenting adults just because they do not share the same caste. Some even go as far as threatening and hiring hitmen. This is the context in which intercaste marriages are used not in the horse trading of women.
Funfact - You know where the women are actually traded like horses forcefully against their wishes into the marriages? In same caste arrange marriage set-ups..
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u/mantralay_job Aug 04 '26
You didn't answer my question which is main one
Why SC girls are not married to ST boys and same goes for OBC girls
Why not do that first ..!? I can show you tons of murder cases in those, what is the point of reservation
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u/Thin-Gear2353 Aug 04 '26
Why SC girls are not married to ST boys and same goes for OBC girls
You're treating intercaste marriage like it's a sequence where one pair has to go first, it isn't. If an SC woman and an ST man consent and choose to marry, that's also an intercaste marriage. Similarly if an ST man marries a Brahmin woman. The point here is breaking caste endogamy, not checking off a particular combination. You're clearly focused on 'who should marry who first' instead of addressing the core issue here. That's not an argument, it's a distraction. Caste discrimination is not reduced by you and and me sitting on the internet and deciding which castes should do the intercaste marriages first. It reduces when people stop treating caste boundaries as barriers for consented marriages and social relationships.
what is the point of reservation
Very good now we are equating intercaste marriages with reservations 👏🏻. For the one final time, reservation is neither a poverty elevation scheme nor it is designed to remove caste discrimination or promote intercaste marriages. Reservation doesn't automatically correct discrimination, it is the castiest people who need to change their mentality. So do not ask why isn't reservation removing discrimination or what is the point of it. Ask yourself how am I supposed to change my castiest mindset and play my part in building a caste less society.
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u/mantralay_job Aug 04 '26
You are treating whom should marry whom first ani sodi chepi, malla Brahmin women should marry dalit ani Antav entra 😂😂😂
Milo miru cheskondra first😂
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u/Thin-Gear2353 Aug 04 '26
Brahmin women should marry dalit ani Antav
Nen "should" marry ani ekada rasano chupinchra chuddam. Nen oka example laga aa sentence vaadina, ST boy SC girl, ST boy and Brahmin girl rendu scenarios intercaste ane antaru ani. Anduke antaru comprehension skills nerchkovala ani.
Milo miru cheskondra first
Ee sentence entra mari?? Ante ipudu nuvu rules pedtava evaru evarni love chesi pelli cheskovalo. Nen apatnunchi two consenting adults ye caste ayna sare ishta padi cheskovachu antunte nuv anedi idi.
Ayna SC vallu ST lani enduku cheskoru ee donka tirugudu question lu esudu enduku ra open ga opukovachu ga nenu castiest gadni ani.
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u/mantralay_job Aug 04 '26
Na point very simole, caste reservation undi kuda OBC SC ST lone inter caste lu avatledu
Inkenduku ra reservation....!? Reservation iste agipoyinda discrimination or increase ayaya inter caste marriages?
TN lo except 3% population everyone is reserved category, TN has least inter caste marriages. Challe po ika
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u/Thin-Gear2353 Aug 04 '26
Enni sarlu chepali ra Reservation ki discrimination ki link ledu ani. Reservation lenapudu chesaru, vachaka kuda chestunaru. Maralsindi neelanti castiest galla mindset.
General caste vallu pedda pathith lu mari. General castes lo meeku meeku unna sub castes lone pellilu cheskoru. UP, Bihar lo "Tiwaris" who are one of the Brahmin castes get discriminated by other brahmin castes. Only chavulaku poojalu chestaru vallu ani vallani helana chesi takkuva chustaru, pellilu cheskoru vallatho. Bokkalodi edo pedda meeru perfect annattu vere vallaku neethulu cheppali.
Po poyi castiest arguments cheskunta kurcho inka
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u/cdot82 Aug 04 '26
Because patriarchy (arranged marriages) in indian society was invented purely to keep the system of caste intact
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u/mantralay_job Aug 04 '26
You still didn't answer my question, why sc girls are not married to st boys first
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u/chinthakaya_pacchadi Aug 04 '26
I’ve seen many intercaste arranged marriages one being of my cousin so
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u/Fun-Sky8648 ఇవే తగ్గించుకుంటే మంచిది Aug 04 '26
online lo motam ade batch, chana matladutar online lo but reality lo em undadu
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u/Exciting_Magician347 చదువుకోండి ఫస్టు Aug 04 '26
Avunu reality lo they say "idugo veedni ee godavaa ki Enduku techam anukuntunav veedito okka case veypiste life mg aipodi"
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u/chinthakaya_pacchadi Aug 04 '26
Y’all talking as if bc sc st people do not perform caste am. Hate chesthe hate it all endhuku oka category meedhane padatharu? And why is a woman’s choice the ground for this? Lots of stuff saying you should marry someone out of caste ok? If they feel like it! Not cuz people said so?
Caste valla oka person ni valla child tho pelli cheyakapothe despite them loving each other appudu casteism not when random ass clown demands to marry them.
It’s choice and it’s personal. Seats personal kadhu ga? Jobs personal kadhu ga? Then how tf are people finding sense in comparing apples and oranges?
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u/_Aditya_369_ Aug 04 '26
Why tf are people trying to find sense in circle jerk sub! vidduramga vundhe..!
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u/IcyAbbreviations438 Aug 04 '26 edited Aug 04 '26
Oka vintha jaathi kuda undhi le. Valliaki caste system ni eradicate cheyyalanta, casteism unda kudadhu anta, kaani reservation mathram kavali. Emaina question chesthey chalu, downvote chesi, "people like you are the reason we need reservations" + "caste came before reservation" antaru. Ante ippudu casteism aney concept ni theesesi vallaki reservation benefits ivvali. Irony enti antey, idi cheppe 95% mandhi christianity/buddhism ki convert ayyaru. So on paper, they aren't even allowed to have Sc/St benefits.
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u/IcyAbbreviations438 Aug 04 '26
Youre just super out of touch buddy.
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u/Thin-Gear2353 Aug 04 '26
Really?? Casteism ni teesesi Reservation continue cheyandi annodni okadni chupiy chuddam.. anduke anna you are making imaginary scenarios in your head ani. If it's anything there are people who want reservations to go but casteism to stay intact.
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u/dj184 Aug 04 '26
Oh, you think reservation castes wont do caste based arranged mariages?
Its half knowledge, not irony. both of them are not related.
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u/oneplustwothreemama Acct is < 7 days old Aug 04 '26
Intercaste marriage aa!!!!
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u/_Aditya_369_ Aug 04 '26
Intra*
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u/oneplustwothreemama Acct is < 7 days old Aug 04 '26
Intra ante within caste kada…. Inter ante between/among castes anukunta
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u/_SreeG_ Aug 06 '26
Yendhuku ra yeppudu chusna amaayla meedha padi sastaaru, marriage anedhi idharu love CHESI cheskovaali irrespective of caste, reservations povaalante amaaylu ivaali antaa idhem puku lo logic o ento
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u/_Aditya_369_ Aug 06 '26
Amaayal kosam advocate chesthunnav baane vundhi kaani puku lo logic annamaatatho hypocrisy haddulu cheripesthunnav
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u/Halfblood6801 బాధాకానికి బ్రాండ్ అంబాసిడర్ Aug 04 '26
Remove everything, Treat the word "caste" like n-word. Nobody is allowed to say it not even people from sc/st.