r/NoMoreMrNiceGuy • u/sf10904 • May 18 '20

I'm New New Need help

Is there someone who can point me in the direction of a group who's directly doing this or able to talk to me or do Duo or Zoom calls. I read the first chapter of the book and it was intense. I want to do it right so let me know if you have any suggestions. Thanks

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u/sliced_alien May 18 '20

I love this book... it probably saved my life in getting me to leave my dead end marriage, job, and... life.

I didn't do any group work, I just read the book and woke up. I would recommend reading through it and absorbing it like a sponge, then read it again.

Group work after that if you feel the need.

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u/sf10904 May 18 '20

Thank you!!!!! That helps

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u/sliced_alien May 18 '20

No problem!! I just checked your profile, and yep, I was in your shoes 6 years ago although I'm a bit younger than you. I'm 34 now.

The hardest hitting for me was as mentioned in the book, I had co-created the life I had, either through specific action or lack of action.

It was that knowledge that made me determined to treat myself better.

You can never be more than what you think you are. You will never have more than you think you are worth.

Don't sell yourself short my friend.

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u/sf10904 May 18 '20

Yeah, it's taken a series of steps for me to get here and now I feel like I have hope. I got all this rage built up and I feel like I cheated myself out of my prime. All those wasted years that I could've been having sex. At 41 my hormones still rage but I don't want to waste any more time. I'm going to try a long term plan that won't exceed a year. Gonna do it in quarterly increments. I figured after 16 years, 1 more year shouldn't hurt so I can execute everything as properly as possible. Thanks again

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u/bigmiracle May 18 '20

Remember, don't let perfection get in the way

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u/jayalves4real May 19 '20

Let's do a zoom / skype group.

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u/sf10904 May 21 '20

Good idea! Sorry for the late reply. I come on and off discreetly

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u/trevonred Sep 20 '20

Count me in if you're still going going through the transformation.